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– Jam 16 vje\u00e7e dhe eci gjithmon\u00eb me parimet e mia, nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb m\u00eb shkel\u00eb kush dhe nuk i l\u00eb vend vetes q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb flasin keq p\u00ebr mua, por para disa muajsh <\/strong>u njoha me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Nuk pata asnj\u00eb lidhje me t\u00eb. Edhe pse m\u00eb p\u00eblqente, doja t\u2019i jepja koh\u00eb vetes, por q\u00eb nga ajo koh\u00eb ai filloi t\u00eb fliste keq p\u00ebr mua sepse si duket, i erdhi inat q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk ia vara si\u00e7 donte ai. P\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e keqe dhe kjo, fal\u00eb thashethemeve t\u00eb tij t\u00eb ndyra. Fakti q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt mendojn\u00eb kaq keq p\u00ebr mua, po m\u00eb mundon shum\u00eb. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni si t\u00eb veproj q\u00eb t\u00eb rregulloj imazhin tim?<\/strong><\/p>\n Borana Marku, psikologe:<\/u><\/em><\/strong> – E dashur 16 vje\u00e7are, n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ju vet\u00eb ndiheni e past\u00ebr, nuk keni pse t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni se \u00e7far\u00eb mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Do t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr ca koh\u00eb, por kur t\u00eb shohin t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn me sy, do t\u00eb pendohen dhe do t\u00eb vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb jeni ju v\u00ebrtet. Shqet\u00ebsimi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb me vend, pasi secili prej nesh k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb imazh t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb apo n\u00eb komunitetin ku jeton, por duhet t\u00eb vler\u00ebsosh gjithmon\u00eb njer\u00ebzit me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt t\u00eb lidh jeta. \u00c7far\u00eb vendi z\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj? A jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb dashur dhe t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr ju? N\u00ebse k\u00ebta persona q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb negativisht nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr ju, at\u00ebhere, pse duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm mendimi i tyre?! Duajeni veten m\u00eb shum\u00eb, sepse askush nuk ju do m\u00eb shum\u00eb se\u00e7 doni ju veten. Le t\u00eb jet\u00eb mendimi i tyre, jo i juaji. Nd\u00ebrsa djalit n\u00eb fjal\u00eb mos i flisni m\u00eb kurr\u00eb, largojeni nj\u00eb her\u00eb e mir\u00eb edhe nga shoq\u00ebria juaj. Edhe n\u00ebse tenton t\u2019ju flas\u00eb, thjesht injorojeni me indiferenc\u00ebn tuaj. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – Jam 16 vje\u00e7e dhe eci gjithmon\u00eb me parimet e mia, nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb m\u00eb shkel\u00eb kush dhe nuk i l\u00eb vend vetes q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb flasin keq p\u00ebr mua, por para disa muajsh u njoha me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Nuk pata asnj\u00eb lidhje me t\u00eb. Edhe pse m\u00eb p\u00eblqente, doja t\u2019i jepja […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[92,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12293","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-halle","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12293","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12293"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12293\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12293"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12293"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12293"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}