{"id":12167,"date":"2016-02-23T15:30:28","date_gmt":"2016-02-23T14:30:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=12167"},"modified":"2016-02-23T12:06:30","modified_gmt":"2016-02-23T11:06:30","slug":"18-sekrete-qe-burrat-do-te-donin-qe-ju-ti-dinit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2016\/02\/18-sekrete-qe-burrat-do-te-donin-qe-ju-ti-dinit\/","title":{"rendered":"18 sekrete q\u00eb burrat do t\u00eb donin q\u00eb ju t\u2019i dinit"},"content":{"rendered":"

Partneri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb edukuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tradicionale? At\u00ebher\u00eb atij i kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se nuk duhet t\u2019i shpreh\u00eb ndjenjat e tij! N\u00ebse ai nuk flet, po e b\u00ebjm\u00eb ne n\u00eb vend t\u00eb tij, duke ju rr\u00ebfyer disa sekrete \u201cburr\u00ebrore\u201d, t\u00eb grumbulluara nga psikolog\u00ebt q\u00eb studiojn\u00eb rolet e dy sekseve. Ja, cilat jan\u00eb ato!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Sekreti 1. Ai mund ta ket\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u2019i shpreh\u00eb ndjenjat n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb jo t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Pyete se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte n\u00eb nj\u00eb fundjav\u00eb romantike, ose \u00e7far\u00eb mendoi her\u00ebn e par\u00eb kur ju pa. P\u00ebrgjigjet e tij do t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se si ndjehet dhe do t\u2019ju afrojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 2. Ai mund ta ket\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb shprehet me vepra.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Disa burra preferojn\u00eb t\u2019i tregojn\u00eb ndjenjat n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet veprave dhe jo fjal\u00ebve. I dashuri yt mund t\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb dua\u201d duke rregulluar sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, duke u kujdesur p\u00ebr kopshtin, ose edhe duke derdhur plehrat, gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb e b\u00ebn bot\u00ebn tuaj nj\u00eb vend m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 3. Burrat i marrin angazhimet seriozisht.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Burrat kan\u00eb nj\u00eb reputacion se kan\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb angazhohen, por faktet tregojn\u00eb se ata e marrin martes\u00ebn seriozisht. Ata e kan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb angazhohen sepse duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt q\u00eb kan\u00eb marr\u00eb vendimin e duhur. N\u00eb nj\u00eb anket\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb me burrat e martuar, 90% e tyre u shpreh se do t\u00eb martoheshin p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn grua.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 4. Ai ju d\u00ebgjon v\u00ebrtet.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kur ju d\u00ebgjoni dik\u00eb q\u00eb flet, ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb pohoni me nj\u00eb \u201cpo\u201d, ose l\u00ebvizje koke her\u00eb pas here. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra juaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cpo d\u00ebgjoj\u201d. Por, ka burra q\u00eb nuk e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm pse ai nuk po thot\u00eb asgj\u00eb, nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se nuk po d\u00ebgjon. Ai mund t\u00eb preferoj\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb pa fjal\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb po i thoni.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 5. Aktivitetet e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta formojn\u00eb lidhje.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Burrat i forcojn\u00eb lidhjet me partneret duke b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00ebra s\u00eb bashku, m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa duke ndar\u00eb me to mendime apo ndjenja. Shum\u00eb burra, aktivitete si sporti dhe seksi i b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehen m\u00eb af\u00ebr partneres.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 6. Burrat kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebn.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb kryerja e aktiviteteve t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, ata kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb koh\u00eb edhe vet\u00ebm. N\u00ebse partnerit tuaj i p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb sport, kopshtaria, apo palestra, inkurajojeni t\u00eb ndjek\u00eb pasionet e tij, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ju merreni me tuajat. Kur t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt kan\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb kujdesen p\u00ebr veten, ata kan\u00eb edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb tjetrit.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 7. Ata m\u00ebsojn\u00eb prej baballar\u00ebve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse do t\u00eb dish si do t\u00eb sillet nj\u00eb burr\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje, njihu me baban\u00eb e tij. Shihni si jan\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet bab\u00eb-bir dhe si sillet babai me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e partnerit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb parashikuar se si ky burr\u00eb do t\u00eb sillet me gruan e tij.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 8. Burrat i harrojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb shpejt se grat\u00eb.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Grat\u00eb kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u2019i kujtojn\u00eb m\u00eb gjat\u00eb eksperiencat negative dhe mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb brenda ndjenja stresi, ankthi apo trishtimi. Ndryshe nga kjo, burrat nuk i sjellin shum\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr mend ngjarjet e pak\u00ebndshme dhe kalojn\u00eb te gj\u00ebrat e tjera. K\u00ebshtu, n\u00ebse ju doni t\u00eb flisni prap\u00eb p\u00ebr grindjen e mbr\u00ebmshme, ai mund ta ket\u00eb harruar fare at\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 9. Burrat nuk i kapin sinjalet delikate q\u00eb u d\u00ebrgoni.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Burrat ka gjasa t\u00eb mos i kapin sinjalet delikate q\u00eb u d\u00ebrgoni, si toni i z\u00ebrit dhe shprehja e fytyr\u00ebs. Ata gjithashtu mund t\u00eb mos e v\u00ebn\u00eb re trishtimin n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e nj\u00eb gruaje. N\u00ebse doni q\u00eb partneri juaj t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb caktuar, thuajani tro\u00e7.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 10. Burrat reagojn\u00eb ndaj vler\u00ebsimeve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vler\u00ebsimi q\u00eb tregon p\u00ebr partnerin mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ai vepron. Kini parasysh rolin prind\u00ebror: Studimet kan\u00eb treguar se baballar\u00ebt tregohen m\u00eb t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u2019u kujdesur p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kur grat\u00eb e tyre e vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrfshirje dhe i konsiderojn\u00eb si t\u00eb aft\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 11. Burrat mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr seksin… shum\u00eb.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ok, mbase ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sekret. Shumica e burrave n\u00ebn 60 vje\u00e7 mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr seksin t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb, krahasuar me \u00e7erekun e grave. Por kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjitha. Burrat fantazojn\u00eb p\u00ebr seksin afro dy her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa grat\u00eb dhe fantazit\u00eb e tyre jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shum\u00ebllojshme. Ata mendojn\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr seksin me t\u00eb tjera m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa grat\u00eb, por t\u00eb mendosh, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj si ta b\u00ebsh!<\/p>\n

Sekreti 12. Burrat nuk e shohin seksin si thjesht seks.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mit se burrave u duket seksi thjesht seks. P\u00ebr shum\u00eb prej tyre, seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb akt i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm mes dy njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb kan\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr detyrime ndaj nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Ashtu si shumica e grave, burrat mendojn\u00eb se seksi mes dy njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb duhen \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqsh\u00ebm. Nj\u00eb arsye \u00ebsht\u00eb se partner\u00ebt afatgjat\u00eb din\u00eb si ta k\u00ebnaqin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa t\u00eb huajt.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 13. Atij i p\u00eblqen kur e b\u00ebni ju hapin e par\u00eb.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Shum\u00eb burra kan\u00eb ndjesin\u00eb se vet\u00ebm ata e fillojn\u00eb seksin, por edhe atyre u p\u00eblqen t\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb d\u00ebshiruar dhe do t\u00eb donin q\u00eb partnerja e tyre ta b\u00ebnte m\u00eb shpesh hapin e par\u00eb. Mos e kini siklet t\u2019i tregoni partnerit se keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb. N\u00ebse nganj\u00ebher\u00eb e b\u00ebni ju hapin e par\u00eb, mund t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqeni m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb dy.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 14. Burrat nuk jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb gati p\u00ebr seks<\/strong><\/p>\n

Grat\u00eb mund t\u00eb \u00e7uditen me k\u00ebt\u00eb, por burrat nuk jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr seks. Ashtu si grat\u00eb, burrat jan\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb stresuar nga puna, familja, faturat dhe stresi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vras\u00ebs i epshit. Kur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cjo sonte\u201d, kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ka humbur interesin p\u00ebr ju, por thjesht q\u00eb nuk do seks n\u00eb at\u00eb moment.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 15. Burrat duan ta k\u00ebnaqin partneren.<\/strong><\/p>\n

K\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr partnerin tuaj, por ai nuk e di se \u00e7far\u00eb doni n\u00ebse nuk ia thoni. Shum\u00eb gra kan\u00eb ndrojtje ta thon\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb u p\u00eblqen ose jo n\u00eb shtrat. N\u00ebse ju ia thoni atij hapur, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb nuk i l\u00ebndon egon, do t\u2019ju d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb. Sepse, ai e di se do t\u00eb ndjehet mir\u00eb n\u00ebse edhe ju ndiheni mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 16. Burrat kan\u00eb ankthin e performanc\u00ebs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Shumica e burrave ka raste q\u00eb ndjehen n\u00eb ankth n\u00ebse do t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb ta kryejn\u00eb si\u00e7 duhet aktin seksual, sidomos me kalimin e mosh\u00ebs. Partneri juaj mund t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohet p\u00ebr trupin e tij, teknik\u00ebn dhe se sa do ta zgjas\u00eb aktin. N\u00ebse do ta ndihmoni t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u00eb relaksohet dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb i p\u00ebrqendruar n\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e momentit, seksi do t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb pak stres.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 17. Burrat tradhtojn\u00eb kur nuk u plot\u00ebsohen nevojat.<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb nuk ndjen dashuri dhe vler\u00ebsim n\u00eb lidhjen e tij, ai mund t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb ato gjetk\u00eb. Nj\u00ebri mund t\u00eb zhytet me kok\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb, nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb fiksohet pas sportit e videoloj\u00ebrave dhe disa, tradhtojn\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar k\u00ebt\u00eb, partner\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb punojn\u00eb s\u00eb bashku p\u00ebr t\u00eb plot\u00ebsuar nevojat e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit.<\/p>\n

Sekreti 18. Ai b\u00ebn p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr lidhjen.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Shumica e burrave e kuptojn\u00eb se kan\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb humbur n\u00ebse nj\u00eb lidhje nuk shkon si\u00e7 duhet: jo vet\u00ebm shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e tjetrit, por gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn q\u00eb kan\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar s\u00eb bashku. N\u00ebse ju jeni e gatshme t\u00eb punoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb forcuar lidhjen tuaj, ka gjasa q\u00eb edhe partneri juaj t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithashtu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Partneri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb edukuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tradicionale? At\u00ebher\u00eb atij i kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se nuk duhet t\u2019i shpreh\u00eb ndjenjat e tij! N\u00ebse ai nuk flet, po e b\u00ebjm\u00eb ne n\u00eb vend t\u00eb tij, duke ju rr\u00ebfyer disa sekrete \u201cburr\u00ebrore\u201d, t\u00eb grumbulluara nga psikolog\u00ebt q\u00eb studiojn\u00eb rolet e dy sekseve. Ja, cilat jan\u00eb ato!   Sekreti 1. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":12168,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12167","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12167","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12167"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12167\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12168"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12167"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12167"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12167"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}