{"id":11056,"date":"2015-11-13T18:30:49","date_gmt":"2015-11-13T17:30:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=11056"},"modified":"2015-11-13T11:27:30","modified_gmt":"2015-11-13T10:27:30","slug":"kur-duhet-ta-mbani-fort-partnerin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/11\/kur-duhet-ta-mbani-fort-partnerin\/","title":{"rendered":"Kur duhet ta mbani fort partnerin?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet jan\u00eb sinonim me ndjenjat dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb ju q\u00ebndron af\u00ebr dhe u mbijeton sprovave t\u00eb koh\u00ebs. Ju nuk duhet ta lini t’ju ik\u00eb kurr\u00eb nga dora nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb zot\u00ebron cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e m\u00ebposhtme. Shkrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb shkruar n\u00eb gjinin\u00eb mashkullore, por vlen p\u00ebr t\u00eb dyja sekset… <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shoku juaj m\u00eb i mir\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    N\u00ebse partneri \u00ebsht\u00eb shoku juaj m\u00eb i mir\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb bekim n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Miq\u00ebsia krijon rrug\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb me tjetrin ndjenjat e sinqerta, \u00ebndrrat, pengesat dhe d\u00ebshtimet, me besimin e plot\u00eb se ato do t\u00eb kuptohen dhe respektohen prej tij.<\/p>\n

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    1. Ai kujdeset p\u00ebr ju<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Ai nuk ju sheh dot t\u00eb trishtuar dhe sigurohet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ka n\u00eb dor\u00eb p\u00ebr t’ju b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur. Ai nuk ju sheh dot t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb dhe sigurohet t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrkrah jush. N\u00ebse ai b\u00ebn t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebn p\u00ebr t’u kujdesur p\u00ebr ju, n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb ai meriton besnik\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe dashurin\u00eb tuaj.<\/p>\n

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      1. Ai ju respekton juve dhe familjen tuaj<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Nj\u00eb gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje \u00ebsht\u00eb respekti. Procesi i marrjes dhe dh\u00ebnies duke pasur parasysh respektin p\u00ebrb\u00ebn nj\u00eb nga vlerat baz\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje. N\u00ebse partneri ju respekton ju e familjen tuaj dhe b\u00ebn p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb patur nj\u00eb ur\u00eb lidh\u00ebse me tyre, at\u00ebher\u00eb ia vlen ta mbani fort pas vetes.<\/p>\n

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        1. Ai ju inkurajon<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          \u00cbsht\u00eb gjithashtu e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb burim inkurajimi n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe ku ka m\u00eb mir\u00eb sesa ta gjesh at\u00eb te partneri? N\u00ebse ai, pra, ju inkurajon t\u00eb ndiqni aspiratat tuaja dhe premton se do t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrkrah jush edhe kur t\u00eb d\u00ebshtoni, at\u00ebher\u00eb lidhja me siguri do t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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          1. Ai ju trajton sikur jeni e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            T\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e bot\u00ebs kan\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb trajtohen sikur t\u00eb ishin unik\u00eb. Kur keni p\u00ebrkrah nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb ju do pa mas\u00eb, q\u00ebndron p\u00ebrkrah jush, q\u00eb ju respekton dhe lavd\u00ebron p\u00ebr aft\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaj, at\u00ebher\u00eb ju po trajtoheni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Ata q\u00eb i b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehen partneret e tyre gjithmon\u00eb special\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet p\u00ebrpjekjeve, dhuratave dhe surprizave, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb pa\u00e7muesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n

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            1. Ai ju frym\u00ebzon<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              N\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme, t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt duhet ta frym\u00ebzojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha aspektet e jet\u00ebs. N\u00ebse partneri ju frym\u00ebzon t\u00eb punoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jeni njeri m\u00eb i mir\u00eb, ju duhet t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn, sepse ai nxjerr n\u00eb pah pjes\u00ebn tuaj m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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              1. Ai ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb qeshni<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e shkurt\u00ebr p\u00ebr t’u kaluar e gjitha me seriozitet. N\u00ebse partneri ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb qeshni, qoft\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb qesharake, ose n\u00eb koh\u00ebra t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb trajtuar jet\u00ebn. T\u00eb th\u00ebrrisni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebmbla dhe t\u00eb qeshni me z\u00ebnkat e vjetra, k\u00ebto momente ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb ta doni edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb ju jep momente t\u00eb tilla, \u00ebsht\u00eb premis\u00eb e nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe t\u00eb lumtur.<\/p>\n

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                1. Ju jeni prioriteti i tij<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  T\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb partner p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin ju p\u00ebrb\u00ebni prioritet n\u00eb situatat e stresit dhe keqkuptimeve, \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb e rrall\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje ku dy njer\u00ebz zakonisht p\u00ebrballen me rrethana t\u00eb shum\u00ebllojshme, p\u00ebrfshi k\u00ebtu edhe munges\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs, nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb ju v\u00eb mbi gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr, nuk duhet ta lini t’ju ik\u00eb kurr\u00eb nga dora.<\/p>\n

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                  1. Ai ju kupton<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    T\u00eb kuptosh tjetrin \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore n\u00eb \u00e7do lidhje q\u00eb do t’i mbijetoj\u00eb koh\u00ebs. N\u00ebse ju dhe partneri merreni vesh mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, at\u00ebher\u00eb ju mund t\u00eb kap\u00ebrceni me sukses gjith\u00eb pengesat q\u00eb do t’ju dalin p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n

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                    1. Ai ju plot\u00ebson<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      Askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrkryer n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha drejtimet. T\u00eb plot\u00ebsosh cil\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe mang\u00ebsit\u00eb e tjetrit nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb cil\u00ebsi e rrall\u00eb dhe, n\u00ebse partneri ju plot\u00ebson n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb unike, ai duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb juaji p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

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                      1. Ai ju \u00e7mon<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                        P\u00ebr nj\u00eb njeri \u00ebsht\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm vler\u00ebsimi. N\u00ebse partneri ju vler\u00ebson dhe \u00e7mon p\u00ebr arritjet dhe p\u00ebrpjekjet q\u00eb b\u00ebni, pa pasur zili apo konkurrenc\u00eb, kjo gj\u00eb ndikon shum\u00eb n\u00eb lidhjen tuaj dhe ju shtyn t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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                        1. Ju keni besim te nj\u00ebri-tjetri<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                          Besimi i nd\u00ebrsjell\u00eb krijon themelet e nj\u00eb lidhjeje. Besimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i till\u00eb sa ju nuk keni nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb spiunoni partnerin tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb ditur se ku shkon e \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebn dhe anasjelltas, gj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e m\u00eb e rrall\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt tona. N\u00ebse gjeni nj\u00eb partner t\u00eb till\u00eb, dijeni se keni gjetur nj\u00eb diamant t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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                          1. Ai komunikon me ju<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                            Nj\u00eb shikim i thjesht\u00eb i tjetrit n\u00eb cepin tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb dhom\u00ebs gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb momenti t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ose nj\u00eb bised\u00eb kuptimplot\u00eb mbi gj\u00ebrat e thjeshta t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, mund t’ju nxjerr\u00eb nga rutina e p\u00ebrditshme. N\u00ebse p\u00ebr partnerin tuaj komunikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm dhe ai sigurohet t\u00eb gjej\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur me ju, at\u00ebher\u00eb kjo p\u00ebrb\u00ebn nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje v\u00ebrtet p\u00ebr t’u lavd\u00ebruar.<\/p>\n

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                            1. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrulur<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                              N\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje do t\u00eb ket\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb grindje dhe keqkuptime, sepse b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr dy njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb mendimet dhe opinionet e tyre. N\u00ebse partneri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrulur dhe ju kupton, ai nuk do t\u00eb hezitoj\u00eb kurr\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb nism\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur problemin. T\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb partner t\u00eb till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb bekim.<\/p>\n

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                              1. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i besuesh\u00ebm<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                N\u00ebse keni nj\u00eb partner tek i cili mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshteteni pa u menduar asnj\u00eb sekond\u00eb n\u00eb momentet e kriz\u00ebs dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive, at\u00ebher\u00eb pa dyshim keni fituar llotarin\u00eb!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                                    Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet jan\u00eb sinonim me ndjenjat dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb ju q\u00ebndron af\u00ebr dhe u mbijeton sprovave t\u00eb koh\u00ebs. Ju nuk duhet ta lini t’ju ik\u00eb kurr\u00eb nga dora nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb zot\u00ebron cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e m\u00ebposhtme. Shkrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb shkruar n\u00eb gjinin\u00eb mashkullore, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":11057,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,49],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11056","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","category-shendet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11056","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11056"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11056\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11057"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11056"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11056"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11056"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}