{"id":11368,"date":"2015-12-11T16:30:12","date_gmt":"2015-12-11T15:30:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11368"},"modified":"2015-12-11T12:49:08","modified_gmt":"2015-12-11T11:49:08","slug":"13-gjera-qe-ju-bejne-nje-partnere-te-keqe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/12\/13-gjera-qe-ju-bejne-nje-partnere-te-keqe\/","title":{"rendered":"13 gj\u00ebra q\u00eb ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb partnere t\u00eb keqe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nj\u00eb list\u00eb e gj\u00ebrave m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb shtrat, ose anti-guida e atyre q\u00eb duan t\u00eb b\u00ebhen bomba seksi.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Keni ngecur n\u00eb rutin\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Nuk flasim k\u00ebtu p\u00ebr alarmin q\u00eb bie \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn or\u00eb dhe dob\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj p\u00ebr \u00e7ajin jeshil, por p\u00ebr rutin\u00ebn seksuale, plot me gj\u00ebra t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorura dhe rip\u00ebrdorura, q\u00eb i paralizon pak marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet tuaja. E merr gjithmon\u00eb ai nism\u00ebn, fillon gjithmon\u00eb me duart dhe p\u00ebrfundon gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin pozicion? Pak r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka se kush b\u00ebn \u00e7far\u00eb i pari, e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb ta befasoni tjetrin dhe t\u00eb ndryshoni mekanizmin q\u00eb sjell k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb. P\u00ebr shembull, provoni t\u00eb b\u00ebni dashuri n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend tjet\u00ebr, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 shtratit.<\/p>\n

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    1. Keni komplekse p\u00ebr trupin tuaj <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Rregulli num\u00ebr nj\u00eb: Kurr\u00eb mos t\u00ebrhiqni v\u00ebmendjen e nj\u00eb djali mbi nj\u00eb nga pjes\u00ebt e trupit p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat keni kompleks. E para, ka 90% shanse q\u00eb ai t\u00eb mos e ket\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb re dhe e dyta, mos e futni veten n\u00eb telashe. Duke urryer dhjamin e barkut, t\u00eb pasmet e m\u00ebdha dhe gjoksin q\u00eb nuk sfidon m\u00eb ligjin e r\u00ebndes\u00ebs dhe duke folur vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, do ta ktheni n\u00eb fiksim. Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs do t\u00eb bindni edhe partnerin dhe, duke menduar shum\u00eb p\u00ebr trupin tuaj, do t\u00eb harroni t\u00eb tijin. Gjith\u00eb kjo situat\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fare seksi.<\/p>\n

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      1. Ju mungon spontaneiteti<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Ju i keni lejuar atij t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00ebm dy-tre gj\u00ebra, me kufij t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar qart\u00eb dhe ai duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb si t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me to. Ju nuk rrezikoni kurr\u00eb dhe gjithmon\u00eb b\u00ebni dashuri nj\u00ebsoj. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendroheni tek ajo q\u00eb ai b\u00ebn, p\u00ebrqendrohuni m\u00eb mir\u00eb te ndjesit\u00eb q\u00eb ju sjell.<\/p>\n

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        1. Nuk ju p\u00eblqen intimiteti<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Juve nuk ju p\u00eblqen t\u00eb rrini lakuriq para tij, t\u00eb b\u00ebni dush s\u00eb bashku, t\u00eb rrini lakuriq n\u00eb shtrat… Megjithat\u00eb, pa k\u00ebto detaje t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb i japin m\u00eb shum\u00eb shije aktit n\u00eb vetevete, dashuria fizike duket e vak\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

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          1. Nuk e pranoni k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Megjith\u00ebse jeni gati t\u00eb b\u00ebni shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra n\u00eb shtrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb, futeni n\u00eb panik kur vjen fjala p\u00ebr ju. Pranojeni se edhe ju keni t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqeni dhe thuajani partnerit se nuk e arrini dot orgazm\u00ebn p\u00ebr pes\u00eb minuta, \u00e7far\u00ebdo gj\u00ebje t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb ai…<\/p>\n

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            1. Keni frik\u00eb se mos shqet\u00ebsohen fqinj\u00ebt<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              \u00cbsht\u00eb qesharake, l\u00ebreni veten t\u00eb lir\u00eb, b\u00ebrtitni e g\u00ebrthisni, le t\u00eb dridhen muret. K\u00ebshtu, partneri juaj do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur dhe i eksituar. N\u00eb rastin m\u00eb t\u00eb keq, ata do t\u2019ju fusin nj\u00eb pusull\u00eb posht\u00eb der\u00ebs n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes. Fqinj\u00ebt do ta marrin veten shpejt; ju gjithashtu.<\/p>\n

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              1. Shqet\u00ebsimet e p\u00ebrditshme i merrni me vete ne shtrat<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ideja m\u00eb e keqe n\u00eb bot\u00eb, t\u00eb sjell\u00ebsh n\u00eb shtrat shqet\u00ebsimet e dit\u00ebs. Konsiderojeni dhom\u00ebn e gjumit si nj\u00eb tempull t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb suaj, intimitetit, seksualitetit. Nuk b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb ta fusni stresin n\u00ebn mbulesa si nj\u00eb gjarp\u00ebr t\u00eb shpifur dhe t\u00eb largoheni nga partneri. E kuptojm\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u realizuar, por pak m\u00eb e leht\u00eb, kur ke besim te d\u00ebshira e tjetrit.<\/p>\n

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                1. Ju b\u00ebni si yll deti<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, ju q\u00ebndroni pasive, pa b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb dhe pritni gjith\u00e7ka nga tjetri. Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb dashuri me dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebn asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje? Baza e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies seksuale jan\u00eb dy qenie q\u00eb kan\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb dakord p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb, pak p\u00ebrpjekje, psher\u00ebtima dhe l\u00ebvizje p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar pranimin tuaj, jan\u00eb t\u00eb domosdoshme dhe t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuara nga tjetri.<\/p>\n

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                  1. Jeni maniake<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    \u00c7\u2019t\u00eb themi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb? Veshjet e hedhura andej-k\u00ebtej nuk mblidhen dhe rregullohen para se t\u00eb vij\u00eb m\u00ebngjesi, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn. E nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb vlen edhe p\u00ebr \u00e7ar\u00e7af\u00ebt, q\u00eb nuk ia vlen t\u2019i nd\u00ebrroni \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Kjo vlen edhe p\u00ebr ata ose ato q\u00eb vrapojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb dush pasi kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks, menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas orgazm\u00ebs, para se t\u00eb kesh koh\u00eb t\u00eb thuash \u201cuf\u201d. Duket sikur seksi ua shpif.<\/p>\n

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                    1. Jeni shum\u00eb brutale<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      K\u00ebtu kemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb: Aj!<\/p>\n

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                      1. Nuk dini t\u00eb vini nj\u00eb prezervativ<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                        Jemi n\u00eb vitin 2015, nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e emancipuar dhe e zonja duhet t\u00eb dij\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb prezervativ, me eleganc\u00eb bile.<\/p>\n

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                        1. Ju b\u00ebni seks vet\u00ebm me raste<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                          P\u00ebr Krishtlindje, Vit t\u00eb Ri, dit\u00eblindje, ovulim, kur nuk i keni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi… \u00c7far\u00eb ka mbetur? Shihni kalendarin dhe mendoni se \u00e7do dit\u00eb ka shenjtin dhe fest\u00ebn e saj. Nuk po ju themi t\u00eb b\u00ebni seks \u00e7do dit\u00eb, por ta b\u00ebni \u00e7do dit\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb sensuale. Edhe n\u00ebse nuk kaloni n\u00eb veprim, ju b\u00ebn mir\u00eb t\u00eb flirtoni.<\/p>\n

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                          1. Jeni e dashuruar me veten tuaj<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                            Keni shansin t\u00eb jeni nj\u00eb modele, me trup prej nimfe dhe fytyr\u00eb engj\u00ebllore. Megjithat\u00eb, kur b\u00ebni dashuri, ju i kushtoni v\u00ebmendje ve\u00e7 vetes, llogaritni \u00e7do gjest dhe \u00e7do p\u00ebrkulje p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb maj\u00eb t\u00eb bukuris\u00eb dhe seks-apilit tuaj. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm fallco, si nj\u00eb foto n\u00eb Instagram, por dyshojm\u00eb n\u00ebse e arrini v\u00ebrtet orgazm\u00ebn. E dim\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, nj\u00eb partnere e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb di edhe t\u00eb marr\u00eb, edhe jap\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n

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                            T\u00eb reja<\/em><\/p>\n

                            Tradhtia: Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshimi mes dy sekseve? <\/strong><\/p>\n

                            Nj\u00eb studim i koh\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit tregoi se \u00e7ereku i burrave dhe 15% e grave kan\u00eb pranuar se kan\u00eb pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie jasht\u00ebmartesore, por kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shifra e vetme q\u00eb tregon ndryshimin nd\u00ebrmjet dy sekseve.<\/em><\/p>\n

                            – 78 % e burrave deklarojn\u00eb se tradhtia n\u00eb \u00e7ift \u00ebsht\u00eb e palejueshme, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb te grat\u00eb, kjo shif\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e madhe, 84 %.<\/p>\n

                            – 25 % e burrave dhe 15 % e grave pranojn\u00eb se kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks jasht\u00eb martese. Megjithat\u00eb, duke pasur parasysh se njer\u00ebzit nuk i rr\u00ebfejn\u00eb leht\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra, qoft\u00eb edhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb anonime, supozojm\u00eb se shifra \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e lart\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                            – Sipas nj\u00eb studimi t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 2010, grat\u00eb kan\u00eb 40 % m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb tradhti n\u00eb dit\u00ebt tona, n\u00eb krahasim me 20 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb. Specialist\u00ebt e shpjegojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kryesisht me faktin q\u00eb grat\u00eb jan\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje pune dhe shum\u00eb profesione k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb nga grat\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb udh\u00ebtojn\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ato bien m\u00eb leht\u00eb n\u00eb tundim.<\/p>\n

                            – 92% e burrave pranon se shkaku i tradhtis\u00eb nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me seksin, sepse arsyet q\u00eb i shtyjn\u00eb m\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb partneren e tyre jan\u00eb kryesisht emocionale, si mungesa e komunikimit, ose mungesa e konsensusit dhe vler\u00ebsimit q\u00eb kan\u00eb nga partnerja.<\/p>\n

                            – 88% e burrave nuk e kan\u00eb tradhtuar partneren me dik\u00eb m\u00eb josh\u00ebse ose me trup m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, ata q\u00eb konsiderohen n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi m\u00eb josh\u00ebs, qoft\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb kultur\u00ebs, parave, apo pamjes s\u00eb jashtme, kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb tradhtojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                            – 55% e burrave ose vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra, megjith\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb zbuluar tradhtia e tyre, ose vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb sikur nuk ka ndodhur kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                            – 50% e burrave deklarojn\u00eb se do ta falnin partneren n\u00ebse do t\u2019i tradhtonte me nj\u00eb grua tjet\u00ebr, por vet\u00ebm 22% do ta b\u00ebnte po t\u2019i tradhtonte me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. P\u00ebrsa u p\u00ebrket grave, 21% than\u00eb se do t\u2019i falnin burrat po t\u2019i tradhtonin me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, nd\u00ebrsa, por t\u00eb ishte grua, shifra do t\u00eb arrinte n\u00eb 28%. Ekspert\u00ebt mendojn\u00eb se mbase kjo diferenc\u00eb shkaktohet nga fakti se burrave u duket shum\u00eb josh\u00ebse lidhja erotike mes dy grave. Nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, nj\u00eb lidhje e till\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb sillte nj\u00eb shtatzani t\u00eb mundshme.<\/p>\n

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                            Nj\u00eb list\u00eb e gj\u00ebrave m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb shtrat, ose anti-guida e atyre q\u00eb duan t\u00eb b\u00ebhen bomba seksi.   Keni ngecur n\u00eb rutin\u00eb Nuk flasim k\u00ebtu p\u00ebr alarmin q\u00eb bie \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn or\u00eb dhe dob\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj p\u00ebr \u00e7ajin jeshil, por p\u00ebr rutin\u00ebn seksuale, plot me gj\u00ebra t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":11369,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11368","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11368","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11368"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11368\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11369"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11368"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11368"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11368"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}