{"id":11477,"date":"2015-12-21T14:30:33","date_gmt":"2015-12-21T13:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11477"},"modified":"2015-12-21T11:50:49","modified_gmt":"2015-12-21T10:50:49","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-132","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/12\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-132\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Bresh\u00ebr<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur binte shum\u00eb bresh\u00ebr. M\u00eb kujtohet q\u00eb p\u00ebr pak koh\u00eb u zbardh \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb binte bresh\u00ebri, un\u00eb isha n\u00eb merak p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn sepse ajo ishte p\u00ebrjashta n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb keqe. Faleminderit. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb me bresh\u00ebr tregon se ju jeni t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr emocionalisht. Disa situata q\u00eb mendoni se i keni n\u00ebn kontroll, n\u00eb fakt nuk i keni dhe kjo po ju shkakton nj\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb trazuar emocionale. Po kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, e cila do t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb sprov\u00eb p\u00ebr ju n\u00ebse jeni duke kaluar kriz\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn familjare ose n\u00eb lidhje me vajz\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jeni e shqet\u00ebuar vazhdimisht dhe arsyet se pse i dini vet\u00ebm ju.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Festa dhe i dashuri<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikosh veten sikur je n\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb? Aty ishte edhe i dashuri im dhe shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb nuk i njihja. Isha e shqet\u00ebsuar sepse aty ishte ish-e fejuara e t\u00eb dashurit tim. Isha z\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb realitet me t\u00eb dhe mezi i flisnim nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Nga frika se mos ma merrte t\u00eb dashurin, iu afrova ish-t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebs s\u00eb tij dhe i fola ashp\u00ebr, duke e shikuar v\u00ebng\u00ebr n\u00eb sy. Ajo m\u00eb tha: \u201cNuk m\u00eb intereson aspak i dashuri yt\u201d. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, i dashuri po m\u00eb shikonte me nerva se pse po i flisja asaj. Pres nj\u00eb shpjegim. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u00cbndrra juaj e tregon shum\u00eb qart\u00eb q\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit ka patur tension mes jush dhe keni diskutuar mbi nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje q\u00eb ka lidhje me seriozitetin e lidhjes tuaj. Ky lloj diskutimi ju ka l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb shije t\u00eb keqe dhe jeni n\u00eb ankth, pasi keni frik\u00eb se mos ai rikthehet tek ish-e fejuara. Nuk duhet t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb se do ta humbisni, vet\u00ebm ruani qet\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe mos e ngacmoni mbi t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn. N\u00ebse hapni tema t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs, rrezikoni t\u00eb ftoheni bashk\u00eb. Gjith\u00e7ka e keni n\u00eb dor\u00eb ju. Jepini qet\u00ebsin\u00eb e koh\u00ebn e duhur dhe fati do t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bresh\u00ebr &#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur binte shum\u00eb bresh\u00ebr. M\u00eb kujtohet q\u00eb p\u00ebr pak koh\u00eb u zbardh \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb binte bresh\u00ebri, un\u00eb isha n\u00eb merak p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn sepse ajo ishte p\u00ebrjashta n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb keqe. Faleminderit. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka, ju lutem? &#8211; Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb me bresh\u00ebr tregon se ju [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11477","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11477","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11477"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11477\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11477"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11477"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11477"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}