{"id":11104,"date":"2015-11-18T14:30:20","date_gmt":"2015-11-18T13:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11104"},"modified":"2015-11-18T12:32:08","modified_gmt":"2015-11-18T11:32:08","slug":"ish-burri-kercenon-se-do-te-me-marre-djalin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/11\/ish-burri-kercenon-se-do-te-me-marre-djalin\/","title":{"rendered":"Ish-burri k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon se do t\u00eb m\u00eb marr\u00eb djalin"},"content":{"rendered":"

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– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje avokat! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam Enida dhe, n\u00ebse keni mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00eb ktheni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje, do t\u2019ju isha shum\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse. Kam b\u00ebr\u00eb celebrim n\u00eb vitin 2010 n\u00eb qytetin e Tiran\u00ebs me nj\u00eb shtetas kosovar. M\u00eb pas jam shp\u00ebrngulur te familja e tij n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb. N\u00eb vitin 2011 kam lindur f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb. Pas 6 muajsh t\u00eb lindjes s\u00eb djalit bashk\u00ebshorti krijoi lidhje tjet\u00ebr dhe nuk ishte i pranish\u00ebm as tek un\u00eb, as te djali. Theksoj q\u00eb jam stomatologe, kurse ai i papun\u00eb ka qen\u00eb e vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb. N\u00eb vitin 2012 u ktheva n\u00eb familjen time sepse ishte e pamundur t\u00eb q\u00ebndroja atje. Kam kaluar nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb divorcin, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb arsye, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb frik\u00ebs p\u00ebr djalin, edhe pse ai n\u00eb k\u00ebta 3 vjet nuk ka b\u00ebr\u00eb asnj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb e as ka kontribuar asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr djalin. Tani, pas 3 vjet\u00ebve, ai kthehet dhe k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb ribashkohet. Un\u00eb nuk e b\u00ebj m\u00eb at\u00eb gabim q\u00eb t\u00eb kthehem. Jam e vendosur jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr shkakun e tradhtis\u00eb, po edhe pse \u00ebsht\u00eb person i pazoti, i pap\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm. Arsyeja pse nuk e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb divorcin deri tani ka qen\u00eb frika se mos n\u00eb dit\u00ebt q\u00eb do caktonin t\u00eb mbante djalin, mund t\u00eb ma rr\u00ebmbenin. Theksoj se m\u00eb kan\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuar n\u00eb fillim pasi t\u00eb ikja, se \u201cn\u00eb Kosov\u00eb nuk ia japin nuses f\u00ebmij\u00ebn\u201d. Un\u00eb dua t\u00eb b\u00ebj divorc, por nuk po e marr iniciativ\u00ebn vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn e djalit. \u00c7far\u00eb m\u00eb sugjeroni? Ai ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb ta takoj\u00eb, por pak a shum\u00eb me k\u00ebto q\u00eb ju kam shkruar, si mendoni ju? Un\u00eb jam e sigurt q\u00eb edhe kur t\u00eb caktohet pagesa e pensionit, ai s\u2019ka p\u00ebr ta paguar kurr\u00eb. Do t\u2019ju isha shum\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse po t\u00eb m\u00eb orientoni e ndoshta edhe t\u00eb m\u00eb jepni guxim q\u00eb un\u00eb ta mbyll k\u00ebt\u00eb kapitull. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Av. Alban Duraj, \u201cDuraj Lavv Firm\u201d, email: info@durajlavv.com<\/a>, Tel. ++35544532512:<\/u><\/strong> – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje zonja Enida. Ju fal\u00ebnderoj shum\u00eb q\u00eb i jeni drejtuar rubrik\u00ebs son\u00eb. M\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj bashk\u00ebshortore pas lindjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs ka precipituar kaq keq, ku bashk\u00ebshorti juaj nuk ka marr\u00eb p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr detyrimet t\u00eb cilat burojn\u00eb nga martesa. Nga shkrimi kuptoj se ju i keni konsumuar t\u00eb gjitha rrug\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u2019u rikthyer bashk\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vazhdoni nj\u00eb martes\u00eb normale. Mendimi i p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm i doktrin\u00ebs familjare dhe i psikolog\u00ebve n\u00eb rastin tuaj, pasi i konsumoni t\u00eb gjitha etapat p\u00ebr t\u2019u ribashkuar, \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhja e martes\u00ebs pasi n\u00ebse do t\u00eb vazhdonit t\u00eb jetonit t\u00eb bashkuar, do t\u00eb dilnin s\u00ebrish problemet q\u00eb ju cituat m\u00eb sip\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

– Pra, konkretisht, zgjidhja e martes\u00ebs mes jush dhe bashk\u00ebshortit tuaj \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb procedur\u00eb ligjore pasi ju tashm\u00eb i keni konsumuar etapat e pajtimit. Zgjidhja e martes\u00ebs mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00eb Republik\u00ebn e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe konkretisht n\u00eb Gjykat\u00ebn e Rrethit Gjyq\u00ebsor Tiran\u00eb ku t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni zgjidhjen e martes\u00ebs, l\u00ebnien p\u00ebr rritje dhe edukim n\u00ebn\u00ebs. Gjat\u00eb procedur\u00ebs s\u00eb zgjidhjes s\u00eb martes\u00ebs, n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste, caktohet edhe nj\u00eb psikolog i cili do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb raport lidhur se me k\u00eb do t\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb f\u00ebmija. Bazuar n\u00eb raportin e psikologut dhe n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, gjykata vendos p\u00ebr zgjidhjen e martes\u00ebs dhe se me k\u00eb do t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb f\u00ebmija. Gjithashtu, ajo p\u00ebrcakton detyrimin ushqimor p\u00ebr prindin i cili nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb kujdestarin\u00eb. Praktika juridike e gjykatave shqiptare n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste, p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e djalit tuaj, vendos q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ta rris\u00eb dhe ta edukoj\u00eb n\u00ebna, pasi \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mitur. N\u00ebse e keni vendosur p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur martes\u00ebn, mund t\u00eb kontaktoni s\u00ebrish me Studion Ligjore \u201cDuraj\u201d, p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur procedurat e zgjidhjes s\u00eb martes\u00ebs. Ju faleminderit!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje avokat! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam Enida dhe, n\u00ebse keni mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00eb ktheni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje, do t\u2019ju isha shum\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse. Kam b\u00ebr\u00eb celebrim n\u00eb vitin 2010 n\u00eb qytetin e Tiran\u00ebs me nj\u00eb shtetas kosovar. M\u00eb pas jam shp\u00ebrngulur te familja e tij n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb. N\u00eb vitin 2011 kam lindur f\u00ebmij\u00ebn […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[87,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11104","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-avokati","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11104","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11104"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11104\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11104"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11104"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11104"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}