{"id":12305,"date":"2016-03-07T18:30:37","date_gmt":"2016-03-07T17:30:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=12305"},"modified":"2016-03-07T15:11:28","modified_gmt":"2016-03-07T14:11:28","slug":"ja-kur-jeni-gati-te-martoheni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2016\/03\/ja-kur-jeni-gati-te-martoheni\/","title":{"rendered":"Ja, kur jeni gati t\u00eb martoheni!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nuk ekziston nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e sigurt q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoni se jeni gati t\u00eb martoheni. Disave u duhen vite q\u00eb t\u00eb marrin nj\u00eb vendim, nd\u00ebrsa disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb sigurt pas disa muajsh lidhjeje. Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00ebse vrojtoni me kujdes lidhjen tuaj, do t\u00eb vini re disa shenja t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb ju tregojn\u00eb n\u00ebse jeni gati t\u00eb b\u00ebni hapin e madh. Shihni k\u00ebtu disa prej k\u00ebtyre shenjave dhe v\u00ebrtetoni n\u00ebse ato vlejn\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr lidhjen tuaj…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. E mendoni t\u00eb ardhmen me t\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    E keni t\u00eb pamundur ta imagjinoni veten tuaj pa partnerin\/en. Kur mendoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen, partneri\/ja \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e padiskutueshme e saj dhe kjo ju mbush me g\u00ebzim.<\/p>\n

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    1. B\u00ebni plane afatgjata<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Nuk e keni problem t\u00eb b\u00ebni plane afatgjata me partnerin\/en, si p\u00ebr shembull, t\u00eb merrni nj\u00eb kredi p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb dhe nuk keni dyshime, por jeni t\u00eb sigurt se mund t\u2019i p\u00ebrballoni bashk\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e jet\u00ebs. At\u00ebher\u00eb, mbase perspektiva e nj\u00eb martese gjendet m\u00eb af\u00ebr sesa mendoni.<\/p>\n

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      1. Besim i plot\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Keni kap\u00ebrcyer frik\u00ebrat e ankthet e fillimit dhe nuk keni m\u00eb dyshime se cili \u00ebsht\u00eb drejtimi q\u00eb ka marr\u00eb lidhja juaj. Gjithashtu, nuk e pyesni veten n\u00ebse do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb gjenit dik\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. N\u00ebse keni arritur n\u00eb pik\u00ebn kur i besoni plot\u00ebsisht nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, mbase jeni t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr hapin tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

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        1. Kompromis<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Keni koh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk besoni se martesa do t\u00eb zgjidh\u00eb gjith\u00eb problemet q\u00eb dalin n\u00eb lidhjen tuaj. P\u00ebrkundrazi, e keni kuptuar se q\u00eb t\u00eb dy duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb zgjidhni problemet q\u00eb ju dalin dhe t\u00eb gjeni nj\u00eb zgjidhje q\u00eb do t\u2019ju k\u00ebnaq\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

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          1. Nuk ju bezdisin defektet<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Fakti q\u00eb keni shum\u00eb vjet bashk\u00eb, nuk p\u00ebrb\u00ebn arsye p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar. N\u00ebse nuk ju bezdisin m\u00eb defektet e vogla, \u00ebndrrat dhe zgjedhjet e partnerit tuaj, at\u00ebher\u00eb ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb p\u00ebrparoni drejt nj\u00eb stadi tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb lidhjes.<\/p>\n

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            1. Ndiheni mir\u00eb s\u00eb bashku<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Kur edhe aktivitetet e thjeshta si, t\u00eb b\u00ebni pazar s\u00eb bashku, t\u00eb gatuani, apo t\u00eb ndiqni serialin tuaj t\u00eb preferuar n\u00eb televizor, ju mbushin me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, duhet t\u00eb mendoni se ka ardhur momenti ta zyrtarizoni lidhjen tuaj.<\/p>\n

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              1. B\u00ebni plane p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Ju p\u00eblqen ideja e nj\u00eb dasme romantike, por e keni kuptuar tashm\u00eb se festa nuk zgjat gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn dhe ky mendim nuk ju bezdis. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, jeni gati p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar dhe jo thjesht p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb ceremonin\u00eb e dasm\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

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                1. Ndjeni siguri p\u00ebr ndjenjat e partnerit\/es.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Jeni t\u00eb sigurt p\u00ebr ndjenjat e partnerit\/es suaj. Nuk ndjeni nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb shfaqur vazhdimisht ndjenjat tuaja, as p\u00ebr t\u00eb pritur nga partneri t\u2019ua shfaq\u00eb ato pa pushim.<\/p>\n

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                  1. Keni mbushur 25 vje\u00e7<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    Jeni t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 25 vje\u00e7. Shum\u00eb vet\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se, pasi keni mbushur t\u00eb 25-tat, jeni mjaft t\u00eb pjekur p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb vendimin q\u00eb t\u00eb martoheni.<\/p>\n

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                    1. Doni t\u00eb plot\u00ebsoni nevojat e tjetrit\/\u00ebs<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      E dini q\u00eb jeni t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb bini n\u00eb kompromis e t\u00eb gjeni zgjidhje t\u00eb pranueshme nga t\u00eb dy. N\u00ebse respektimi i d\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb partnerit tuaj ju vjen natyrsh\u00ebm, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

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                      1. B\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb shfaqni tiparet tuaja m\u00eb t\u00eb mira<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                        N\u00ebse partneri, me sjelljen e tij, b\u00ebn q\u00eb ju t\u00eb shfaqni tiparet tuaja m\u00eb t\u00eb mira, at\u00ebher\u00eb me siguri, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i duhuri p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar jet\u00ebn me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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                        1. Flisni p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje financiare<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                          N\u00ebse mund t\u00eb flisni hapur p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje financiare dhe t\u00eb tregoni t\u00eb metat dhe dhuntit\u00eb tuaja, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prov\u00eb q\u00eb tregon se lidhja juaj ka b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n

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                          1. Nuk ju frik\u00ebson monogamia<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                            Pranoni faktin se nuk bezdiseni n\u00ebse zgjoheni \u00e7do m\u00ebngjes me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin person p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebn e mbetur t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, ideja e monogamis\u00eb nuk ju tremb m\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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                            1. Mendimi juaj i par\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                              Partneri \u00ebsht\u00eb njeriu i par\u00eb q\u00eb ju vjen n\u00eb mendje kur m\u00ebsoni ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb re t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb apo e keqe.<\/p>\n

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                              1. Flisni p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                M\u00eb par\u00eb, ideja p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb ju trembte, por tanim\u00eb, kjo tem\u00eb b\u00ebn pjes\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb bisedat tuaja. Mbase keni marr\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi edhe ndonj\u00eb kafsh\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb si \u00ebsht\u00eb ta rrisni s\u00eb bashku. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb shum\u00eb e fuqishme.<\/p>\n

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                                1. Tregoni interes p\u00ebr dasm\u00ebn<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                  N\u00ebse keni filluar t\u00eb shihni unazat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe t\u2019i admironi, n\u00ebse ndaloni para dyqaneve me fustane nuseje, apo shfletoni revista dasme, at\u00ebher\u00eb me siguri keni arritur n\u00eb pik\u00ebn ku e mendoni seriozisht martes\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

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                                  1. N\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb keqe<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                    Nj\u00eb \u00e7ift i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00ebndron bashk\u00eb edhe n\u00eb situata t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira. N\u00ebse e keni par\u00eb partnerin n\u00eb momentet e tij m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur ishte i brisht\u00eb e i pafuqish\u00ebm dhe e kund\u00ebrta, at\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb lidhje shum\u00eb e fort\u00eb mes jush dhe jeni gati t\u00eb b\u00ebni hapin e madh.<\/p>\n

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                                    1. Mezi prisni<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                      N\u00ebse e keni kap\u00ebrcyar stadin kur ndjenit kureshti p\u00ebr ish-in tuaj dhe nuk keni asnj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb mendoni gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndodhur n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se jeni t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb lidhjen tuaj t\u00eb re dhe mezi prisni t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb hap p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n

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                                      1. Numri i par\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                        N\u00ebse telefoni i partnerit gjendet i pari n\u00eb list\u00ebn e telefonave t\u00eb urgjenc\u00ebs, \u00ebsht\u00eb pothuajse e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se i besoni atij aq sa t\u00eb b\u00ebhet bashk\u00ebshorti juaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                                        Nuk ekziston nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e sigurt q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoni se jeni gati t\u00eb martoheni. Disave u duhen vite q\u00eb t\u00eb marrin nj\u00eb vendim, nd\u00ebrsa disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb sigurt pas disa muajsh lidhjeje. Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00ebse vrojtoni me kujdes lidhjen tuaj, do t\u00eb vini re disa shenja t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb ju tregojn\u00eb n\u00ebse jeni gati […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":12306,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12305","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12305","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12305"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12305\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12306"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12305"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12305"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12305"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}