{"id":11955,"date":"2016-02-02T19:30:03","date_gmt":"2016-02-02T18:30:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11955"},"modified":"2016-02-02T12:42:59","modified_gmt":"2016-02-02T11:42:59","slug":"10-rregulla-te-marteses-qe-nuk-duhet-ti-zbatoni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2016\/02\/10-rregulla-te-marteses-qe-nuk-duhet-ti-zbatoni\/","title":{"rendered":"10 rregulla t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, q\u00eb NUK duhet t\u2019i zbatoni!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nuk kemi pse ta g\u00ebnjejm\u00eb veten; martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. N\u00ebse ju duket e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb gjeni njeriun e duhur, imagjinoni si do t\u2019ju duket ta kaloni gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn p\u00ebrkrah nj\u00eb njeriu! Rregullat e nj\u00eb martese (p\u00ebrve\u00e7 atyre q\u00eb lexon prifti n\u00eb kish\u00eb), jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare. Nuk ndodh rrall\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti q\u00eb t\u00eb dy bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt t\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb se rregullat dhe ndalimet jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shumta sesa k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar r\u00ebnien n\u00eb nj\u00eb kurth t\u00eb till\u00eb, q\u00eb zakonisht p\u00ebrcaktohet nga prind\u00ebrit (e t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebve) me perceptime t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn (e koh\u00ebrave t\u00eb shkuara), fillojeni martes\u00ebn duke mos zbatuar rregullat q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb domosdoshme dhe do t\u00eb shihni se si gj\u00ebrat do t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb harmonike. K\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebr shembull, nuk ia vlen ta detyroni partnerin t\u00eb b\u00ebni sauna bashk\u00eb \u00e7do t\u00eb shtun\u00eb n\u00eb dark\u00eb, apo partneren t\u00eb shoh\u00eb futboll me ju \u00e7do t\u00eb diel\u00eb. Ja, disa rregulla t\u00eb martes\u00ebs q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoja t\u2019i zbatoni…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. \u201cMos shkoni n\u00eb shtrat t\u00eb nevrikosur\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb thuhet, por e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta b\u00ebsh dhe m\u00eb mir\u00eb, as t\u00eb mos p\u00ebrpiqesh. Pa dyshim, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb flesh me nerva, pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse je i martuar apo jo, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb as t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb zgjidhni mosmarr\u00ebveshjet tuaja me partnerin\/en nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb jeni t\u00eb lodhur q\u00eb t\u00eb dy. Gjumi do t\u2019ju \u00e7lodh\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb zgjoheni me humor t\u00eb ndryshuar, zakonisht m\u00eb pozitiv, p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur problemet q\u00eb ju ndajn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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    1. \u201cT\u00eb jeni gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb\u201d <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Sinqeriteti \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb koncept i mbivler\u00ebsuar, kur p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb tij sakrifikohen ndjenjat e dikujt. M\u00eb sakt\u00eb, ne nuk po ju k\u00ebshillojm\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebnjeni, por t\u00eb evitoni t\u00eb treguarit e disa gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb nuk i sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb lidhjes. K\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebr shembull, mund t\u00eb mos tregoheni t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebr lidhjet e vjetra, q\u00eb mund t\u00eb sjellin krahasime t\u00eb pad\u00ebshiruara e zhg\u00ebnjime dhe q\u00eb nuk e l\u00ebn\u00eb martes\u00ebn t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n

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      1. \u201cB\u00ebjini gjithmon\u00eb pushimet bashk\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Rregullimi i ekskluzivitetit t\u00eb pushimeve nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm i parealizuesh\u00ebm n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste, por edhe i d\u00ebmsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr lidhjen. Nevoja e dy bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar koh\u00eb s\u00eb bashku \u00ebsht\u00eb e \u00e7muar dhe krijon probleme kur nuk ekziston. Por, n\u00ebse nj\u00ebri do t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb mal dhe tjetri n\u00eb det, nj\u00ebri do spa dhe tjetri kamping, m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb shkoni secili disa dit\u00eb m\u00eb vete aty ku d\u00ebshironi, mbase me ndonj\u00eb shok\/shoqe, sesa t\u00eb grindeni dhe t\u00eb ndaheni n\u00eb mes t\u00eb pushimeve. M\u00eb von\u00eb pastaj do t\u00eb ndjeheni t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur t\u00eb b\u00ebni pushime t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta.<\/p>\n

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        1. \u201cZ\u00ebnkat t\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb drejt e n\u00eb divorc\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb imagjinohen pasojat shkat\u00ebrrimtare q\u00eb ka te nj\u00eb lidhje moszgjidhja e tensioneve. K\u00ebto t\u00eb fundit ekzistojn\u00eb e do t\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb dhe, kur grumbullohen brenda nesh, na b\u00ebjn\u00eb keq jo vet\u00ebm neve, por edhe lidhjes son\u00eb. Gjeni nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur diferencat q\u00eb keni, pa dal\u00eb nga kontrolli i situat\u00ebs, pa thyer gota e pjata, por gjithmon\u00eb kujtohuni t\u2019i zgjidhni!<\/p>\n

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          1. \u201cF\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb prioritetin\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Ndodh shpesh te \u00e7iftet e reja ta v\u00ebn\u00eb lidhjen e tyre n\u00eb vend t\u00eb dyt\u00eb, p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, duke harruar r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e nj\u00eb lidhjeje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme, jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ata, por edhe p\u00ebr vet\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk do t\u00eb p\u00ebsojn\u00eb gj\u00eb, as nuk do t\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb braktisur, n\u00ebse i kushtoni pak koh\u00eb edhe lidhjes suaj, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb ju zbavisin. Mos harroni se \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ta ndjejn\u00eb se prind\u00ebrit e tyre duhen dhe jo t\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb se jan\u00eb shkaku i fatkeq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n

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            1. \u201cMos flini kurr\u00eb n\u00eb krevate t\u00eb ndara\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Edhe nj\u00eb mit tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb duhet rr\u00ebzuar, sepse gjumi \u00ebsht\u00eb i shenjt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe oraret e ndryshme t\u00eb \u00e7iftit mund t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsojn\u00eb gjumin e nj\u00ebrit apo t\u00eb tjetrit. Kur ju flini her\u00ebt, kurse bashk\u00ebshortja do t\u00eb lexoj\u00eb me drit\u00ebn ndezur deri von\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb keq q\u00eb nj\u00ebri nga ju t\u00eb flej\u00eb n\u00eb divanin e kuzhin\u00ebs, sepse k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb evitoni gjendjen q\u00eb shkakton mungesa e gjumit. Vet\u00ebm mos ngat\u00ebrroni fjetjen n\u00eb krevate t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta me pak\u00ebsimin e jet\u00ebs suaj seksuale. Tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb kjo dhe tjet\u00ebr, ajo…<\/p>\n

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              1. \u201cSinkronizoni pasionet tuaja\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                N\u00ebse juve ju p\u00eblqen ta kaloni koh\u00ebn e lir\u00eb n\u00eb palest\u00ebr dhe asaj i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb lexoj\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb secili t\u00eb ndjek\u00eb pasionet e tij, mjafton q\u00eb t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqura. Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00ebri t\u00eb sakrifikohet dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb i p\u00eblqen tjetrit, sepse presioni t\u00eb \u00e7on n\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, pa krye. E vetmja gj\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb keni parasysh \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb gjeni koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar edhe s\u00eb bashku, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos i b\u00ebni t\u00eb gjitha ve\u00e7 e ve\u00e7. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb edhe jeni martuar, apo jo?<\/p>\n

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                1. \u00abGjith\u00e7ka merr fund kur shuhet flaka e pasionit\u201d <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00eb ata q\u00eb dridhen nga frika se mos shuhet flaka e pasionit n\u00eb lidhje, duke menduar gabimisht se kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb lidhjes i erdhi fundi. Megjithat\u00eb, askush q\u00eb ka pasur nj\u00eb lidhje afatgjat\u00eb nuk pretendon se kjo flak\u00eb do t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. Mos u zhg\u00ebnjeni kur dashuria dhe miq\u00ebsia t\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb vendin e dashuris\u00eb pasionante, sepse at\u00ebher\u00eb fillon pjesa m\u00eb e mir\u00eb e martes\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

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                  1. \u201cKur filloni t\u00eb m\u00ebrziteni, e keni pun\u00ebn pisk\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    Problemi me k\u00ebt\u00eb rregull \u00ebsht\u00eb kur siguria n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje ngat\u00ebrrohet me m\u00ebrzitjen dhe harrojm\u00eb pasojat negative t\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhjeje q\u00eb b\u00ebhet interesante vet\u00ebm kur ka grindje dhe ankthe. Panojeni pra, rutin\u00ebn tuaj \u201ct\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme\u201d dhe gjejeni interesin e \u201cdram\u00ebs\u201d te pushimet dhe aktivitetet e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta q\u00eb b\u00ebni.<\/p>\n

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                    1. \u201cP\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb qejfin tjetrit, b\u00ebni dashuri edhe kur nuk doni\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      Seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e nj\u00eb lidhjeje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe kjo u p\u00ebrket t\u00eb dyve. Fakti q\u00eb seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cdetyrim\u201d m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00eb list\u00eb, vlen zakonisht m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, sidomos p\u00ebr n\u00ebnat e reja, por kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ta perceptoni si t\u00eb till\u00eb. L\u00ebshime dhe kompromise b\u00ebhen edhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb lidhjes…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                      Nuk kemi pse ta g\u00ebnjejm\u00eb veten; martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. N\u00ebse ju duket e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb gjeni njeriun e duhur, imagjinoni si do t\u2019ju duket ta kaloni gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn p\u00ebrkrah nj\u00eb njeriu! Rregullat e nj\u00eb martese (p\u00ebrve\u00e7 atyre q\u00eb lexon prifti n\u00eb kish\u00eb), jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare. Nuk ndodh rrall\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":11956,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11955","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11955","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11955"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11955\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11956"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11955"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11955"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11955"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}