{"id":11721,"date":"2016-01-14T10:30:09","date_gmt":"2016-01-14T09:30:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11721"},"modified":"2016-01-13T11:54:04","modified_gmt":"2016-01-13T10:54:04","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2016\/01\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb n\u00eb shtratin ton\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme: Sapo u zgjova n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes n\u00eb shtratin e burrit tim, ai u zgjua e doli nga dhoma. Papritur pash\u00eb se nj\u00eb mashkull kishte fjetur me ne dhe po m\u00eb shikonte t\u00eb zhveshur. Un\u00eb e njihja. Ai ngrit nga krevati dhe nd\u00ebrsa po shikohesha n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb, ai u afrua dhe m\u00eb puthi me ndjenja t\u00eb forta n\u00eb faqe. Pastaj u afrua p\u00ebrs\u00ebri dhe m\u00eb puthi n\u00eb buz\u00eb, m\u00eb dha edhe nj\u00eb bonbone dhe un\u00eb e ndjeja si n\u00eb realitet. Kisha shum\u00eb frik\u00eb dhe mendoja si mund t\u2019ia b\u00ebja burrit tim k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Ai nuk m\u00eb shqitej, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb ndihesha fajtore dhe e pasigurt. Edhe n\u00eb gjumin e dyt\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri m\u00eb puthi dhe filloi t\u00eb qante, saq\u00eb ia shihja edhe lot\u00ebt. Rrinte af\u00ebr meje dhe qante me zem\u00ebr, kurse un\u00eb nuk m\u00ebrzitesha fare. M\u00eb dukej si di\u00e7ka reale, aq shum\u00eb e kam ndier k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– E nderuar zonj\u00eb, nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb ka dy kuptime: S\u00eb pari, ju nuk ndiheni e plot\u00ebsuar n\u00eb intimitet me burrin tuaj, ndiheni bosh, edhe pse e doni at\u00eb. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj intime ka nj\u00eb r\u00ebnie, gj\u00eb e cila ju shqet\u00ebson shum\u00eb. E dyta, mes teje dhe personit q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ka nj\u00eb lloj t\u00ebrheqjeje. Ju n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme keni t\u00ebrheqje fizike ndaj k\u00ebtij personi, por nga ana tjet\u00ebr ndiheni keq para bashk\u00ebshortit, sepse \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni skena erotike me k\u00ebt\u00eb person. \u00cbndrra \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e qart\u00eb dhe tregon se ju rrezikoni t\u00eb bini n\u00eb dashuri me k\u00ebt\u00eb person. \u00cbsht\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn tuaj; n\u00ebse ju i ushqeni ndjenja vetes p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb person, mund t\u00eb rrezikoni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien aktuale. Ndryshe, duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien intime me bashk\u00ebshortin, duke biseduar rreth problemeve q\u00eb keni.<\/p>\n

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Gjyshi dhe djali i bukur<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Babai ka par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi erdhi nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i gjat\u00eb dhe i bukur. Aty ndodhej edhe gjyshi i vdekur, i cili thot\u00eb \u201cmerre\u201d, nd\u00ebrsa babai thot\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ata q\u00eb nuk jetojn\u00eb, sidomos kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr gjysh\u00ebrit apo edhe prind\u00ebrit, vijn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr gjithmon\u00eb me mesazhe p\u00ebr ne t\u00eb gjall\u00ebt. Edhe n\u00eb rastin tuaj konkret, s\u00eb pari ju k\u00ebshillon q\u00eb t\u00eb kujdeseni m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr veten, n\u00eb kuptimin sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor dhe at\u00eb shpirt\u00ebror. S\u00eb dyti, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb keni ndonj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb p\u00ebr martes\u00eb, shikojeni me sy pozitiv, pra, njiheni. Ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ai t\u00eb jet\u00eb person i mir\u00eb, p\u00ebrderisa gjyshi ju thot\u00eb ta merrni!<\/p>\n

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Qum\u00ebsht<\/strong><\/p>\n

– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kam par\u00eb shum\u00eb qum\u00ebsht, sikur ishte det dhe gjysma e trupit tim ishte brenda n\u00eb qum\u00ebsht. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Qum\u00ebshti n\u00eb vetvete nga ana psikologjike, tregon pastrim shpirt\u00ebror t\u00eb personit q\u00eb e shikon. Do t\u00eb merrni disa lajme q\u00eb do t\u2019ju m\u00ebrzisin pak, por kjo do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb reflektoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb me veten tuaj dhe t\u00eb ndjeni at\u00eb pastrim shpirt\u00ebror psikologjik q\u00eb ju thash\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb n\u00eb shtratin ton\u00eb – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme: Sapo u zgjova n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes n\u00eb shtratin e burrit tim, ai u zgjua e doli nga dhoma. Papritur pash\u00eb se nj\u00eb mashkull kishte fjetur me ne dhe po m\u00eb shikonte t\u00eb zhveshur. Un\u00eb e njihja. Ai ngrit nga krevati dhe nd\u00ebrsa po […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11721","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11721"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11721\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11721"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11721"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11721"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}