{"id":11778,"date":"2016-01-20T18:30:13","date_gmt":"2016-01-20T17:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11778"},"modified":"2016-01-20T12:28:16","modified_gmt":"2016-01-20T11:28:16","slug":"tiparet-qe-na-bejne-te-ndahemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2016\/01\/tiparet-qe-na-bejne-te-ndahemi\/","title":{"rendered":"Tiparet q\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndahemi!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Zakonisht, studimet p\u00ebrqendrohen te gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb joshin m\u00eb shum\u00eb burrat dhe grat\u00eb, tiparet q\u00eb u duken m\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshirueshme te seksi i kund\u00ebrt… K\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb, shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt e universitetit t\u00eb Uestern Sidneit, Indian\u00ebs, Florid\u00ebs, Singaporit dhe Rutxhersit kan\u00eb ekzaminuar \u201ctiparet e pad\u00ebshirueshme t\u00eb personalitetit\u201d q\u00eb bezdisin t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt. Studiuesit kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gjasht\u00eb studime t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar se \u00e7far\u00eb konsiderojn\u00eb mang\u00ebsi m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha burrat e grat\u00eb kur vjen puna te nj\u00eb partner\/e potencial\/e. Zbulimet e tyre kan\u00eb qen\u00eb v\u00ebrtet interesante…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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T\u00eb dh\u00ebna t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Tiparet negative ndikojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb te lidhjet afatgjata, sesa tek ato afatshkurtra (pasi ti investon m\u00eb shum\u00eb te partneri kur lidhja \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjat\u00eb dhe n\u00eb lidhjet e shkurtra i anashkalon disa gj\u00ebra). Grat\u00eb kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb bezdira t\u00eb tilla sesa burrat, mbase ngaq\u00eb ato rrezikojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb (p\u00ebr shembull, ato k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u2019i mbaj\u00eb ato dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt). Grat\u00eb dhe burrat q\u00eb e konsiderojn\u00eb veten shum\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshiruesh\u00ebm dhe kan\u00eb shum\u00eb tipare t\u00eb favorshme, shpreh\u00ebn m\u00eb shum\u00eb pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsira t\u00eb tilla. S\u00eb fundmi, doli n\u00eb pah se njer\u00ebzit u jepnin m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi tipareve negative sesa atyre pozitive, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se t\u00eb parat i err\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb dytat, sado t\u00eb mira t\u00eb jen\u00eb ato.<\/p>\n

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Studimi<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00eb nj\u00eb nga studimet e publikuara n\u00eb Buletinin e Personalitetit dhe Psikologjis\u00eb Shoq\u00ebrore, studiuesit u dhan\u00eb 5541 beqar\u00ebve t\u00eb rritur nj\u00eb list\u00eb me 17 tipare negative t\u00eb personalitetit dhe i pyet\u00ebn se cilat u dukeshin m\u00eb pak josh\u00ebse n\u00eb nj\u00eb partner p\u00ebr lidhje afatgjat\u00eb. Megjith\u00ebse kishte m\u00eb shum\u00eb gra sesa burra q\u00eb shpreh\u00ebn \u201cbezdira\u201d, pati m\u00eb shum\u00eb ngjashm\u00ebri sesa ndryshime mes sekseve. Shihni m\u00eb posht\u00eb rezultatet (dhe merruni urgjentisht me pamjen e jashtme n\u00ebse jeni fajtor p\u00ebr numrin 1)…<\/p>\n

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  1. Pamje e jashtme e parregullt dhe e neglizhuar<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Tipari m\u00eb pak josh\u00ebs p\u00ebr grat\u00eb dhe burrat bashk\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb \u201cpamje e jashtme e \u00e7rregullt, ose e papast\u00ebr\u201d, sipas 71% t\u00eb grave dhe 63% t\u00eb burrave.<\/p>\n

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    1. P\u00ebrtacia<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      72% e grave dhe 60% e burrave nuk e duronin dot nj\u00eb \u201cpartner p\u00ebrtac\u201d.<\/p>\n

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      1. K\u00ebrkues<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        N\u00ebse ju jeni shum\u00eb k\u00ebrkues, at\u00ebher\u00eb 69% e grave dhe 57% e burrave kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb largohen prej jush.<\/p>\n

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        1. Pa humor<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Mungesa e sensit t\u00eb humorit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mang\u00ebsi e madhe p\u00ebr 58% t\u00eb grave dhe 50% t\u00eb burrave.<\/p>\n

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          1. Larg\u00ebsia (gjeografike)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            47% e grave dhe 51% e burrave nuk do t\u00eb q\u00ebndronin t\u00eb lidhur me nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb jeton larg. E kemi th\u00ebn\u00eb edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb: larg syve, larg zemr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

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            1. T\u00eb k\u00ebqinj n\u00eb shtrat<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              \u201cSeksi i keq\u201d ishte i mjaftuesh\u00ebm q\u00eb 50% t\u00eb grave dhe 44% t\u00eb burrave t\u2019i jepnin fund lidhjes.<\/p>\n

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              1. Pasiguria n\u00eb vetvete<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                N\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb apo nj\u00eb grua nuk kan\u00eb besim n\u00eb vetvete, 47% e grave dhe 33% e burrave nuk do t\u00eb lidheshin me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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                1. T\u00eb fiksuar pas teknologjis\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Nj\u00eb partner i konsumuar nga shikimi i \u201cshumt\u00eb i televizorit apo videoloj\u00ebrave\u201d nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i d\u00ebshiruesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr 41% t\u00eb grave dhe 25% t\u00eb burrave.<\/p>\n

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                  1. Nivel i ul\u00ebt i epshit<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    P\u00ebr 27% t\u00eb grave dhe 39% t\u00eb burrave, mungesa e epshit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb arsye e mjaftueshme p\u00ebr ndarje.<\/p>\n

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                    1. Kok\u00ebfort\u00ebsi<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      P\u00ebr 34% t\u00eb grave dhe 32% t\u00eb burrave, nj\u00eb partner shum\u00eb kok\u00ebfort\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs n\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, apo form\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme.<\/p>\n

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                      1. Llafazan<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                        20% e grave dhe 26% e burrave nuk e durojn\u00eb dot nj\u00eb partner\/e q\u00eb \u201cflet shum\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n

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                        1. Shum\u00eb i heshtur<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                          Duhet t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb nj\u00eb e mesme e art\u00eb, sepse 17% e grave dhe 11% e burrave nuk durojn\u00eb dot as nj\u00eb njeri \u201cshum\u00eb t\u00eb heshtur\u201d.<\/p>\n

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                          1. Shum\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                            T\u00eb qenit shum\u00eb i sinqert\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb karakter i pad\u00ebshiruesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr 17% t\u00eb grave dhe 11% t\u00eb burrave.<\/p>\n

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                            1. Nuk i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                              Dikush q\u00eb \u201cnuk do f\u00ebmij\u00eb\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb i papranuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr 15% t\u00eb grave dhe 13% t\u00eb burrave.<\/p>\n

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                              1. Me f\u00ebmij\u00eb nga pas<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, 12% e grave dhe 14% e burrave nuk duan nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb ka f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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                                1. Shum\u00eb atletik<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                  10% e grave dhe 7% e burrave than\u00eb se preferonin q\u00eb partneri\/ja i tyre t\u00eb mos ishte \u201cshum\u00eb atletik\u201d, megjith\u00ebse ne nuk e kuptojm\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebrsen\u00eb…<\/p>\n

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                                  1. Jo sportiv<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                    N\u00ebse dikush konsiderohet si \u201cjosportiv\u201d, 6% e grave dhe 7% e burrave i thon\u00eb atij\/asaj sajonara (lamtumir\u00eb, n\u00eb japonisht).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                                        Zakonisht, studimet p\u00ebrqendrohen te gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb joshin m\u00eb shum\u00eb burrat dhe grat\u00eb, tiparet q\u00eb u duken m\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshirueshme te seksi i kund\u00ebrt… K\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb, shkenc\u00ebtar\u00ebt e universitetit t\u00eb Uestern Sidneit, Indian\u00ebs, Florid\u00ebs, Singaporit dhe Rutxhersit kan\u00eb ekzaminuar \u201ctiparet e pad\u00ebshirueshme t\u00eb personalitetit\u201d q\u00eb bezdisin t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt. Studiuesit kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gjasht\u00eb studime […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":11779,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11778","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11778","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11778"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11778\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11779"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11778"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11778"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11778"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}