{"id":10939,"date":"2015-10-28T16:30:28","date_gmt":"2015-10-28T15:30:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=10939"},"modified":"2015-10-28T15:24:01","modified_gmt":"2015-10-28T14:24:01","slug":"29-sekretet-e-nje-vajze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/10\/29-sekretet-e-nje-vajze\/","title":{"rendered":"29 sekretet e nj\u00eb vajze…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vajza me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ti fle, t\u00eb sheh drejt e n\u00eb sy kur t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb do dhe ti e beson. Ti e kupton k\u00ebt\u00eb edhe nga m\u00ebnyra se si ajo t\u00eb sheh, t\u00eb shtr\u00ebngon, si i gjen d\u00ebshirat e tua para se t\u2019ia thuash. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb pakta gj\u00ebrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat je i sigurt\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe nj\u00ebra nga k\u00ebto \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria q\u00eb ke p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Por, ka edhe shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb ti nuk i di. Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb mund t\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00eb trupin dhe zemr\u00ebn, por ka pjes\u00eb t\u00eb saj q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb t\u2019i jap\u00eb kurr\u00eb, pjes\u00eb q\u00eb ndodhen n\u00eb \u00e7do ind t\u00eb qenies s\u00eb saj; mistere t\u00eb fshehura pas nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshjeje dinake, pas nj\u00eb t\u00eb qeshure t\u00eb papenetrueshme. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb sekretet e jet\u00ebs dashurore t\u00eb kaluar, fantazi t\u00eb fshehura dhe d\u00ebshira t\u00eb path\u00ebna. Ne jemi p\u00ebrpjekur t\u2019i zbulojm\u00eb disa prej tyre p\u00ebr ty…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Shoqja e saj e ngusht\u00eb di gjith\u00e7ka<\/strong> p\u00ebr ty, q\u00eb nga llogaria jote bankare e deri te gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb shtrat. Kur ajo t\u00eb dhuron nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje dometh\u00ebn\u00ebse, ti as nuk e imagjinon se sa gj\u00ebra di ajo. K\u00ebshtu, pra, pranoje k\u00ebt\u00eb fakt dhe mos u m\u00ebrzit (se nuk ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar). Gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb ti flet me partneren t\u00ebnde nuk jan\u00eb sekrete p\u00ebr shoqen e saj t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb. Ti mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb krijosh shoq\u00ebri me t\u00eb, por ajo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb shoqja e besuar e partneres, jo e jotja.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    1. Ajo mund t\u00eb eksitohet<\/strong> edhe vet\u00ebm duke par\u00eb duart e tua.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      1. Kur ti ik\u00ebn<\/strong>, qoft\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, ajo fle me bluz\u00ebn t\u00ebnde t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr, sepse ajo ka arom\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Gjithashtu, i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb flej\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn t\u00ebnde t\u00eb krevatit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn arsye.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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        1. Ajo nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb kurr\u00eb<\/em><\/strong> me ekzakt\u00ebsi me sa burra ka shkuar para teje. Sado e sinqert\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb dukur kur i \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur pyetjes t\u00ebnde, ka gjasa q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb qen\u00eb e till\u00eb. Sipas nj\u00eb p\u00ebrllogaritje joshkencore, kur nj\u00eb grua thot\u00eb se ka shkuar me kat\u00ebr burra, numri i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb af\u00ebr shtat\u00ebs. Kjo g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00ebrisht me q\u00ebllim (ajo nuk do q\u00eb t\u00eb duket si vajz\u00eb e leht\u00eb), por \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00ebrisht edhe amnezi seksuale. Kur nj\u00eb grua do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb sikur nj\u00eb lidhje nuk ka ekzistuar kurr\u00eb, ajo thjesht e fshin at\u00eb burr\u00eb nga lista e saj zyrtare.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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          1. Ajo ka fantazuar<\/em><\/strong> se ka b\u00ebr\u00eb seks me ty t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nj\u00eb duzin\u00eb her\u00ebsh para se kjo gj\u00eb ndodhte v\u00ebrtet.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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            1. Ajo ka k\u00ebrkuar<\/em><\/strong> n\u00eb Facebook ish-et e tua.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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              1. Kur ajo ra n\u00eb dashuri me ty<\/em><\/strong>, e humbi krejt\u00ebsisht oreksin.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                1. Trupi i saj<\/em><\/strong> nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb kaq t\u00eb natyrshme pa qime dhe kaq i l\u00ebmuar, por ajo nuk do t\u00eb rr\u00ebfej\u00eb kurr\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb depilimi, eksfoljimi dhe hidratimi i \u00ebsht\u00eb dashur t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb q\u00eb ta sjell\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                  1. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh organizimin<\/em><\/strong> (ose munges\u00ebn e tij), at\u00ebher\u00eb shihi dollapin, \u00e7ant\u00ebn me gj\u00ebrat e grimit dhe dosjet n\u00eb tavolin\u00ebn e pun\u00ebs.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                    1. Ajo ende mendon p\u00ebr<\/em><\/strong> ish-t\u00eb dashurit e saj dhe i krahason ata me ty. N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, ti fiton, po ka edhe raste kur humbet…<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                      1. Ajo ka zbuluar vendin sekret<\/em><\/strong> ku ti mban revistat porno dhe sitet e internetit porno q\u00eb shikon m\u00eb shpesh (dhe ajo mendon se gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb t\u00eb eksitojn\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb zbavit\u00ebse).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                        1. Kur ajo thot\u00eb \u201cjam gati\u201d<\/em><\/strong>, ka nevoj\u00eb ekzakt\u00ebsisht p\u00ebr 7 minuta q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet v\u00ebrtet gati. Mos u p\u00ebrpiq t\u00eb g\u00ebnjesh sistemin duke ardhur 7 minuta m\u00eb von\u00eb; asaj p\u00ebrs\u00ebri do t\u2019i duhen 7 minuta t\u00eb tjera.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                          1. Kur ajo thot\u00eb<\/em><\/strong> \u201ctakohemi pas 15 minutave\u201d, n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se do t\u00eb niset pas 15 minutave. K\u00ebshtu, pra, ajo do t\u00eb vij\u00eb pas nj\u00eb gjysm\u00eb ore (ose 40 minutash).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                            1. Ajo pret me padurim<\/em><\/strong> telefonat\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Periudha e koh\u00ebs mes takimit t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe telefonat\u00ebs me fjal\u00ebt: \u201cFaleminderit p\u00ebr nat\u00ebn e bukur q\u00eb kaluam, kur mund t\u00eb t\u00eb shoh p\u00ebrs\u00ebri?\u201d i duket pambarimisht e gjat\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, pra, mos u shqet\u00ebso se dukesh shum\u00eb i nxituar, por merre n\u00eb telefon. Edhe sikur t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh deri n\u00eb mesdit\u00ebn e dit\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr, asaj do t\u2019i duket nj\u00eb koh\u00eb e gjat\u00eb. Dhe, mos i d\u00ebrgo email, ose sms n\u00ebse nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb hedh\u00eb n\u00eb koshin e plehrave bashk\u00eb me mesazhin.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                              1. Ajo do q\u00eb t\u2019i flas\u00ebsh<\/em><\/strong> fjal\u00eb t\u00eb ndyra n\u00eb shtrat.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                1. N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb lidhjes suaj<\/em><\/strong>, ajo ruan gjith\u00eb emailet (bile ua tregon edhe shoqeve) dhe i lexon p\u00ebrs\u00ebri e p\u00ebrs\u00ebri.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                  1. N\u00eb fillim,<\/em><\/strong> ajo mund t\u00eb vesh\u00eb mbathje t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe t\u00eb mos i depiloj\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebt, vet\u00ebm e vet\u00ebm sepse ti i p\u00eblqen dhe nuk do q\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb lakuriq para teje shum\u00eb shpejt. Por ky plan jo gjithmon\u00eb funksionon, sidomos n\u00ebse ka pir\u00eb pak.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                    1. Ajo e ndan koston<\/em><\/strong> e blerjeve t\u00eb saj n\u00eb dy ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb karta krediti, q\u00eb ti t\u00eb mos e v\u00ebsh re defi\u00e7itin e madh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                      1. Ajo t\u00eb teston vazhdimisht<\/em><\/strong>. Ajo t\u00eb vrojton, analizon dhe gjykon \u00e7do veprim q\u00eb ti b\u00ebn, \u00e7do fjal\u00eb, gjest, email dhe shprehje fytyre. Kur t\u00eb pyet n\u00ebse do t\u00eb b\u00ebsh dashuri treshe, nuk e ka seriozisht. N\u00ebse do q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00eb m\u00eb pas, le m\u00eb pastaj t\u00eb flej\u00eb me ty, p\u00ebrgjigjja jote duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb: \u201cPse t\u00eb fle me nj\u00eb grua tjet\u00ebr kur t\u00eb kam ty?\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                        1. Ajo t\u00eb shikon t\u00eb pasmet<\/em><\/strong> sa her\u00eb q\u00eb ti del nga dhoma.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                          1. Asaj i duhen<\/em><\/strong> prova t\u00eb vazhdueshme q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se ti ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebr shembull, m\u00eb mir\u00eb thuaji \u201cDua t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb. Do t\u00eb vish me mua?\u201d, sesa \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb ke nd\u00ebrmend t\u00eb b\u00ebsh n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb?\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                            1. Asaj i p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb<\/em><\/strong> kur ti b\u00ebhesh pak xheloz. K\u00ebshtu, n\u00ebse e sheh at\u00eb duke flirtuar para teje me kamerierin, shoferin e autobusit, ose ndonj\u00eb djal\u00eb tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb fest\u00eb, dije q\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb duke flirtuar me ty… n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet tij.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                              1. Megjith\u00ebse ajo mund t\u00eb ankohet<\/em><\/strong> se nuk t\u00eb sheh shum\u00eb (ose se ti punon shum\u00eb), asaj i duket shum\u00eb seksi t\u00eb t\u00eb shoh\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes me kostum kur nxiton p\u00ebr n\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                1. Ajo fillon t\u00eb grindet me ty<\/em><\/strong>, sepse ndjehet e l\u00ebn\u00eb pas dore. Ajo p\u00ebrpiqet q\u00eb ti t\u00eb shfaq\u00ebsh ndjenjat e tua. K\u00ebshtu, ti mos u fut n\u00eb shpell\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, jepi asaj at\u00eb q\u00eb do: pak v\u00ebmendje. Dhe mos i thuaj kurr\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb qet\u00ebsohet\u201d, sepse k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb arrish efektin e kund\u00ebrt.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                  1. Megjith\u00ebse ajo k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul<\/em><\/strong> t\u00eb paguaj\u00eb ose t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb me ty pages\u00ebn n\u00eb restorant n\u00eb takimin e par\u00eb, n\u00ebse pranon, do t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb se ti je kurnac.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                    1. Ajo do q\u00eb ti <\/em><\/strong>t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh kontrollin n\u00eb shtrat. Po, ajo ka nj\u00eb karrier\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme, \u00ebsht\u00eb financiarisht e pavarur, jeton vet\u00ebm dhe nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb ta b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur (teorikisht). Megjithat\u00eb, ajo ende do q\u00eb ti ta marr\u00ebsh n\u00eb krah\u00eb, ta \u00e7osh n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit dhe ta b\u00ebsh t\u00ebnden pa i k\u00ebrkuar leje asaj.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                      1. Asaj mund t\u2019i duket i shpifur<\/em><\/strong> shoku yt i ngusht\u00eb, ama ajo ka fantazuar t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb shtrat me t\u00eb. Jo sepse ai i p\u00eblqen, por sepse ajo do di\u00e7ka nga djali q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq af\u00ebr teje.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                        1. N\u00ebse ajo do t\u00eb ndahet me ty<\/em><\/strong>, t\u00eb gjitha shoqet e saj do ta din\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara sesa ti. Ajo do t\u00eb ket\u00eb folur me to t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn dy jav\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                                          1. Kur ti dhe ajo t\u00eb ndaheni<\/em><\/strong>, ajo do t\u00eb v\u00ebr\u00eb gjith\u00eb fotot dhe kujtimet e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta n\u00eb nj\u00eb kuti dhe do t\u2019i ruaj\u00eb n\u00eb dollapin e saj. N\u00eb rast se e z\u00eb nostalgjia, ose n\u00eb rast se ti rikthehesh prap\u00eb…<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                                                            Vajza me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ti fle, t\u00eb sheh drejt e n\u00eb sy kur t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb do dhe ti e beson. Ti e kupton k\u00ebt\u00eb edhe nga m\u00ebnyra se si ajo t\u00eb sheh, t\u00eb shtr\u00ebngon, si i gjen d\u00ebshirat e tua para se t\u2019ia thuash. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb pakta gj\u00ebrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat je i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":10940,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10939","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10939","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10939"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10939\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10940"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10939"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10939"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10939"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}