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– Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 28 vje\u00e7e q\u00eb kam nj\u00eb problem, ndoshta psikologjik. Kalova nj\u00eb histori dashurie, jam ndar\u00eb dhe kam shtr\u00ebngime n\u00eb gjoks, sidomos n\u00eb kraharor, marrje fryme dhe rrahje t\u00eb shpeshta zemre. U b\u00ebn\u00eb pes\u00eb muaj q\u00eb vuaj prej k\u00ebsaj dhe nuk di si ta kuroj. M\u00eb duket sikur nga momenti n\u00eb moment do t\u00eb m\u00eb ndodh\u00eb di\u00e7ka e keqe. Nuk di si ta qet\u00ebsoj veten me qet\u00ebsues. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni si t\u00eb veproj, se m\u00eb duket se po \u00e7mendem. M\u00eb thoni edhe ndonj\u00eb em\u00ebr ila\u00e7i…<\/strong><\/p>\n Borana Marku, psikologe:<\/u><\/em> <\/strong>\u00a0– Ata pak rreshta q\u00eb keni shkruar, tregojn\u00eb se ju jeni para nj\u00eb gjendjeje ankthioze, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn duhet t\u00eb konsultoheni me nj\u00eb specialist psikolog. K\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje e kalojn\u00eb shum\u00eb femra pas nj\u00eb ndarjeje dhe ajo q\u00eb un\u00eb ju k\u00ebshilloj \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e merrni me kaq ankth. Mundohuni t\u00eb mos e mendoni, ose regjistrohuni n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb palest\u00ebr, apo kurs k\u00ebrcimi, dilni me shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb t\u00eb humbisni mendjen. Nuk ju zgjidh asgj\u00eb n\u00ebse s\u00ebmureni p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka dashur t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb me ju. Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e shkurt\u00ebr p\u00ebr ta mbajtur kok\u00ebn mbrapa. \u00c7do gj\u00eb ndodh p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Dit\u00ebt e para do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, por do t\u00eb shikoni q\u00eb do t\u00eb vij\u00eb dita kur do t\u00eb qeshni me veten tuaj p\u00ebr gjendjen q\u00eb e keni lejuar veten t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb. Nuk ia vlen t\u00eb derdhni asnj\u00eb pik\u00eb loti p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person q\u00eb nuk ka dashur t\u2019ia dij\u00eb p\u00ebr ndjenjat tuaja apo p\u00ebr vet\u00eb ju. Keni pes\u00eb muaj q\u00eb jeni ndar\u00eb dhe ju jeni ende n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb keqe, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ish-i juaj mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb duke b\u00ebr\u00eb qejf. E kuptoni se \u00e7far\u00eb po i b\u00ebni vetes? Dilni, arg\u00ebtohuni, jetojeni jet\u00ebn, njihuni me t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, nuk ishte vet\u00ebm ai n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb. Ekziston nj\u00eb person q\u00eb do t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur \u00a0dhe do t\u2019jua kthej\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshjen, por n\u00ebse ju q\u00ebndroni e mbyllur brenda vetes duke qar\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb keni kaluar, nuk do ta gjeni kurr\u00eb qet\u00ebsin\u00eb. Keni qar\u00eb, keni b\u00ebrtitur dhe kan\u00eb kaluar 5 muaj. Mos e ktheni ndjenj\u00ebn tuaj n\u00eb fiksim. Ka ardhur momenti t\u00eb ngriheni. Ju k\u00ebrkoni edhe ndonj\u00eb ila\u00e7, por mendoj se sh\u00ebrimin e keni vet\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb. N\u00ebse nuk arrini t\u2019ia dilni mban\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb k\u00ebshillohuni me nj\u00eb mjek specialist q\u00eb t\u00eb merrni disa antidepresiv\u00eb bimor\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 28 vje\u00e7e q\u00eb kam nj\u00eb problem, ndoshta psikologjik. Kalova nj\u00eb histori dashurie, jam ndar\u00eb dhe kam shtr\u00ebngime n\u00eb gjoks, sidomos n\u00eb kraharor, marrje fryme dhe rrahje t\u00eb shpeshta zemre. U b\u00ebn\u00eb pes\u00eb muaj q\u00eb vuaj prej k\u00ebsaj dhe nuk di si ta kuroj. M\u00eb duket sikur nga momenti n\u00eb moment […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[92,86,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-halle","category-psikologu","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12231","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12231"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12231\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12231"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12231"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12231"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}