{"id":1183,"date":"2014-07-12T21:05:57","date_gmt":"2014-07-12T21:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=1183"},"modified":"2014-07-12T21:05:57","modified_gmt":"2014-07-12T21:05:57","slug":"je-ie-rezervuar-sa-duhet-apo-e-tepron-me-sinqeritetin-tend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/07\/je-ie-rezervuar-sa-duhet-apo-e-tepron-me-sinqeritetin-tend\/","title":{"rendered":"Je i\/e rezervuar sa duhet apo e tepron me sinqeritetin t\u00ebnd?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cAndi bleu nj\u00eb lod\u00ebr seksuale dje n\u00eb internet dhe ne\u2026\u201d. Disa minuta m\u00eb von\u00eb, intimiteti seksual i Andit dhe Irm\u00ebs nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sekret p\u00ebr ask\u00ebnd! Disa prej nesh tregojn\u00eb \u00e7do detaj t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, t\u00eb shtyr\u00eb nga nj\u00eb impuls ekzibicionizmi, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb t\u00eb fshehur pas nj\u00eb rezervimi t\u00eb tepruar. Po ju, sa i\/e rezervuar jeni? B\u00ebni testin ton\u00eb p\u00ebr ta kuptuar. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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1. Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjeje, nj\u00eb i ftuar tregon disa detaje t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij seksuale:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. \u00cbsht\u00eb turp t\u00eb tregohen n\u00eb publik gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla.<\/p>\n

b. Sa keq q\u00eb ai nuk di ta ruaj\u00eb intimitetin e tij!<\/p>\n

c. Pse duhet t\u00eb kemi kaq tabu?<\/p>\n

d. Kur t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb t\u00eb miat, do t\u00eb ndjehet qesharak!<\/p>\n

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2. Partneri\/ja di p\u00ebr ju:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. Gj\u00ebrat thelb\u00ebsore<\/p>\n

b. Pak gj\u00ebra<\/p>\n

c. Gjith\u00e7ka<\/p>\n

d. At\u00eb q\u00eb keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u2019i tregoni ju.<\/p>\n

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3. M\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb pad\u00ebshiruar \u00ebsht\u00eb:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. T\u00eb propozosh nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr subjekt bisede<\/p>\n

b. T\u00eb hesht\u00ebsh ose t\u00eb ik\u00ebsh<\/p>\n

c. T\u00eb shpjegosh pse nuk t\u00eb p\u00eblqen ky subjekt<\/p>\n

d. T\u00eb thuash se nuk ke qejf t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb subjekt<\/p>\n

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4. Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb interviste p\u00ebr pun\u00eb, ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn tuaj personale:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. P\u00ebrgjigjeni kryesisht me \u00abpo\u00bb, apo \u00abjo\u00bb.<\/p>\n

b. P\u00ebrgjigjeni pa hyr\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb detaje<\/p>\n

c. P\u00ebrgjigjeni pa asnj\u00eb bezdi<\/p>\n

d. P\u00ebrgjigjeni \u00abajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrkryer\u00bb, me nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje n\u00eb cep t\u00eb buz\u00ebve.<\/p>\n

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5. Her\u00ebn e par\u00eb q\u00eb zhvisheni para partnerit\/es tuaj t\u00eb ri, e b\u00ebni:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. Me delikates\u00eb<\/p>\n

b. Mund\u00ebsisht, n\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb<\/p>\n

c. Pa problem<\/p>\n

d. Duke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb shfaqje t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb!<\/p>\n

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6. Sipas jush, t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr veten \u00ebsht\u00eb:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. Nj\u00eb art q\u00eb duhet ta njoh\u00ebsh mir\u00eb<\/p>\n

b. P\u00ebr narcizist\u00ebt<\/p>\n

c. Krejt\u00ebsisht normale<\/p>\n

d. E nevojshme, her\u00eb pas here.<\/p>\n

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7. Ju \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni sikur jeni lakuriq n\u00eb mes t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. Zgjoheni i\/e trembur, shum\u00eb n\u00eb ankth<\/p>\n

b. Keni p\u00ebrshtypjen se kalimtar\u00ebt tallen me ju<\/p>\n

c. Nuk e keni v\u00ebn\u00eb re k\u00ebt\u00eb detaj t\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

d. Keni nj\u00eb ndjesi t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme<\/p>\n

8. Do t\u00eb thoshit se t\u00eb qenit i\/e rezervuar:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. \u00cbsht\u00eb para se gjithash nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb respekti.<\/p>\n

b. Garanton lirin\u00eb personale<\/p>\n

c. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb penges\u00eb e panevojshme mes teje dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve<\/p>\n

d. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb realisht aty ku mendohet<\/p>\n

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9. Kur shkoni n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb ri pune, ju:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. Nuk p\u00ebrziheni shum\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt<\/p>\n

b. Tregoni nj\u00eb imazh dinamik dhe t\u00eb qeshur t\u00eb vetes<\/p>\n

c. P\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb jeni i\/e natyrsh\u00ebm<\/p>\n

c. Brenda nj\u00eb \u00e7erek ore keni folur me t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

10. Jeni me humor jo shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Nj\u00eb koleg pune ju pyet: \u00abSi shkoni?\u00bb. Ju i p\u00ebrgjigjeni:<\/strong><\/p>\n

a. N\u00eb rregull<\/p>\n

b. \u00c7ka<\/p>\n

c. Jo mir\u00eb, sepse…<\/p>\n

d. Po ti? Si kaloi udh\u00ebtimi me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn\/in?<\/p>\n

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Rezultatet<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje a. P\u00ebr ju, rezervimi garanton intimitetin<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00ebr ju, rezervimi duket t\u00eb jet\u00eb para se gjithash nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje respekti, respekt p\u00ebr veten dhe p\u00ebr intimitetin t\u00ebnd, por edhe t\u00eb tjetrit. \u00cbsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb, ju mendoni se ka gj\u00ebra q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndahen me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb tjera, q\u00eb nuk duhen zbuluar as me t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit. Jo m\u00eb kot keni zakon t\u2019i zgjidhni me kujdes bashk\u00ebbiseduesit dhe njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb cil\u00ebve u rr\u00ebfeni sekretet tuaja. Keni nj\u00eb temperament m\u00eb shum\u00eb vrojtues e shpesh diskret dhe duhet t\u00eb ndjeheni n\u00eb konfidenc\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb me tjetrin, p\u00ebr t\u2019i treguar disa gj\u00ebra t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj personale. N\u00eb fakt, keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00eb para se t\u00eb krijoni besim te tjetri dhe t\u00eb jeni i\/e sinqert\u00eb me t\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, arrini t\u00eb ndani si\u00e7 duhet gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb i p\u00ebrkasin sfer\u00ebs private dhe asaj publike. Kjo ju lejon t\u00eb mos thoni gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk duhet dhe pastaj t\u00eb pendoheni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, por edhe t\u00eb krijoni hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn tuaj personale, q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrket vet\u00ebm juve. Nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb t\u00eb vetme: Vazhdoni k\u00ebshtu!<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje b. Rezervimi funksionon si korac\u00eb mbrojt\u00ebse<\/strong><\/p>\n

Rezervimi z\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. M\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb mbrojt\u00ebse e jet\u00ebs private, ai p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson n\u00eb syt\u00eb tuaj nj\u00eb arm\u00eb efikase q\u00eb keni gjetur kund\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe nd\u00ebrhyrjeve t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb sfer\u00ebn tuaj intime. N\u00eb fakt, ju mendoni se kur nuk tregon gj\u00eb p\u00ebr veten, mund t\u2019i shp\u00ebtosh kontrollit t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Duke ruajtur misterin, ju keni edhe pushtetin mbi marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me tjetrin. Por, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 p\u00ebrshtypjes q\u00eb krijoni se nuk merrni pjes\u00eb n\u00eb thashethemet e bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebve tuaj, ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ky rezervim ta ket\u00eb burimin n\u00eb frik\u00ebn se mos dikush tjet\u00ebr zbulon pjes\u00ebt tuaja t\u00eb err\u00ebta, ose m\u00eb keq akoma, dob\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja. Disa v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs ju kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb besoni se, t\u00eb zbulosh veten, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh pre e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve… K\u00ebshtu, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb evoluoni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb harmonishme n\u00eb lidhjet tuaja, pranoni t\u00eb flisni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr veten dhe ndjenjat tuaja, duke m\u00ebsuar pak nga pak se tjetri nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb grabitqari q\u00eb ju besonit…<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje c. Pse t\u00eb heshtni?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kjo mund t\u00eb ishte deviza juaj! Keni nj\u00eb leht\u00ebsi t\u00eb habitshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ndjeni, p\u00ebrjetoni, mendoni apo eksperimentoni. Ju ua tregoni jet\u00ebn tuaj me detaje t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, i gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta ndar\u00eb me ta dhe sidomos p\u00ebr ta shprehur me fjal\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb po ju ndodh. Kjo ndodh nganj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe n\u00eb lidhje me trupin tuaj. Ju nuk do ta kishit shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb shkonit n\u00eb nj\u00eb kamp nudist\u00ebsh, sepse mendoni se t\u00eb tregosh trupin, \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e natyrshme dhe e thjesht\u00eb. Kushtu, u jepeni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve me trup e shpirt, n\u00eb mir\u00ebbesim dhe spontanisht. Por, kujdes! Mos harroni se ekziston nj\u00eb limit q\u00eb nuk duhet ta kap\u00ebrceni mes vetes dhe tjetrit, si p\u00ebr respekt ndaj vetes, ashtu edhe ndaj tjetrit. N\u00eb fakt, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, tregimi i shum\u00eb gj\u00ebrave mund t\u00eb kthehet kund\u00ebr jush, duke e prishur lidhjen me gj\u00ebra q\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos i tregonit, p\u00ebr shembull, ose duke u dh\u00ebn\u00eb disave rastin p\u00ebr t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorur kund\u00ebr jush. At\u00ebhere, vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb: Me mas\u00eb! T\u00eb mos jeni shum\u00eb t\u00eb rezervuar \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb; t\u00eb mos jeni fare, \u00ebsht\u00eb e… rrezikshme!<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse keni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje d. Tregoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb fshehur m\u00eb mir\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Duket se keni aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni turbullira n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e ekzibicionizmit dhe rezervimit… N\u00eb fakt, sipas jush, m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos treguar asgj\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb tregoni di\u00e7ka. K\u00ebshtu, n\u00eb syt\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve ju dukeni si person shum\u00eb i shkath\u00ebt, bile pak ekzibicionist\/e! Ju flisni p\u00ebr disa fusha t\u00eb jet\u00ebs suaj personale pa u rezervuar, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb duke u treguar provokativ\u00eb, si gojarisht, ashtu edhe fizikisht. Por, ashtu si nj\u00eb magjistar, ju l\u00ebvizni me zhurm\u00eb dor\u00ebn e djatht\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb syt\u00eb t\u00eb fiksohen aty, duke mbajtur sekret at\u00eb q\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb dor\u00ebn e majt\u00eb… Dredhi e shkath\u00ebt, por q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb shum\u00eb energji dhe ju detyron t\u00eb luani rolin e ekuilibristit mes nj\u00eb imazhi t\u00eb jasht\u00ebm t\u00eb gjall\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb realiteti t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm… shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb rezervuar. Pse t\u00eb mos e bashkangjisni mask\u00ebn me fytyr\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb? \u00c7far\u00eb fshihni n\u00eb dor\u00ebn e majt\u00eb q\u00eb keni frik\u00eb se mos jua zbulojn\u00eb? Pranojeni pak m\u00eb shum\u00eb veten tuaj reale dhe do t\u00eb dini at\u00ebhere, pa problem, t\u00eb ruani intimitetin tuaj, pa qen\u00eb i\/e detyruar t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorni gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto dredhira.<\/p>\n

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\u201cAndi bleu nj\u00eb lod\u00ebr seksuale dje n\u00eb internet dhe ne\u2026\u201d. Disa minuta m\u00eb von\u00eb, intimiteti seksual i Andit dhe Irm\u00ebs nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb sekret p\u00ebr ask\u00ebnd! Disa prej nesh tregojn\u00eb \u00e7do detaj t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, t\u00eb shtyr\u00eb nga nj\u00eb impuls ekzibicionizmi, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb t\u00eb fshehur pas nj\u00eb rezervimi t\u00eb tepruar. Po ju, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[138],"class_list":["post-1183","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-test","tag-je-ie-rezervuar-sa-duhet-apo-e-tepron-me-sinqeritetin-tend"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1183","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1183"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1183\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1183"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1183"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1183"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}