{"id":11520,"date":"2015-12-23T16:30:45","date_gmt":"2015-12-23T15:30:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11520"},"modified":"2015-12-23T13:32:49","modified_gmt":"2015-12-23T12:32:49","slug":"im-shoq-tentoi-te-me-vriste-cfare-rruge-ligjore-te-ndjek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/12\/im-shoq-tentoi-te-me-vriste-cfare-rruge-ligjore-te-ndjek\/","title":{"rendered":"Im shoq tentoi t\u00eb m\u00eb vriste. \u00c7far\u00eb rruge ligjore t\u00eb ndjek?"},"content":{"rendered":"

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Quhem Anisa dhe jam nga Tirana. Problemi im \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk ia kaloj aspak mir\u00eb me tim shoq. Para disa vitesh ai p\u00ebsoi nj\u00eb aksident jasht\u00eb shtetit (Itali). Nga ky aksident p\u00ebrfitoi nj\u00eb pension t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm prej 730 euro n\u00eb muaj. Ka 1 vit e gjysm\u00eb q\u00eb na mashtronte me arsyen q\u00eb ia kan\u00eb bllokuar meqenese jemi n\u00eb proces gjyq\u00ebsor p\u00ebr nj\u00eb d\u00ebmshp\u00ebrblim q\u00eb mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb nga firma e nd\u00ebrtimit n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn u aksidentua. Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se 1 vit e gjys\u00ebm ai i ka marr\u00eb \u00e7do muaj 730 euro dhe ka luajtur bixhoz rregullisht. \u00cbsht\u00eb mbytur n\u00eb borxhe gjithandej dhe familjes nuk i p\u00ebrgjigjet p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb. Ne kemi edhe nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije rreth 3 vje\u00e7. Deri me sot na ka ndihmuar vjehrri. Kam punuar edhe un\u00eb disa koh\u00eb q\u00eb i jam p\u00ebrgjigjur f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Nga presioni dhe stresi, ai ka patur raste q\u00eb ka ushtruar edhe dhun\u00eb fizike ndaj meje, nd\u00ebrsa dhuna psikologjike nuk llogaritet. Nuk e kam denoncuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb! Pas nj\u00eb sherri n\u00eb 1 t\u00eb nat\u00ebs (sepse nuk i dhash\u00eb nj\u00eb got\u00eb uj\u00eb) m\u00eb hodhi duart n\u00eb fyt. Nuk e kisha ndjer\u00eb veten m\u00eb keq se at\u00eb dit\u00eb, u ndjeva v\u00ebrtet e rrezikuar. Q\u00eb nga ajo dit\u00eb (para nj\u00eb jave) kam vendosur t\u00eb ndahem. Nuk e duroj dot m\u00eb. E kam toleruar p\u00ebr vite te tera, kam qen\u00eb e martuar, por pa burr\u00eb. Un\u00eb flija vet\u00ebm sepse ai nuk m\u00eb vinte kurr\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, m\u00eb thoshte q\u00eb punonte n\u00eb nj\u00eb klub nate, por ishin mashtrime. Ju lutem, a mund t\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebshilloni di\u00e7ka sepse nuk di si t\u00eb veproj? Kujt i takon f\u00ebmija? A p\u00ebrfiton gj\u00eb ai, m\u00ebqen\u00ebse t\u00eb ardhurat e tij jan\u00eb: pension invaliditeti? Sht\u00ebpi nuk ka as ai, as un\u00eb. Ju fal\u00ebnderoj p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrsisht. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Av. Alban Duraj, \u201cDuraj Lavv Firm\u201d, email: info@durajlavv.com<\/a>, Tel. ++35544532512:<\/u><\/strong> –\u00a0 P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Anisa, m\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi q\u00eb po kaloni. Duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebheni e fort\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ndihmoni bashk\u00ebshortin tuaj nga ky ves q\u00eb e ka mb\u00ebrthyer. E kuptoj shqet\u00ebsimin tuaj pas asaj q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrshkruani lidhur me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet q\u00eb keni midis jush, por aksidenti q\u00eb i ka ndodhur bashk\u00ebshortit, mund ta ket\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar at\u00eb psikologjikisht, ai mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i pamotivuar e t\u00eb jet\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pesimist. Dua t\u2019ju informoj q\u00eb bixhozi \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb ves dhe arsyeja kryesore q\u00eb \u00e7iftet shkojn\u00eb drejt zgjidhjes s\u00eb martes\u00ebn, pasi problemet ekonomike jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb sjellin sherr n\u00eb \u00e7ift, mosplot\u00ebsimi i nevojave p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn dhe shpenzimet, q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb dit\u00ebve t\u00eb sotme. Un\u00eb ju sugjeroj q\u00eb ju t\u00eb gjeni forc\u00eb dhe kurajo t\u00eb hidhni posht\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ju ka ndodhur gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre koh\u00ebve, t\u00eb diskutoni me bashk\u00ebshortin dhe t\u00eb gjeni gjuh\u00ebn e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u2019ia filluar edhe nj\u00ebher\u00eb nga e para, ku ai t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb bixhozin dhe n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb i aft\u00eb p\u00ebr pun\u00eb, t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb pun\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb sjell\u00eb t\u00eb ardhura p\u00ebr familjen. Familja nuk mbahet vet\u00ebm nga nj\u00eb pjes\u00ebtar, por duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e saj n\u00eb harmoni mes tyre. Edhe kur ndonj\u00ebri prej tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb do t\u2019i vijn\u00eb n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb si nga ana ekonomike, ashtu edhe nga ajo shpirt\u00ebrore. Pra, mes an\u00ebtar\u00ebve n\u00eb familje duhet t\u00eb ekzistoj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia dhe dashuria reciproke. \u00a0Pasi t\u2019i konsumoni k\u00ebto rrug\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u pajtuar, n\u00ebse edhe pas p\u00ebrpjekjeve tuaja q\u00ebndrimi juaj me bashk\u00ebshortin b\u00ebhet i paduruesh\u00ebm dhe shikoni q\u00eb e vetmja zgjidhje \u00ebsht\u00eb divorci, at\u00ebher\u00eb mund t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e divorcit, pasi kjo rrug\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e t\u00eb dy pal\u00ebve dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha, n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb delikate dhe nuk duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb sherr dhe grindje nga prind\u00ebrit, pasi k\u00ebto i sjellin pasoja n\u00eb formimin e personalitetit t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n

– At\u00ebher\u00eb, n\u00ebse ju e keni kaluar faz\u00ebn e m\u00ebsip\u00ebrme, mund t\u00eb kontaktoni me Studio Ligjore \u201cDuraj\u201d, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer t\u00eb gjith\u00eb procesin ligjor p\u00ebr zgjidhjen e martes\u00ebs suaj. Ju duhet t\u2019i drejtoheni Gjykat\u00ebs s\u00eb Rrethit Gjyq\u00ebsor Tiran\u00eb me k\u00ebrkes\u00eb padi p\u00ebr zgjidhje martese, l\u00ebnien e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs p\u00ebr rritje e edukim n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe detyrimin e bashk\u00ebshortit p\u00ebr t\u00eb paguar detyrimin ushqimor p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn. Vler\u00ebn e detyrimit ushqimor gjykata e vendos mbi t\u00eb ardhurat e bashk\u00ebshortit dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebs. N\u00ebse ju e provoni me v\u00ebrtetime q\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti juaj i ka t\u00eb ardhurat n\u00eb vler\u00ebn e 730 Euro, at\u00ebher\u00eb mbi baz\u00ebn e k\u00ebsaj pagese e vendos gjykata detyrimin e babait ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Gjat\u00eb seanc\u00ebs gjykata cakton ekspert psikolog p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb vler\u00ebsimin psikologjik t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs, k\u00ebtij raporti dhe kushteve ku ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb do t\u00eb rritet, vendos se me k\u00eb do t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb. Praktika gjyq\u00ebsore tregon se n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste, f\u00ebmija i lihet n\u00ebn\u00ebs p\u00ebr rritje dhe edukim.<\/p>\n

– Lidhur me pjes\u00ebtimin e pron\u00ebs, ju tregoni se ai nuk ka asnj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhur tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7 pensionit t\u00eb aksidentit. N\u00eb k\u00ebto kushte, ju nuk keni \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb pjes\u00ebtoni, pasi nuk keni asnj\u00eb pron\u00eb ose depozit\u00eb \u00a0bankare t\u00eb krijuar pas martes\u00ebs. Uroj q\u00eb ta zgjidhni me mir\u00ebkuptim k\u00ebt\u00eb problem dhe t\u00eb gjeni forc\u00eb p\u00ebr ta kaluar. N\u00ebse nuk e gjeni zgjidhjen, p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur procedurat avokatore mund t\u00eb kontaktoni me Studio Ligjore \u201cDuraj\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Quhem Anisa dhe jam nga Tirana. Problemi im \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk ia kaloj aspak mir\u00eb me tim shoq. Para disa vitesh ai p\u00ebsoi nj\u00eb aksident jasht\u00eb shtetit (Itali). Nga ky aksident p\u00ebrfitoi nj\u00eb pension t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm prej 730 euro n\u00eb muaj. Ka 1 vit e gjysm\u00eb q\u00eb na mashtronte me arsyen q\u00eb ia […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[87,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11520","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-avokati","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11520","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11520"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11520\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11520"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11520"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11520"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}