Dashi dhe femra
\n– Isha te gjyshja dhe doja t\u00eb kapja nj\u00eb dash t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Ishte shum\u00eb i bukur dhe vendi ku isha ishte si kop\u00ebsht parajse, shum\u00eb i bukur. N\u00eb pamund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr ta kapur k\u00ebt\u00eb dash, m\u00eb erdhi nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, por ishte fem\u00ebr shum\u00eb e bukur dhe m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafonte; e ndjeja ngroht\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj. Syt\u00eb i kishte me ngjyra t\u00eb ndryshme, m\u00eb fliste, por me nj\u00eb gjuh\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb: \u201cPse nuk e m\u00ebson at\u00eb dashin t\u00eb flas\u00eb si ti?\u201d. Nuk mbaj mend m\u00eb pas se si p\u00ebrfundoi, por ishte \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e \u00e7uditshme.
\n– Dashi q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson energjin\u00eb tuaj mashkullore dhe pjesa e femr\u00ebs, energjin\u00eb fem\u00ebrore, bashk\u00eb me instinktet e saj. Ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb prag t\u00eb nj\u00eb vendimi i cili duhet t\u00eb trajtohet me shum\u00eb kujdes. Duhet t\u00eb keni vendosm\u00ebrin\u00eb e nj\u00eb mashkulli dhe taktik\u00ebn e zgjuarsin\u00eb e nj\u00eb femre n\u00eb vendimin q\u00eb do t\u00eb merrni, ndaj duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes dhe t\u00eb veproni me kujdes. Gjithsesi, \u00ebndrra \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb avantazhin tuaj, sepse dashi p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson edhe fuqin\u00eb e autoritetin q\u00eb keni ju ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Jeni superior. <\/p>\n
Adami dhe Eva
\n– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr isha e martuar dhe shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb me nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb fem\u00ebr. N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr m\u2019u shfaq edhe nj\u00eb person i moshuar, i cili ishte i vog\u00ebl me trup dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201cShikoji k\u00ebto dy varre, nj\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb i Adamit dhe tjetri i Ev\u00ebs, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb n\u00ebse t\u00eb lind djal\u00eb, v\u00ebri emrin Adam, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb vajz\u00eb, Eva\u201d. Jam v\u00ebrtet kurioze, \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr?
\n– Nga \u00ebndrra q\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebrgoni, m\u00eb lini t\u00eb kuptoj q\u00eb nuk jeni e martuar. At\u00ebher\u00eb, \u00ebndrra ju vjen me nj\u00eb mesazh shum\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb: p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb filloni di\u00e7ka, \u00e7far\u00ebdo t\u00eb jet\u00eb ajo gj\u00eb, nuk duhet t\u00eb injoroni energjin\u00eb fem\u00ebrore dhe as at\u00eb mashkullore, sepse si Adami, ashtu edhe Eva, jan\u00eb simbole t\u00eb vjetra q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb energjin\u00eb e femr\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb mashkullit. N\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb problemit apo \u00e7\u00ebshtjes q\u00eb keni, ju duhet t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzoni instinktet tuaja. Njer\u00ebzit e vjet\u00ebr, si n\u00eb rastin tuaj, shfaqen n\u00eb nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb kur ju jeni konfuz\u00eb dhe nuk dini si t\u00eb drejtoheni ose keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr marrjen e nj\u00eb vendimi. Shtatzania \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb projekt i juaji, q\u00eb ka lidhje me pjes\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb shpjegimit. Do t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb ide t\u00eb re, nj\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb ri, vet\u00ebm se duhet ta shfryt\u00ebzoni sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mund\u00ebsi. Duke qen\u00eb se f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb vajz\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzoni energjin\u00eb dhe shkatht\u00ebsin\u00eb e femr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
Burri m\u00eb tradhtonte
\n– Kam burrin n\u00eb emigrim dhe pash\u00eb sikur e mora n\u00eb telefon dhe po i thoja: \u201cM\u00eb ke harruar, nuk t\u00eb merr m\u00eb malli p\u00ebr mua\u201d. Ai po mundohej t\u00eb ma mbushte mendjen p\u00ebr t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn, duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se vet\u00ebm un\u00eb isha femra e tij. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb mbyll\u00ebm bised\u00ebn, un\u00eb b\u00ebra gjoja sikur e mbylla, por e lash\u00eb hapur dhe d\u00ebgjova z\u00ebrin e nj\u00eb femre af\u00ebr tij. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb ndihesha aq keq, saq\u00eb jam zgjuar duke qar\u00eb nga d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi i tradhtis\u00eb s\u00eb tij. A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim sepse jam n\u00eb ankth?
\n– E nderuar zonj\u00eb, nuk duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebroheni, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb tradhti n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr \u00ebsht\u00eb tradhti edhe n\u00eb realitet. Ju v\u00ebrtet ushqeni dyshime p\u00ebr burrin tuaj, sepse e keni larg dhe kjo gj\u00eb ju bren brenda shpirtit. Ndiheni e pasigurt, keni dyshime e angazhime t\u00eb tep\u00ebrta n\u00eb familje dhe kjo ju b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiheni e vetmuar dhe mendoni sikur burri po ju tradhton e ju ka kthyer shpin\u00ebn, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. N\u00ebse ndiheni k\u00ebshtu, flisni hapur me burrin tuaj, thuajini q\u00eb ju mungon, por aspak dyshimet q\u00eb keni, sepse i keni pa baza. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb emigrim, ka shkuar t\u00eb punoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur familjen, vet\u00ebm k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb mendoni dhe qet\u00ebsojeni veten. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Dashi dhe femra – Isha te gjyshja dhe doja t\u00eb kapja nj\u00eb dash t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Ishte shum\u00eb i bukur dhe vendi ku isha ishte si kop\u00ebsht parajse, shum\u00eb i bukur. N\u00eb pamund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr ta kapur k\u00ebt\u00eb dash, m\u00eb erdhi nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, por ishte fem\u00ebr shum\u00eb e bukur dhe m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafonte; e ndjeja ngroht\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10477","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10477","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10477"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10477\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10477"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10477"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10477"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}