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“Dhe jetuan p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur e t\u00eb g\u00ebzuar”. Ky ishte fundi i \u00e7do p\u00ebrralle t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb dhe fillimi i \u00ebndrrave p\u00ebr \u00e7do vajz\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Historia dihet: heroina e p\u00ebrrall\u00ebs kalon momente t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, por n\u00eb fund i fiton zemr\u00ebn nj\u00eb princi t\u00eb bukur, i cili ka hequr t\u00eb zit\u00eb e ullirit p\u00ebr ta gjetur dhe b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb tij\u00ebn. Vazhdonin m\u00eb pas p\u00ebrrallat n\u00eb rini me filmat “Ditari i Brixhet Xhounsit” dhe “Gruaja e bukur”, etj. Do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb thosha me dhjet\u00ebra t\u00eb till\u00eb, por skenari \u00ebsht\u00eb i nj\u00ebjt\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb po ndaloj k\u00ebtu. N\u00eb linja t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme (dhe me ndonj\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl aty-k\u00ebtu), nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb njeh nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, por, p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb arsye, ata nuk merren vesh bashk\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, mos u shqet\u00ebso, sepse pas nj\u00eb serie pengesash dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsish ata do t\u00eb bien n\u00eb dashuri me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe, t\u00eb kapur dor\u00eb p\u00ebr dore do t\u00eb vrapojn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur n\u00ebp\u00ebr livadhe dhe fusha (t\u00eb sfidoj t\u00eb gjesh nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale). <\/em><\/p>\n Burrat jan\u00eb akuzuar se ndikohen negativisht nga filmat sentimental\u00eb, duke mos patur pritshm\u00ebri realiste n\u00eb seks. Por, ne e kemi pyetur veten se si ndikojn\u00eb filmat romantik\u00eb n\u00eb pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb q\u00eb kemi n\u00eb lidhjen ton\u00eb… <\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Le t’i marrim gj\u00ebrat nga fillimi<\/strong><\/p>\n T\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb kan\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar nj\u00eb lidhje “t\u00eb p\u00ebrkryer”, t\u00eb kopjuar nga kinemaja, por pothuajse asnj\u00ebra prej nesh nuk e ka p\u00ebrjetuar at\u00eb n\u00eb realitet. N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve zhg\u00ebnjehemi kur partneri nuk b\u00ebn ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb romantike p\u00ebr ne, si t\u00eb na ndjek\u00eb nga pas n\u00eb mes t\u00eb shiut, t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb pun\u00ebn sepse i merr koh\u00eb nga lidhja, t\u00eb mos flas\u00eb me shok\u00ebt, sepse ata nuk na p\u00eblqejn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb sulmoj\u00eb k\u00ebdo q\u00eb na flet keq, vet\u00ebm e vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb na mbrojtur. N\u00ebse ndonj\u00eb nga t\u00eb m\u00ebsip\u00ebrmit t\u00eb duket skenar i njohur, at\u00ebher\u00eb edhe ti je nj\u00eb nga viktimat e shumta t\u00eb filmave romantik\u00eb. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb keq t\u00eb kesh pritshm\u00ebri t\u00eb larta n\u00eb lidhjen t\u00ebnde dhe t\u00eb duash m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn p\u00ebr vete, por duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb pritshm\u00ebri realiste, gj\u00ebra q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhen nga partneri. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00ebse partneri yt \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri i mbyllur dhe nuk shprehet, nuk mund t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh t\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb posht\u00eb dritares dhe t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebrtas\u00eb se t\u00eb dashuron. Kujtohu se k\u00ebshtu e ke njohur dhe ke r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me t\u00eb. Sigurisht, nuk them t\u00eb mos shoh\u00ebsh m\u00eb filma t\u00eb till\u00eb. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr t’u par\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb shtun\u00eb n\u00eb dark\u00eb, ku do t\u00eb rrish n\u00eb kolltuk dhe t\u00eb mos b\u00ebsh asgj\u00eb, ose p\u00ebr t’u par\u00eb me shoqet n\u00eb kinema. Megjithat\u00eb, ka ardhur momenti t\u00eb pyes\u00ebsh veten n\u00ebse ata ndikojn\u00eb negativisht n\u00eb lidhjen t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ato q\u00eb na m\u00ebsuan filmat romantik\u00eb:<\/strong><\/p>\n Dashuria t\u00eb l\u00ebndon dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb<\/em><\/strong>. Nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb rralla rastet kur dashuria vjen n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde thjesht, por ti e sheh me dyshim, sikur di\u00e7ka nuk shkon mir\u00eb. Truri yt \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb se gj\u00ebrat e mira n\u00eb jet\u00eb vijn\u00eb pas v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive dhe mund t\u00eb fitohen vet\u00ebm me luft\u00eb.<\/p>\n Veprimet e m\u00ebdha<\/em><\/strong>. T\u00eb duket nj\u00eb reagim i natyrsh\u00ebm q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb mos hip\u00eb n\u00eb momentin e fundit n\u00eb aeroplan, sepse kuptoi q\u00eb t\u00eb dashuronte? Kjo sjellje, mbase \u00ebsht\u00eb karakteristike p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn veprime t\u00eb pakontrolluara dhe merr vendime t\u00eb nxituara! Mos u m\u00ebrzit n\u00ebse partneri q\u00eb ke, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gati ta kthej\u00eb bot\u00ebn p\u00ebrmbys p\u00ebr ty. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, ti je e sigurt\u00eb se do t\u00eb b\u00ebje t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb?<\/p>\n I p\u00ebrkryeri<\/em><\/strong>. N\u00eb disa raste, krijohet p\u00ebrshtypja se partneri i p\u00ebrkryer \u00ebsht\u00eb aty jasht\u00eb, por e ke ti fajin q\u00eb nuk e ke gjetur akoma. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj legjende urbane, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, por askush nuk e ka gjetur ende. I p\u00ebrkryeri ndryshon sipas personave. Partneri yt mund t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb princi i kalt\u00ebr, por \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrkryer p\u00ebr ty.<\/p>\n Lidhja e p\u00ebrkryer. <\/em><\/strong>T\u00eb gjith\u00eb filmat japin nj\u00eb pamje t\u00eb idealizuar t\u00eb lidhjeve, por asnj\u00ebra nuk tregon se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh pas “per\u00ebndimit t\u00eb diellit”. Kjo, sepse vjen fjala \u201cfund\u201d. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e tepruar t\u00eb themi se, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb kishte vazhdim p\u00ebr komedit\u00eb romantike, duhej, mbase, t\u00eb tregonin edhe divorce. K\u00ebshtu pra, mos u zhg\u00ebnje n\u00ebse ti me partnerin grindeni vazhdimisht p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb kan\u00eb lidhje me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj. Lidhja k\u00ebrkon pun\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrkujdesje.<\/p>\n Seks fantastik<\/em><\/strong>. Kur themi fantastik, e kemi seriozisht. \u00c7ifti i filmit gjithmon\u00eb arrin t\u00eb pajtohet n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se, n\u00ebse ti me partnerin nuk keni menj\u00ebher\u00eb kimi n\u00eb seks, ti pyet veten n\u00ebse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ty. Mos u nxito t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjehesh. Shumica e \u00e7ifteve kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb njohin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, t\u00eb ndjehen rehat dhe t\u00eb komunikojn\u00eb, bile edhe n\u00eb shtrat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" “Dhe jetuan p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur e t\u00eb g\u00ebzuar”. Ky ishte fundi i \u00e7do p\u00ebrralle t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb son\u00eb dhe fillimi i \u00ebndrrave p\u00ebr \u00e7do vajz\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Historia dihet: heroina e p\u00ebrrall\u00ebs kalon momente t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, por n\u00eb fund i fiton zemr\u00ebn nj\u00eb princi t\u00eb bukur, i cili ka hequr t\u00eb zit\u00eb e ullirit […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":11137,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11136","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11136","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11136"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11136\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11137"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11136"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11136"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11136"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}