{"id":11432,"date":"2015-12-17T17:30:44","date_gmt":"2015-12-17T16:30:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11432"},"modified":"2015-12-17T16:18:44","modified_gmt":"2015-12-17T15:18:44","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-33","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/12\/pyetje-pergjigje-per-seksin-33\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr seksin\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

– Kam nj\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr Dr. Evin: N\u00ebse nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cnuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj seks sa her\u00eb ti d\u00ebshiron\u201d, sa e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Kjo varet nga personi n\u00eb person, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb pyetje psikologjike dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet ta kuptoni vet\u00ebm ju, s\u2019kemi si ta kuptojm\u00eb neve. Pastaj, d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr seks varet edhe nga gjendja e tij fizike, nga potenciali i tij. N\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb i lodhur, s\u2019ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb apo forc\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb seks. N\u00ebse sapo ka b\u00ebr\u00eb seks, i duhet pak koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb rimarr\u00eb energjit\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rifilluar seksin. Pra, kjo varet nga partneri juaj. Thjesht m\u00ebsoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreth d\u00ebshirave t\u00eb tij dhe potencialit t\u00eb tij seksual. Bisedoni rreth seksit me t\u00eb, jo duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb presion, por n\u00eb form\u00eb shakaje. Mund t\u00eb zbuloni shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra rreth marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies tuaj dhe mund ta p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoni at\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– Sa her\u00eb b\u00ebj seks me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn, prishem shum\u00eb shpejt dhe nuk di si t\u00eb veproj. Jam 30 vje\u00e7 dhe kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb ndodh vet\u00ebm tani, me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn e re.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Provoni t\u00eb b\u00ebni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me prezervativ, i cili do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb ta zgjasni m\u00eb shum\u00eb aktin seksual, ose n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb jeni gati p\u00ebr ejakulacion, t\u00ebrhiquni mbrapa dhe vazhdojeni seksin s\u00ebrish. Ndoshta keni nj\u00eb lidhje kimike m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb partnere, ndaj kaloni shpejt n\u00eb ejakulacion. Provoni metodat q\u00eb ju thash\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr dhe n\u00ebse p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nuk keni sukses, b\u00ebni nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb tek andrologu. Tashm\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha metodat mjek\u00ebsore dhe k\u00ebshilluese p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjatur aktin seksual dhe p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar at\u00eb.<\/p>\n

– Kam nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb nuk di t\u2019i gjej zgjidhje, ndaj dua mendimin tuaj. Kur b\u00ebj marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me t\u00eb fejuarin, nuk ndjej k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi seksuale. Her\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb aktit lagem, pastaj her\u00ebt e tjera jam e that\u00eb. M\u00eb ka ndodhur edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb me partner\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb bile kam edhe dhimbje…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ju vuani nga tharja vaginale dhe kjo vjen si rezultat i uljes s\u00eb prodhimit t\u00eb estrogjeneve n\u00eb organiz\u00ebm, gj\u00eb e cila sjell tharje, ulje t\u00eb elasticitetit t\u00eb organit tuaj seksual dhe shqet\u00ebsimet q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrmendni n\u00eb letr\u00ebn tuaj. Kjo mund t\u00eb leht\u00ebsohet duke p\u00ebrdorur lubrifikues ose xhel vaginal. N\u00eb rast se keni p\u00ebrs\u00ebri t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat probleme, do t\u2019ju k\u00ebshilloja nj\u00eb vizit\u00eb te gjinekologu sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim i cili trajtohet shum\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u00eb keni m\u00eb probleme t\u00eb tilla.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Kam nj\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr Dr. Evin: N\u00ebse nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cnuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj seks sa her\u00eb ti d\u00ebshiron\u201d, sa e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb? – Kjo varet nga personi n\u00eb person, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb pyetje psikologjike dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet ta kuptoni vet\u00ebm ju, s\u2019kemi si ta kuptojm\u00eb neve. Pastaj, d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr seks varet edhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219,88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11432","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje","category-seksologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11432","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11432"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11432\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11432"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11432"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11432"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}