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– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje doktor Evi Dani. Dua t\u2019ju shkruaj nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimin tim dhe uroj t\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptoni e t\u00eb m\u00eb ktheni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje sa m\u00eb shpejt sepse jam shum\u00eb i shqet\u00ebsuar. Kam nj\u00eb problem gjat\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale, sepse derdhem shum\u00eb shpejt, q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies, sapo hyn penisi n\u00eb vagin\u00eb. Kam kat\u00ebr muaj q\u00eb jam martuar dhe gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe nj\u00eb her\u00eb m\u00eb ka ndodhur q\u00eb pas derdhjes s\u00eb par\u00eb, pas rreth 20 minutash, kam patur ereksion t\u00eb fort\u00eb, tamam p\u00ebr t\u00eb patur nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb. Un\u00eb pi cigare. A thua t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb? Pastaj, koh\u00ebt e fundit kam nj\u00eb ngarkes\u00eb psikologjike nga nj\u00eb presion familjar dhe p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, m\u00eb kan\u00eb dal\u00eb edhe disa pu\u00e7rra q\u00eb m\u00eb japin kruarje. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb, ku t\u00eb drejtohem e si t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohem?<\/strong><\/p>\n Dr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog: <\/u><\/em><\/strong>\u00a0– I nderuar zot\u00ebri, nj\u00eb nga problemet e meshkujve n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb derdhja e parakohshme. Nga ky fenomen vuan nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqindje e madhe e meshkujve, gjer n\u00eb 30 p\u00ebr qind. Mashkulli e fillon aktivitetin seksual mir\u00eb dhe maksimumi 1 minut\u00eb pas penetrimit, ose edhe pa b\u00ebr\u00eb penetrimin arrin t\u00eb derdhet, gj\u00eb q\u00eb sigurisht do t\u00eb sjell\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim si p\u00ebr vet\u00eb mashkullin, ashtu edhe p\u00ebr partneren. Partnerja e arrin eksitimin seksual 10 minuta m\u00eb von\u00eb sesa mashkulli, pasi eksitimi seksual te mashkulli \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i shpejt\u00eb. Me eksitim seksual kuptojm\u00eb ereksionin, forcimin e penisit, lubrifikimin dhe daljen e nj\u00eb sekrecioni t\u00eb bardh\u00eb nga uretra, fillimin e rrahjes m\u00eb t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs dhe d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale. Kjo koh\u00eb zgjat gjer n\u00eb 2 minuta, por mashkulli mund t\u00eb eksitohet kurdo e kudo, n\u00eb autobus, n\u00eb kafene, n\u00eb zyr\u00eb etj., kur ka p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb person q\u00eb e ngacmon seksualisht. Nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr, fazat e para t\u00eb eksitimit seksual i ka m\u00eb von\u00eb se mashkulli, deri n\u00eb 12 minuta m\u00eb pas.<\/p>\n – Pra, me nj\u00eb akt seksual cil\u00ebsor do t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb kur mashkulli i q\u00ebndron m\u00eb af\u00ebr femr\u00ebs dhe ka p\u00ebr detyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatis\u00eb nj\u00eb aktivitet seksual t\u00eb mir\u00eb, me prekje t\u00eb organeve seksuale, t\u00eb klitorit, gjoksit etj. n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb kjo fem\u00ebr t\u00eb eksitohet dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb ta shoq\u00ebroj\u00eb me shtimin e sekrecionit vaginal. Kjo b\u00ebhet p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb momentin e penetrimit. N\u00eb rastin kur nj\u00eb mashkull ka arritur eksitimin seksual shum\u00eb shpejt dhe arrin n\u00eb ejakulacion (orgaz\u00ebm) n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur femra \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma n\u00eb fazat e para, parnerja sigurisht q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndihet keq. Ajo po l\u00eb n\u00eb gjys\u00ebm nj\u00eb proces q\u00eb tashm\u00eb ka filluar dhe p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, do t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb dhimbje koke, m\u00ebrzitje, dhimbje barku, deziluzionim p\u00ebr arsye se ky proces k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie i domosdosh\u00ebm fiziologjik tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebrprer\u00eb. E b\u00ebra gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb hyrje p\u00ebr t\u2019ju b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb ditur se edhe ju duhet t\u00eb provoni t\u00eb b\u00ebni loj\u00ebra paraprake si\u00e7 ju thash\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr me partneren, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmoni veten duke mos arritur menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb eksitim, por t\u00eb ndihmoni edhe femr\u00ebn tuaj q\u00eb t\u00eb arrij\u00eb n\u00eb orgaz\u00ebm. Her\u00eb pas here provoni metod\u00ebn e t\u00ebrheqjes mbrapa pa penetruar, por duke e p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur partneren. N\u00ebse edhe kjo metod\u00eb nuk ju ndihmon q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie m\u00eb t\u00eb zgjatur seksuale, duhet t\u00eb provoni mjekimet p\u00ebr problemet e impotenc\u00ebs, t\u00eb cilat i kemi t\u00eb shumta dhe me rezultat pozitiv. P\u00ebrsa u p\u00ebrket pu\u00e7rrave n\u00eb organin seksual, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb nuk ka lidhje fare me k\u00ebt\u00eb proces. Do t\u2019ju k\u00ebshilloja t\u00eb b\u00ebni patjet\u00ebr nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb tek andrologu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje doktor Evi Dani. Dua t\u2019ju shkruaj nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimin tim dhe uroj t\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptoni e t\u00eb m\u00eb ktheni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje sa m\u00eb shpejt sepse jam shum\u00eb i shqet\u00ebsuar. Kam nj\u00eb problem gjat\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale, sepse derdhem shum\u00eb shpejt, q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies, sapo hyn penisi n\u00eb vagin\u00eb. Kam kat\u00ebr muaj q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12595","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mjeku","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12595","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12595"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12595\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12595"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12595"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12595"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}