{"id":11194,"date":"2015-11-26T14:30:22","date_gmt":"2015-11-26T13:30:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11194"},"modified":"2015-11-26T13:35:27","modified_gmt":"2015-11-26T12:35:27","slug":"ish-i-dashuri-me-injoron","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/11\/ish-i-dashuri-me-injoron\/","title":{"rendered":"Ish-i dashuri m\u00eb injoron"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; Jam e dashuruar me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe pas 6 muajsh lidhjeje, ai m\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cDua t\u00eb ndahemi, se nuk jam i dashuruar me ty\u201d, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb gjer tani m\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypjen se m\u00eb dashuron. Un\u00eb e marr shpesh n\u00eb telefon, i d\u00ebrgoj mesazhe sepse nuk dua t\u00eb ndahem, por ai nuk m\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet fare, m\u00eb injoron dhe kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihem shum\u00eb keq. Si t\u00eb veproj, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em><u>Borana Marku, psikologe:<\/u><\/em><\/strong> &#8211; \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb, l\u00ebreni t\u00eb lir\u00eb, nuk ia vlen ta ndiqni nga mbrapa kur vet\u00eb ai jua ka th\u00ebn\u00eb tro\u00e7 q\u00eb nuk ju dashuron. Pse duhet ta torturoni veten kaq shum\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb ju ka l\u00ebn\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u00eb jet\u00eb me ju. Mund t\u2019ju dukem e ashp\u00ebr, por me veprimet q\u00eb b\u00ebni, vet\u00ebm sa ulni akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb \u201cimazhin\u201d tuaj p\u00ebrball\u00eb tij. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb ta p\u00ebrndiqni, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb ai do t\u2019ju injoroj\u00eb. Shum\u00eb meshkuj jan\u00eb si hija; po ta ndjek\u00ebsh nga mbrapa, ik\u00ebn dhe, kur i ik\u00ebn, t\u00eb ndjek. B\u00ebhuni e fort\u00eb, se nuk mbaroi jeta p\u00ebr nj\u00eb mashkull. Duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni t\u2019i lini gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb ikin, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr kur nuk duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs tuaj. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb do ta lini t\u00eb lir\u00eb at\u00eb, t\u00eb reshtni s\u00eb k\u00ebrkuari at\u00eb person, do t\u00eb filloni t\u00eb ndiheni m\u00eb mir\u00eb me veten tuaj, m\u00eb e qet\u00eb. Injorimi q\u00eb ju b\u00ebn ai, ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiheni akoma m\u00eb keq. Q\u00ebndroni krejt indiferent dhe mbylleni at\u00eb der\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht pas k\u00ebtij veprimi ai t\u2019ju vij\u00eb nga mbrapa, por nga ana ime do t\u2019ju k\u00ebshilloja ta hidhni pas krah\u00ebve dhe ta injoroni si\u00e7 b\u00ebn ai me ju. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb mbyll nj\u00eb der\u00eb, t\u00eb hapet menj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb der\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Meriton t\u00eb t\u00eb duan dhe t\u00eb respektojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Jam e dashuruar me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe pas 6 muajsh lidhjeje, ai m\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cDua t\u00eb ndahemi, se nuk jam i dashuruar me ty\u201d, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb gjer tani m\u00eb ka l\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypjen se m\u00eb dashuron. Un\u00eb e marr shpesh n\u00eb telefon, i d\u00ebrgoj mesazhe sepse nuk dua t\u00eb ndahem, por ai nuk m\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[92,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11194","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-halle","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11194","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11194"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11194\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11194"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11194"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11194"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}