P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjet m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrta gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d q\u00eb na publikon historit\u00eb tona dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga eksperiencat tona, duke parandaluar k\u00ebshtu t\u00eb keqen te vetja e tyre. Edhe q\u00eb ta m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb nj\u00ebher\u00eb e mir\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vend\u2026 me k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz makab\u00ebr! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj dua t\u00eb prezantohem me emrin Jona, p\u00ebr arsye se ai plehra e di se me k\u00eb e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb dhe mund t\u2019i shkoj\u00eb mendja leht\u00eb tek un\u00eb. Jam studente n\u00eb vit t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb universitet n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb dhe jam nga nj\u00eb qytet i vog\u00ebl af\u00ebr Elbasanit. Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e bukur, por edhe e ndershme, ndaj po marr guximin t\u00eb kall\u00ebzoj k\u00ebt\u00eb histori k\u00ebtu. Prind\u00ebrit i kam pa pun\u00eb, kam edhe nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Nga gjendja ekonomike jam shum\u00eb keq. N\u00eb Tiran\u00eb m\u00eb doli shkolla p\u00ebr Mjek\u00ebsi ngaq\u00eb m\u00ebsoja shum\u00eb dhe n\u00eb qytetin ku banoja, shquhesha q\u00eb n\u00eb gjimnaz si vajz\u00eb e urt\u00eb, q\u00eb m\u00ebsonte dhe kam qen\u00eb pjes\u00eb e senatit t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs. B\u00ebja shum\u00eb aktivitete, me pak fjal\u00eb, kam pasur nj\u00eb rini aktive. K\u00ebt\u00eb vit, kur shkolla po mbaronte, kryetari i nj\u00eb grupimi rinor, q\u00eb quhet X m\u00eb ftoi p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb pjes\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj force. \u201cFtesa t\u00eb ka ardhur q\u00eb nga shum\u00eb lart, m\u00eb tha, kemi v\u00ebrejtur kontributin t\u00ebnd n\u00eb komunitet dhe jemi t\u00eb sigurt q\u00eb do b\u00ebsh shum\u00eb p\u00ebr ne. Ke shum\u00eb shok\u00eb e shoqe dhe ide. Pse t\u00eb mos bashkohesh me ne? N\u00eb rast fitoreje, do t\u00eb fusim prind\u00ebrit n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe ti do rregullohesh mir\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
Nuk mund ta fshihja d\u00ebshir\u00ebn q\u00eb pata p\u00ebr t\u2019u an\u00ebtar\u00ebsuar dhe b\u00ebr\u00eb pjes\u00eb e k\u00ebtij forumi, por i thash\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb konsultohesha me prind\u00ebrit. \u201cP\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb pyes ata, nuk veproj me kok\u00ebn time\u201d, i thash\u00eb atij. Pasi pim\u00eb kafe, fola p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb me prind\u00ebrit dhe me miqt\u00eb e mi m\u00eb t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb. U tregova lajmin dhe i pyeta se si t\u00eb b\u00ebja. Prind\u00ebrit, t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e shoq\u00ebria m\u00eb shtyn\u00eb q\u00eb ta pranoja. Nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera, babai m\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n
– Po shyqyr q\u00eb t\u00eb kan\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb re e t\u00eb kan\u00eb ftuar, duhet t\u00eb shkosh me patjet\u00ebr. Shyqyr Zotit na erdhi kjo mund\u00ebsi\u2026 Mos e n\u00ebnvler\u00ebso se pastaj do na marr\u00eb inat deputeti e do na paragjykojn\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb mandatit t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu, dit\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb u takova me kryetarin e grupimit rinor X, pranova. Ai m\u00eb caktoi n\u00eb nj\u00eb post q\u00eb t\u00eb koordinoja aktivitetet dhe shp\u00ebrndarjet e posterave. Ishte nj\u00eb pun\u00eb q\u00eb mezi e b\u00ebja dhe e kisha inat, se nuk doja t\u00eb ndyhesha me politik\u00eb, por nuk kisha \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebja, ose t\u00eb veproja ndryshe. Nuk kisha zgjidhje tjet\u00ebr, m\u2019i verbonte syt\u00eb ideja se prind\u00ebrit e mi do pun\u00ebsoheshin. Gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb isha n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb forc\u00eb, vija re shum\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsi, shkelje, intriga e t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb e p\u00ebrdhosnin karakterin e tyre e ziheshin me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, kush e kush t\u00eb binte m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb sy. Ishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb mezi e shtyja \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe punoja shum\u00eb af\u00ebr me kryetarin e bashkis\u00eb s\u00eb tanishme, q\u00eb m\u00eb merrte n\u00eb \u00e7do aktivitet, m\u00eb jepte t\u2019i p\u00ebrgatisja postimet e tij n\u00eb faqen e Fejsbukut dhe kudo, se bija n\u00eb sy ngaq\u00eb jam shum\u00eb e paraqitshme dhe e lezetshme. Deri at\u00ebher\u00eb s\u2019m\u00eb shkonte mendja tek ajo q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodhte m\u00eb vonte. Gjith\u00e7ka m\u00eb dukej normale dhe thoja me vete: \u201cEc m\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb fushat\u00eb dhe ka simpati p\u00ebr mua ngaq\u00eb po jap kontribut p\u00ebr t\u00eb\u2026\u201d. Po t\u00eb kisha pikasur di\u00e7ka q\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb, ju betohem se menj\u00ebher\u00eb e lija dhe i lajm\u00ebroja prind\u00ebrit.<\/p>\n
Dua ta theksoj edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb ne vijm\u00eb nga nj\u00eb familje e thjesht\u00eb, e ndershme, kemi qen\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb varf\u00ebr se nuk kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb nga k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra. E k\u00ebshtu, nisi dhe p\u00ebrfundoi fushata\u2026 mua kamera m\u00eb kapte n\u00eb \u00e7do foto q\u00eb publikohej te faqja e kryetarit n\u00eb Fejsbuk ngaq\u00eb isha aq e bukur. Erdhi dita pas zgjedhjes, fitoi kryebashkiaku p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin kisha kontribuar. B\u00ebm\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb e k\u00ebrcyem t\u00eb gjith\u00eb si t\u00eb \u00e7mendur. Kryebashkiaku u afrua disa her\u00eb drejt meje dhe p\u00ebrplasi got\u00ebn, duke ngritur dolli p\u00ebr suksesin e tij t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm (Tani them me vete \u201co Zot v\u00ebr dor\u00eb e kurr\u00eb mos e shijoft\u00eb at\u00eb karrige ku \u00ebsht\u00eb ulur!\u201d). Ato koh\u00eb u g\u00ebzova shum\u00eb, thash\u00eb me vete \u201ct\u00eb gjitha hallet tona mor\u00ebn fund\u201d. Mendoja p\u00ebr mamin e babin q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u2019i fuste n\u00eb pun\u00eb e se sa leht\u00eb do ta b\u00ebja shkoll\u00ebn e lart\u00eb. Fal\u00ebnderoja Zotin \u00e7do dit\u00eb e thash\u00eb, m\u00eb n\u00eb fund, \u201cpe dhe nga fukarai o Zoti im\u201d\u2026 (Imagjinoni kur t\u00eb shkonte mami im si un\u00eb n\u00eb der\u00ebn e atij plehr\u00ebs e t\u2019i k\u00ebrkonte pun\u00eb. Po t\u2019ia b\u00ebnte si mua, mos o Zot, \u00ebsht\u00eb e tep\u00ebrt).<\/p>\n
Nami n\u00eb qytetin tim m\u00eb doli shpejt si p\u00ebrkrah\u00ebse e asaj force politike, madje dhe te forca kund\u00ebrshtare, pasi m\u00eb kishin par\u00eb n\u00eb aktivitetet e tyre, se kisha rol ky\u00e7. Kaluan muaj dhe pak para muajit tetor q\u00eb m\u00eb fillonte shkolla e lart\u00eb, m\u00ebsova se kishte ardhur struktura e re e bashkis\u00eb dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb po p\u00ebrflisnin se do krijoheshin vende pune t\u00eb lira. Prind\u00ebrit i kam t\u00eb dy me shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb moment po prisnim, t\u00eb shkoja e t\u00eb trokisja n\u00eb der\u00eb p\u00ebr pun\u00eb p\u00ebr ta. \u201cKemi pritur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb, thoshte babi im i shkret\u00eb. Kemi ndenjur gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn pa pun\u00eb dhe me zanat. Po k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn ton\u00eb e t\u00eb ham\u00eb nj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe ne\u201d. Duke qen\u00eb se isha b\u00ebr\u00eb si sekretare e kryebashkiakut gjat\u00eb fushat\u00ebs, mendova se kjo do t\u00eb ishte e leht\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb zgjidhej shpejt, ndaj shkova vet\u00ebm pran\u00eb bashkis\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n
K\u00ebtu filloi edhe makthi im, k\u00ebtu u p\u00ebrmbys bota ime, k\u00ebtu fillova t\u00eb urreja veten q\u00eb jam shqiptare, jo p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, por t\u00eb atyre q\u00eb na kan\u00eb drejtuar gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vend.<\/p>\n
Kur shkova her\u00ebn e par\u00eb, kishte shum\u00eb radh\u00eb, njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rropatur q\u00eb prisnin n\u00eb korridoret e bashkis\u00eb e ziheshin se kush e kishte hallin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh e se kush do hynte i pari. K\u00ebshtu, vendosa t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb se do t\u00eb kishte m\u00eb pak njer\u00ebz, me sa m\u00eb sugjeroi edhe sekretari i bashkis\u00eb. Shkova dit\u00eb t\u00eb premte. Prap\u00eb kishte disa njer\u00ebz, por thash\u00eb \u201cec m\u00eb, po pres\u2026 Tek e fundit ai gjithmon\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb do jet\u00eb\u201d. K\u00ebshtu b\u00ebra dhe kur m\u00eb erdhi radha, trokita. Ai, sa m\u00eb pa mua, m\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n
– Uuuuuuuuuuuu Jona, hajde, hajde\u2026<\/p>\n
M\u00eb futi brenda dhe e mbylli der\u00ebn me \u00e7el\u00ebs. Dy-tre pleq q\u00eb ishin aty u habit\u00ebn e than\u00eb: \u201cEh, si futen k\u00ebto gocat e reja\u201d\u2026 U ndjeva n\u00eb siklet se ai u b\u00ebrtiti e i p\u00ebrzuri, megjithat\u00eb e mora veten shpejt dhe, pasi ai mbylli der\u00ebn, i thash\u00eb:<\/p>\n
– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje zoti kryetar, urime p\u00ebr detyr\u00ebn e re. T\u00eb shkon shum\u00eb kjo karrige. Bashk\u00eb luftuam p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb, shpresoj q\u00eb do m\u00eb rregulloni nj\u00eb vend pune p\u00ebr babin se p\u00ebr at\u00eb kam ardhur. Jemi shum\u00eb keq, asnj\u00eb nuk punon n\u00eb familjen time dhe jemi n\u00eb pik\u00eb t\u00eb hallit.<\/p>\n
Ju betohem q\u00eb isha veshur shum\u00eb serioze dhe n\u00eb asnj\u00eb moment nuk e provokova, fola me gjuh\u00eb serioze e formale, por gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb flisja, ai sikur po m\u00eb hante me sy\u2026 nj\u00eb moment u \u00e7ua n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb e m\u00eb vuri dor\u00ebn mbi flok\u00eb. Dukej si derr i uritur. Un\u00eb shtanga dhe ia hoqa dor\u00ebn, kur ai m\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n
– D\u00ebgjo, zemra vog\u00ebl, kjo q\u00eb po t\u00eb them t\u00eb mbetet mes nesh, nuk do ta diskutosh n\u00eb asnj\u00eb vend tjet\u00ebr… – n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb ma mori celularin nga frika se mos e p\u00ebrgjoja dhe e hodhi tutje. – Je e privilegjuar\u2026 duke qen\u00eb se nuk ia kam b\u00ebr\u00eb kujt k\u00ebt\u00eb ofert\u00eb. Ti je familje e varf\u00ebr pa fuqi, prind\u00ebrit e tu nuk ngren\u00eb dot kok\u00eb e ka ardhur koha t\u00eb b\u00ebsh di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr ta. P\u00ebrsa u p\u00ebrket atyre, ti nuk futesh dot kurr\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb se ata nuk kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb kontribut mjaftuesh\u00ebm dhe ty t\u00eb harrohet kontributi\u2026 Duhet t\u00eb jap\u00ebsh di\u00e7ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Hajde nj\u00eb nat\u00eb me mua n\u00eb hotel, ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb bashk\u00eb dhe i ke t\u00eb sigurt t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit n\u00eb pun\u00eb e sa jam un\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb karrige, asnj\u00eb nuk t\u2019i luan. Duhet t\u00eb jap\u00ebsh di\u00e7ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb se shoqet e tua, se si ty ka shum\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb kontribut, por fati yt q\u00eb ti m\u00eb p\u00eblqen mua, je e pjekur… – tha dhe ma kapi dor\u00ebn e ma \u00e7oi…<\/p>\n
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment, un\u00eb thirra: – Mjaft! Je n\u00eb vete, \u00e7far\u00eb po b\u00ebn k\u00ebshtu? Nuk e b\u00ebj kurr\u00eb at\u00eb gj\u00eb, ta di se rri pa pun\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
– Mbylle goj\u00ebn, – m\u00eb tha, – mos b\u00ebrtit, se na d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb\u2026 E po fole p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, do ta mohoj e do t\u00eb t\u00eb fus n\u00eb burg, bashk\u00eb me deputetin, p\u00ebr prishje imazhi. Kam lek\u00eb dhe e di ti, zemra e vog\u00ebl, se \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebn leku sot. Q\u00ebrrohu nga zyra!<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb dola me nxitim e mezi po e p\u00ebrmbaja veten. Shkova n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe vet\u00ebm kam qar\u00eb n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn time. M\u2019u duk vetja shum\u00eb posht\u00eb. Dita-dit\u00ebs ai derri m\u00eb d\u00ebrgonte njer\u00ebz q\u00eb t\u00eb ma mbyllnin goj\u00ebn e p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se oferta e tij q\u00ebndronte akoma. M\u00eb kujtohet si tani \u00e7do fjal\u00eb e tij e pis\u00ebt dhe m\u00eb vinte ta mbysja. Ja, se \u00e7far\u00eb u b\u00ebka p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vend pune k\u00ebtu n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Nuk kam as forc\u00eb e as guxim p\u00ebr ta denoncuar dhe familjes nuk i kam treguar gj\u00eb, i kam pa qejf e nuk dua t\u2019u krijoj probleme. Ai maniaku vazhdon t\u00eb m\u00eb ngacmoj\u00eb. Tani kam ardhur n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, kam nisur shkoll\u00ebn e nuk jam kthyer m\u00eb n\u00eb qytetin tim… Sikur kam gjetur paqe. Babai ndihet i pashpres\u00eb se i thash\u00eb q\u00eb \u201cdonte zarf me para p\u00ebr pun\u00eb ai\u201d. E shihni ore popull, \u00e7far\u00eb kemi votuar? Si do t\u2019i zgjidhin hallet tona k\u00ebta imoral\u00eb? Q\u00eb nga ai moment kam shum\u00eb frik\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn, ndjehem e pasigurt dhe mir\u00ebpres k\u00ebshilla nga ju, si edhe nga psikolog\u00eb t\u00eb fush\u00ebs. Ndjehem keq mend\u00ebrisht. Po shoh p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb pun\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb furr\u00eb buke si shit\u00ebse a di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmoj veten dhe familjen, por n\u00eb mendje vazhdoj t\u00eb kem imazhin e atij plehr\u00ebs s\u00eb eksituar. Hajde shtyje 4 vjet me at\u00eb! Emrin nuk ia tregoj se m\u00eb kan\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuar te familja, se p\u00ebr veten nuk ma ndiente shum\u00eb. Gjithsesi, dua t\u00eb mbetem anonime dhe t\u00eb mos b\u00ebhem un\u00eb heroina, se nuk kam kushtet p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb e till\u00eb. Dhe n\u00eb fund, faleminderit stafit tuaj p\u00ebr botimin e letr\u00ebs sime, m\u00eb keni hequr nj\u00eb barr\u00eb t\u00eb madhe\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjet m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrta gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d q\u00eb na publikon historit\u00eb tona dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga eksperiencat tona, duke parandaluar k\u00ebshtu t\u00eb keqen te vetja e tyre. Edhe q\u00eb ta m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb nj\u00ebher\u00eb e mir\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vend\u2026 me k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz makab\u00ebr! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj dua t\u00eb prezantohem me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11119","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11119","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11119"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11119\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11119"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11119"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11119"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}