{"id":11213,"date":"2015-11-30T14:30:17","date_gmt":"2015-11-30T13:30:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11213"},"modified":"2015-11-30T11:06:18","modified_gmt":"2015-11-30T10:06:18","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-123","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/11\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-123\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Shkulja e dh\u00ebmbit dhe gjyshi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb shkulja e dh\u00ebmbit n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? K\u00ebshtu m\u00eb ka par\u00eb babai im. N\u00eb nj\u00eb rast tjet\u00ebr, babai ka par\u00eb babain e vet t\u00eb vdekur. Gjyshi sikur i k\u00ebrkonte raki me k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulje dhe pastaj u rr\u00ebzua e u lag. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Faleminderit. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u00cbndrrat me dh\u00ebmb\u00ebt kan\u00eb kuptime t\u00eb ndryshme, por n\u00eb rastin konkret, \u00ebndrra juaj tregon nj\u00eb vet\u00ebbesim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt, i cili n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, prek babain tuaj. Keni diskutuar di\u00e7ka me babain dhe ju e keni shikuar si figur\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb, por n\u00eb lidhje me ju, ai nuk ndihet edhe aq i fuqish\u00ebm. Megjithat\u00eb, nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni sepse momente pasigurie kalojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, edhe t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb; e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb ta marr\u00ebsh situat\u00ebn n\u00eb dor\u00eb. \u00cbndrra e dyt\u00eb ka lidhje me dob\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe pasigurit\u00eb e babait tuaj, por q\u00eb jan\u00eb kalimtare, si\u00e7 ju thash\u00eb edhe m\u00eb sip\u00ebr.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aksident dhe engj\u00eblli i vdekjes<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; <strong>Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur isha n\u00eb udh\u00ebtim me t\u00eb fejuarin tim. Duke ecur rrug\u00ebs u gjend\u00ebm p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb aksidenti, zbrit\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb se kush ishte aksidentuar dhe ishin tre meshkuj, por n\u00eb krye u q\u00ebndronte nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e veshur komplet me t\u00eb bardha. I fejuari m\u00eb tha se ajo ishte engj\u00eblli i vdekjes q\u00eb kishte ardhur p\u00ebr t\u2019i marr\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment e fiksova dhe ajo m\u00eb pa, por m\u00eb shp\u00ebrfilli. M\u00eb tha: \u201cAkoma s\u2019t\u00eb ka ardhur koha\u201d, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb duart i kishte te duart e atyre q\u00eb kishin vdekur. Jam shum\u00eb n\u00eb ankth. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Udh\u00ebtimi me t\u00eb fejuarin \u00ebsht\u00eb udh\u00ebtimi q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebni ju n\u00eb jet\u00eb s\u00eb bashku. S\u00eb shpejti, statusi juaj do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb, por kjo s\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb trembeni. Do t\u00eb martoheni dhe jeta, sigurisht, merr nj\u00eb kthes\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, sepse tashm\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb do ta ndani me t\u00eb fejuarin. Keni pak frik\u00eb nga jeta, keni frik\u00eb nga t\u00eb papriturat e nga e panjohura, sepse do t\u00eb jetoni me t\u00eb. Duke jetuar me t\u00eb, do t\u00eb zbuloni ndoshta gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk do t\u2019ju p\u00eblqejn\u00eb, por k\u00ebto jan\u00eb t\u00eb pashmangshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha \u00e7iftet. Pra, aksidenti dhe personat e aksidentuar s\u2019kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb fare me di\u00e7ka t\u00eb till\u00eb, por p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb frik\u00ebrat tuaja n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Vdekja e tyre p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson shnd\u00ebrrimin nga nj\u00ebri stad n\u00eb tjetrin. Ju po shkoni drejt nj\u00eb ndryshimi, nj\u00eb niveli t\u00eb ri n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Engj\u00eblli i vdekjes \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshimi p\u00ebr mir\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Pavar\u00ebsisht v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive q\u00eb do t\u00eb hasni, ju do t\u2019i kap\u00ebrceni t\u00eb gjitha. Nuk duhet t\u00eb jetoni n\u00eb ankth, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb mesazhi i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs suaj. Jetoni \u00e7far\u00eb keni dhe p\u00ebrgatiteni veten p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen n\u00eb \u00e7ift.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shkulja e dh\u00ebmbit dhe gjyshi &#8211; \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb shkulja e dh\u00ebmbit n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr? K\u00ebshtu m\u00eb ka par\u00eb babai im. N\u00eb nj\u00eb rast tjet\u00ebr, babai ka par\u00eb babain e vet t\u00eb vdekur. Gjyshi sikur i k\u00ebrkonte raki me k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulje dhe pastaj u rr\u00ebzua e u lag. Pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Faleminderit. &#8211; \u00cbndrrat me dh\u00ebmb\u00ebt [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11213","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11213","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11213"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11213\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11213"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11213"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11213"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}