{"id":11551,"date":"2015-12-26T11:42:36","date_gmt":"2015-12-26T10:42:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11551"},"modified":"2016-09-02T15:21:19","modified_gmt":"2016-09-02T13:21:19","slug":"ornela-ahmetaj-ju-tregoj-dashurine-time-perrallore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/12\/ornela-ahmetaj-ju-tregoj-dashurine-time-perrallore\/","title":{"rendered":"Ornela Ahmetaj: Ju tregoj dashurine time p\u00ebrrallore"},"content":{"rendered":"![\"CYMERA_20151226_113152\"](\"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/CYMERA_20151226_113152-150x150.jpg\")
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Ornela Ahmetaj: Dashuria ime p\u00ebrralloreDashuri \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenja q\u00eb mban ekzistenc\u00ebn mbi sip\u00ebrfaqen e tok\u00ebs. Dashuri t\u00eb m\u00ebdha ka, madje edhe shum\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr to \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe dashuria me Ornel\u00ebs dhe Gentit, nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti q\u00eb e shikojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e tyre si p\u00ebrrall\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb e t\u00eb jetuar. Ornela Ahmetaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur pran\u00eb bukuris\u00eb s\u00eb detit, adhuron sh\u00ebtitjet buz\u00eb tij,gatimin, leximin dhe ka nj\u00eb jet\u00eb sociale shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur dhe dasma e saj nuk kishte si t\u00eb ishte ndryshe. Nj\u00eb ceremoni p\u00ebrkrah personit q\u00eb dashuron, e rrethuar me shum\u00eb dashuri dhe v\u00ebshtrime q\u00eb bekojn\u00eb.P\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur tek dasma, e nisim rr\u00ebfimin nga dita q\u00eb Ornela dhe bashk\u00ebshortin e saj Gentin u njoh\u00ebn. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb pim\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7aj t\u00eb ngroht\u00eb ajo me syt\u00eb q\u00eb i shk\u00eblqejn\u00eb fillon e m\u00eb tregon dashurin\u00eb e saj p\u00ebrrallore: \u201cU njoh\u00ebm me Gentin kur punon si kryetar i student\u00ebve bullgar\u00eb nga Diaspora n\u00eb Bullgari nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb isha nj\u00eb studente q\u00eb vinte nga Shqip\u00ebria n\u00eb Sofje. Sot Genti \u00ebsht\u00eb avokat, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb kam mbaruar studimet p\u00ebr Financ\u00eb-Kontabilitet. Jemi takuar n\u00eb Sofje dhe q\u00eb dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb q\u00eb e pash\u00eb, ndjeva q\u00eb do ishte burri im i ardhsh\u00ebm. U pam\u00eb n\u00eb aeroport n\u00eb 1.10.2004 dhe m\u00eb pas n\u00eb dt\u00ebn 08.10.2004, kur un\u00eb kisha edhe dit\u00eblindjen ai erdhi m\u00eb takoi me preteksin se kishte pun\u00eb. E ndjem\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb dhe pa kuptuar kishim nisur nj\u00eb histori shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur dashurie q\u00eb vazhdon ende sot dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e kuror\u00ebzuar me martes\u00eb. P\u00ebr 20 vjetorin tim t\u00eb lindjes, ai m\u00eb \u00e7oi n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb mahnitsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr dark\u00eb dhe m\u00eb kisht\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb me petale tr\u00ebndafilash, qirinj, shampanj\u00eb, nj\u00eb buqet\u00eb t\u00eb madhe me lule dhe nj\u00eb or\u00eb dore q\u00eb un\u00eb ende e kam dhe e mbaj si syt\u00eb e ballit, sepse ishte dhurata e par\u00eb e p\u00ebrvjetori t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm q\u00eb e kaloja me Gentin. Gjat\u00eb viteve t\u00eb lidhjes ton\u00eb t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, por edhe kur i zyrtarizuam gj\u00ebrat me familjet ai vazhdonte t\u00eb m\u00eb surprizonte, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb tip romantik n\u00eb \u00e7do aspekt. Kemi udh\u00ebtuar kudo n\u00eb Europ\u00eb dhe jo vet\u00ebm, si Venezia Rom\u00eb, Trieste, Milano, Lond\u00ebr, pa p\u00ebrmendur Sofjen q\u00eb ishte edhe qyteti I dashuris\u00eb ton\u00eb. P\u00ebr Sh\u00ebn Valentin m\u00eb priti tek dilja nga puna me makin\u00ebn e mbushur me petale tr\u00ebndafili t\u00eb fresk\u00ebta dhe nj\u00eb arush gjigand. Ama, jo vet\u00ebm ai m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb surpriza, edhe un\u00eb nuk ia l\u00eb m\u00ebng\u00ebt(Buz\u00ebqesh). P\u00ebr 35 vjetorin e lindjes ia urova me nj\u00eb banderol\u00eb n\u00eb mes t\u00eb qytetit t\u00eb Durr\u00ebsit, tek bulevardi kryesor\u201c<3 G <3 Edhe 100 vje\u00e7\u201d dhe nj\u00eb paket\u00eb p\u00ebr n\u00eb Splendid Resort n\u00eb Budva, I zbukurova lokalin ku festuam dit\u00eblindjen dhe ishte nj\u00eb drek\u00eb e mrekullueshme mes familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb t\u00eb dyve Ne u fejuam pas tet\u00eb vjet\u00ebsh lidhjeje dhe martes\u00ebn e b\u00ebm\u00eb n\u00eb 10 vjetorin e lidhjes n\u00eb 17.08. 2014. Dasm\u00ebn e organizuam plot nj\u00eb vit me rradh\u00eb dhe ishte nj\u00eb dasm\u00eb e organizuar me detaje. Kishim 350 t\u00eb ftuar dhe ishte shum\u00eb e emocionuese sepse kishim t\u00eb ftuar edhe nga ambasada bullgare dhe miq t\u00eb tij nga Bullgaria. Nuk u mjaftuam me aq p\u00ebr detaje sepse kishim mbledhur dhe b\u00ebr\u00eb montazhin e nj\u00eb klipi me momentet m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura t\u00eb jet\u00ebs ton\u00eb, q\u00eb kur kemi qen\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe deri paradit\u00ebs s\u00eb madhe q\u00eb u martuam. Shok\u00ebt e Gentit ishin t\u00eb veshur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb me bluza t\u00eb stampuara \u201cCun si Genti s\u2019ke me gjet\u201d. Emocioni I dasm\u00ebs zgjati edhe dy muaj pasi u b\u00eb dasma, aq bukur ia kaluam.Un\u00eb dhe Genti kuptuam se dashuria jon\u00eb ishte shum\u00eb e fort\u00eb sepse ne t\u00eb dy kemi karakter t\u00eb fort\u00eb, kemi mir\u00ebkuptim dhe shum\u00eb dashuri p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Sigurisht q\u00eb nuk ka ndjenj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb e t\u00eb bukur p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, n\u00eb dit\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, kur n\u00eb krah ka njeriun q\u00eb do, kur martohet atje ku do, kur ka af\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb do, kur e urojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur. Ishte nj\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb harrohet, jo vet\u00ebm si dit\u00eb e sh\u00ebnuar, por edhe p\u00ebr at\u00eb realizim q\u00eb b\u00ebri \u201cGeraldia Sposa\u201d me fustanet e saj, e cila dhe na b\u00ebri q\u00eb ne t\u00eb ndjeheshim si Hirushja dhe princi i saj, Do ta p\u00ebrkufizoja si p\u00ebrralla m\u00eb e realizuar n\u00eb historin\u00eb e martesave shqiptare, madje \u00ebsht\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar si dasma m\u00eb e bukur e vitit 2014. Detaje ka shum\u00eb, sepse e gjitha ishte nj\u00eb koncentrim detajesh, por do t\u00eb ve\u00e7oja betimin q\u00eb Genti m\u00eb b\u00ebri mua. Ishte shum\u00eb i sinqert\u00eb dhe me humor brenda, gj\u00eb q\u00eb e karakterizon gjithnj\u00eb at\u00eb. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb kishte nj\u00ebsi mat\u00ebse p\u00ebr maksimumin e dashuris\u00eb, lumturis\u00eb e ndjesive t\u00eb mira, un\u00eb do t\u00eb isha n\u00eb pik\u00ebn kulminante t\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebtyre. Ia ka vlejtur nj\u00eb dashuri q\u00eb kur ishim ende shum\u00eb t\u00eb rinj. Ndihem shum\u00eb me fat dhe do t\u00eb thoja q\u00eb edhe e meritoj, pse jo?! Kam zgjedhur vet\u00eb njeriun e jet\u00ebs, kam zgjedhur vet\u00eb profesionin tim, kam zgjedhur vet\u00eb jet\u00ebn q\u00eb b\u00ebj dhe njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb m\u00eb rrethojn\u00eb. Sinqeriteti dhe humori jan\u00eb vetit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta t\u00eb Gentit q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb dashurohem pas tij dhe dashuria t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb rritet \u00e7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ai di t\u2019i vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb njerezit, di t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb respektoj\u00eb femr\u00ebn dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha ka nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr t\u00eb madhe dhe dashuri p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk besoj dhe nuk mendoj t\u00eb jap receta, apo k\u00ebshilla se si mund t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb nj\u00eb marrdh\u00ebnie, por ajo q\u00eb dihet dhe pak zbatohet \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb marrdh\u00ebnie duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb e sinqert\u00eb, me larmi reciproke nga t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt. Genti ka nj\u00eb shprehje q\u00eb mua m\u00eb p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb; q\u00eb dashuria t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb jet\u00ebgjate ujite n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb, q\u00eb nga nj\u00eb fidan ajo t\u00eb rritet dhe jetoj\u00eb si nj\u00eb pem\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme. Muaji I mjaltit ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb mrekulli, e b\u00ebm\u00eb n\u00eb Greqi, n\u00eb Parga dhe n\u00eb Turqi n\u00eb Antalia.T\u00eb dy, edhe un\u00eb edhe Genti jemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb dashuruar dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur me njeri- tjetrin. Kjo ishte dashurie ime p\u00ebrrallore\u201d, p\u00ebrfundon rr\u00ebfimin paksa e p\u00ebrmalluar Ornela.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ornela Ahmetaj: Dashuria ime p\u00ebrralloreDashuri \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenja q\u00eb mban ekzistenc\u00ebn mbi sip\u00ebrfaqen e tok\u00ebs. Dashuri t\u00eb m\u00ebdha ka, madje edhe shum\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr to \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe dashuria me Ornel\u00ebs dhe Gentit, nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti q\u00eb e shikojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e tyre si p\u00ebrrall\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb e t\u00eb jetuar. Ornela Ahmetaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":11560,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11551","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11551","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11551"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11551\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11560"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11551"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11551"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11551"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}