{"id":10553,"date":"2015-09-22T19:30:25","date_gmt":"2015-09-22T17:30:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=10553"},"modified":"2015-09-22T12:10:14","modified_gmt":"2015-09-22T10:10:14","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-97","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/09\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-97\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kisha f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb krah<br \/>\n&#8211; U b\u00ebn\u00eb disa net\u00eb q\u00eb shoh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kam nj\u00eb bebe n\u00eb krah. Para dy net\u00ebsh pash\u00eb sikur kisha nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e cila m\u00eb ngjante tmerr\u00ebsisht shum\u00eb. Pastaj, nat\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr pash\u00eb sikur kisha binjak\u00eb. Pres nj\u00eb shpjegim.<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00cbndrrat me f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht kan\u00eb lidhje me projekte ose ide t\u00eb reja n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Po k\u00ebshtu, nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson edhe nj\u00eb an\u00eb t\u00eb personalitetit t\u00eb atij apo asaj q\u00eb e shikon k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr: pra, pafaj\u00ebsin\u00eb, dlir\u00ebsin\u00eb, naivitetin e shpesh edhe past\u00ebrtin\u00eb, por q\u00eb ju shtyjn\u00eb leht\u00ebsisht t\u00eb b\u00ebheni viktima t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Ndaj, kujdes! N\u00ebse keni disa ide t\u00eb reja, p\u00ebr momentin, mbajini p\u00ebr vete sepse mund t\u2019ju shfryt\u00ebzojn\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pozitive, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht. <\/p>\n<p>Me arm\u00eb<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikosh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po q\u00ebllon me arm\u00eb? Dikush tjet\u00ebr m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ka filluar t\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoj\u00eb shum\u00eb, ndaj pres nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje nga ana juaj. M\u00eb shqet\u00ebson sepse shoh shpesh \u00ebndrra t\u00eb tilla me arm\u00eb. Faleminderit.<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00cbndrrat me t\u00eb sht\u00ebna parashikojn\u00eb se ju po p\u00ebrjetoni disa situata ku dilni gjithnj\u00eb viktima mes t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve ose jeni ju q\u00eb ndiheni t\u00eb till\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb gjithashtu nj\u00eb karakteristik\u00eb q\u00eb ju d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb hiqni qafe nj\u00eb ves, nj\u00eb problem brenda jush. Kur shikoni q\u00eb ju shtini me arm\u00eb, tregon nj\u00ebfar\u00eb zem\u00ebrimi ndaj nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb, \u00ebndrra ju k\u00ebshillon t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb e qet\u00eb, sepse n\u00eb situata t\u00eb tilla \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm qet\u00ebsia ajo q\u00eb i rregullon problemet. <\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebrkova rritje rroge<br \/>\n&#8211; Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur i k\u00ebrkova shefit tim t\u00eb m\u00eb rriste rrogen dhe pat\u00ebm shum\u00eb debate. N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment, ai m\u00eb tha: \u201cTi nuk e meriton k\u00ebt\u00eb pozicion pune q\u00eb ke\u201d. N\u00eb realitet nuk debatoj kurr\u00eb, ndaj dua t\u00eb di se \u00e7far\u00eb shpjegimi i jepni k\u00ebsaj \u00ebndrre. Faleminderit.<br \/>\n&#8211; K\u00ebrkesa p\u00ebr rritjen e rrog\u00ebs tregon se nuk jeni shum\u00eb i vler\u00ebsuar nga shefat. Punoni shum\u00eb dhe nuk merrni mundin tuaj, gj\u00eb q\u00eb ka filluar t\u2019ju akumuloj\u00eb brenda vetes nj\u00ebfar\u00eb mllefi ndaj shefave. Mos vall\u00eb ka ardhur koha t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn tuaj? P\u00ebrndryshe, mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shp\u00ebrtheni n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment dhe t\u00eb prishni dhe ato \u00e7far\u00eb keni nd\u00ebrtuar gjer tani n\u00eb ambientin ku ju punoni.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kisha f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb krah &#8211; U b\u00ebn\u00eb disa net\u00eb q\u00eb shoh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur kam nj\u00eb bebe n\u00eb krah. Para dy net\u00ebsh pash\u00eb sikur kisha nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e cila m\u00eb ngjante tmerr\u00ebsisht shum\u00eb. Pastaj, nat\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr pash\u00eb sikur kisha binjak\u00eb. Pres nj\u00eb shpjegim. &#8211; \u00cbndrrat me f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht kan\u00eb lidhje me projekte ose ide t\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10553","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10553","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10553"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10553\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10553"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10553"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10553"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}