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– Doktor Evi, ju p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes. Kam problem me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale. Po b\u00ebja dashuri p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time dhe isha plot\u00ebsisht i paaft\u00eb, nuk e kreva dot aktin seksual. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb vuri n\u00eb nj\u00eb pozit\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Theksoj q\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time dhe nuk m\u00eb kishte ndodhur m\u00eb par\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb. Tani m\u00eb ka z\u00ebn\u00eb frika t\u00eb b\u00ebj seks s\u00ebrish, kam frik\u00eb se tani ajo nuk m\u00eb shikon dot m\u00eb si burr\u00eb. Nuk e di \u00e7\u2019m\u00eb gjeti, por sa fillova, kisha ereksion dhe gati-gati ejakulova. M\u00eb pas, sa doja t\u00eb filloja penetrimin, e humba ereksionin. S\u2019e kuptova se \u00e7\u2019m\u00eb gjeti… Frika, emocionet, nuk e mora vesh. M\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj q\u00eb ta kaloj k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje. A duhet t\u00eb vizitohem?<\/strong><\/p>\n Dr. Evi Dani, seksolog-androlog:<\/u><\/em><\/strong> –<\/em><\/strong> I nderuar lexues, raste t\u00eb tilla na paraqiten shpesh si me letra, ashtu edhe n\u00eb poliklinik\u00eb dhe e kuptoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb shqet\u00ebsimin e panikun q\u00eb ju ka z\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen. K\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb, ne e kemi trajtuar dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn, ndaj ju sqaroj s\u00ebrish se akti seksual lidhet me nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb mekanizmash hormonal\u00eb, psikologjik\u00eb, nervor\u00eb dhe vazal\u00eb. Ky mekaniz\u00ebm, tashm\u00eb i njohur, fillon me trurin, prandaj themi q\u00eb organi seksual nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht penisi, por truri i mashkullit. Te mashkulli, n\u00eb momentin e eksitimit seksual, vihen n\u00eb l\u00ebvizje hormonet dopamin\u00eb dhe oksitocin\u00eb (q\u00eb ndodhen n\u00eb tru) dhe n\u00eb vazhdim, dy sistemet nervore, simpatik e parasimpatik, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet mekanizmave t\u00eb unitetit t\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrtave, veprojn\u00eb duke zgjeruar en\u00ebt e gjakut t\u00eb penisit dhe, p\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, shkaktojn\u00eb ereksionin. Sistemi nervor simpatik quhet sistemi i alarmit dhe ngushton en\u00ebt e gjakut, nd\u00ebrsa parasimpatiku, i zgjeron ato. Kur nj\u00ebri sistem nervor \u00ebsht\u00eb nxitur m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb krahasim me tjetrin, shkaktohet ose ereksioni, ose mungesa e tij. N\u00eb rastin e nj\u00eb gjendjeje frike, ashtu si edhe te ju, vepron sistemi nervor simpatik dhe, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, mashkulli do t\u00eb d\u00ebshtoj\u00eb para aktit seksual, pasi ereksioni nuk do t\u00eb kryhet.<\/p>\n – Ama, duhet t\u00eb dini q\u00eb n\u00eb fillimet e aktivitetit seksual, shum\u00eb meshkuj mund t\u00eb d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb. Kjo gjendje u krijon atyre frik\u00eb dhe pasiguri p\u00ebr nj\u00eb akt t\u00eb dyt\u00eb seksual, si\u00e7 ka ndodhur edhe me ju dhe gjendja thellohet akoma m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ky d\u00ebshtim ndodh s\u00ebrish. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ju keni s\u00ebrish frik\u00eb t\u00eb rifilloni aktet seksuale me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn, ju k\u00ebshilloj nj\u00eb takim me mjekun specialist, i cili n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet konsult\u00ebs apo mjekimit, do t\u00eb mund\u00ebsoj\u00eb kryerjen e nj\u00eb akti seksual cil\u00ebsor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" – Doktor Evi, ju p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes. Kam problem me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale. Po b\u00ebja dashuri p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time dhe isha plot\u00ebsisht i paaft\u00eb, nuk e kreva dot aktin seksual. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb vuri n\u00eb nj\u00eb pozit\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Theksoj q\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time dhe nuk m\u00eb kishte […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12003","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mjeku","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12003","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12003"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12003\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12003"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12003"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12003"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}