Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra gjeniale… por ka disa gj\u00ebra q\u00eb ai nuk do t\u2019i b\u00ebnte kurr\u00eb, me asnj\u00eb pretekst. Ja, cilat jan\u00eb ato:<\/p>\n
1. T\u00eb kritikoj\u00eb pamjen tuaj t\u00eb jashtme
\nNj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb nuk do t\u2019ju thoshte kurr\u00eb se do t\u2019ju preferonte \u201cme flok\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb gjata\u201d, \u201cdisa kile m\u00eb pak\u201d, ose \u201cme gjoks m\u00eb t\u00eb madh\u201d. Ju nuk jeni nj\u00eb cop\u00eb mishi mbi tavolin\u00ebn e kasapit, jeni nj\u00eb grua e plot\u00eb. Dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb, nj\u00eb djal\u00eb p\u00ebr s\u00eb mbari e di dhe ju pranon ashtu si jeni, pa u shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr gram\u00ebt dhe detajet e tjera fizike. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb bile, ai ju nervozon kur nuk jep nj\u00eb mendim kur ia k\u00ebrkoni, si p\u00ebr shembull, n\u00ebse ju shkojn\u00eb balluket, apo jo. <\/p>\n
2. T\u00eb kontrolloj\u00eb gj\u00ebrat tuaja intime
\nN\u00eb koh\u00ebn ton\u00eb, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e p\u00ebrdorin teknologjin\u00eb e re, mesazhet Vvhatsup, sms, email, Facebook dhe Gtalk. Megjith\u00ebse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dijeni t\u00eb disa bisedave tuaja, nuk e kalon koh\u00ebn duke i lexuar ato p\u00ebr t\u2019u siguruar p\u00ebr besnik\u00ebrin\u00eb tuaj. Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb p\u00ebr s\u00eb mbari e injoron fare telefonin tuaj, duke ju treguar me nj\u00eb ngritje vetullash se deri n\u00eb \u00e7\u2019pik\u00eb, besimi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb seksi. K\u00ebshtu, as ju nuk do ta kishit problem t\u2019i jepnit kodet tuaja…<\/p>\n
3. T\u00eb harroj\u00eb t\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjet
\n\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rregull baz\u00eb i djemve t\u00eb mir\u00eb, q\u00eb ai e aplikon pa diskriminim, si p\u00ebr shok\u00ebt e tij m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ashtu edhe me ju: Ai u p\u00ebrgjigjet emaileve, telefonatave, sms-ve. Komunikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb normal e i rrjedhsh\u00ebm me t\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ju nuk do t\u00eb dyshoni tek ai edhe n\u00ebse ndonj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje nuk i p\u00ebrgjigjet nj\u00eb sms-je t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb \u201c\u00e7far\u00eb po b\u00ebn sonte?\u201d. K\u00ebshtu, kurseni edhe koh\u00eb, edhe energji!<\/p>\n
4. T\u00eb dyshoj\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb te ju
\nJa, edhe nj\u00eb cil\u00ebsi tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb ka lidhje me besimin. Ai ju beson kur i thoni ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb. Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb telefonin dhe t\u00eb kontrolloj\u00eb n\u00eb Vvikipedia n\u00ebse secili nga argumentet tuaja \u00ebsht\u00eb i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb; ai ka besim te ju dhe jua provon k\u00ebt\u00eb. Derisa t\u00eb provohet e kund\u00ebrta, sigurisht…<\/p>\n
5. T\u00eb arrij\u00eb orgazm\u00ebn para jush
\nNj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb e di se \u201cgrat\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb parat\u201d, jo vet\u00ebm kur duhet t\u00eb hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb der\u00eb. Ai do t\u00eb doj\u00eb me \u00e7do kusht ta arrini orgazm\u00ebn e para, edhe sikur ajo t\u00eb zgjas\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb se mesatarja, ose edhe sikur t\u2019i dukeni \u201cshum\u00eb e nd\u00ebrlikuar\u201d…<\/p>\n
6. T\u2019ju g\u00ebnjej\u00eb
\nAi e di mir\u00eb, g\u00ebnjeshtra i ka k\u00ebmb\u00ebt e shkurtra, nd\u00ebrsa sinqeriteti shp\u00ebrblehet nj\u00eb dit\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, ai do t\u00eb rrezikoj\u00eb edhe t\u00eb futet n\u00eb debat p\u00ebr t\u2019jua th\u00ebn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb mendon, n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb rast kur nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dakord me ju, sesa t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb sikur \u00ebsht\u00eb dakord me ju, duke ju th\u00ebn\u00eb pallavra. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb e ashp\u00ebr, por t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn ka merit\u00ebn se \u00ebsht\u00eb e sinqert\u00eb dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e mir\u00eb, sepse ju e dini se mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshteteni tek ai. Po ashtu, edhe p\u00ebr g\u00ebnjeshtrat, ai e di mir\u00eb se nuk duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ka qejf t\u2019ia b\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe atij. <\/p>\n
7. T\u2019ju tremb\u00eb
\nNj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb nuk e ngre kurr\u00eb tonin e z\u00ebrit. Ai p\u00ebrbuz si p\u00ebrdorimin e forc\u00ebs fizike, ashtu edhe dhun\u00ebn gojore, p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar ndjenjat e tij. Pra, mos kini frik\u00eb se ai do t\u2019ju ul\u00ebras\u00eb n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb q\u00eb \u201ct\u2019i kuptoni\u201d gj\u00ebrat; ai do t\u00eb dij\u00eb t\u00eb ruaj\u00eb qet\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij legjendare, ose t\u00eb dal\u00eb fare nga dhoma, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos shp\u00ebrthej\u00eb… Po k\u00ebshtu edhe p\u00ebr gjestet, n\u00eb momentet e zem\u00ebrimit, ai thjesht do t\u00eb \u00e7okis\u00eb filxhanin tuaj t\u00eb preferuar t\u00eb kafes\u00eb dhe asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb…<\/p>\n
8. T\u00eb mos pranoj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb e tij
\nNj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb di t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb zgjedhjet e duhura e t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb e tij dhe, n\u00eb rast se nd\u00ebrron mendim, ai e mendon mir\u00eb para se t\u2019jua b\u00ebj\u00eb kok\u00ebn sallat\u00eb me dyshime dhe gjendje t\u00eb tjera shprit\u00ebrore. Mbase juve ju kan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb se dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb tango; nj\u00eb hap para, dy prapa, por n\u00eb fakt nuk jemi m\u00eb n\u00eb pushimin e madh dhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb ndodhet aty p\u00ebr t\u2019jua provuar se ai di t\u00eb ec\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrpara. Amin!<\/p>\n
9. T\u00eb fyej\u00eb maman\u00eb tuaj
\nM\u00eb seriozisht, nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb deri aty, por nj\u00eb gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb: Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb ju respekton shum\u00eb, si pasoj\u00eb respekton edhe njer\u00ebzit tuaj t\u00eb af\u00ebrt, familjen dhe shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb. Mbase mamaja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por ai e ka kuptuar mir\u00eb se vet\u00ebm ju keni t\u00eb drejt\u00eb ta thoni k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shenj\u00eb respekti. <\/p>\n
10. T\u2019ju l\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb balt\u00eb
\nAi \u00ebsht\u00eb nga ata tipa q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb kurr\u00eb n\u00eb balt\u00eb, s\u2019ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb dit\u00eblindja e shok\u00ebve, ose takimet me ju. Ai do t\u00eb paraqitet gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb orarin e caktuar dhe, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb me vones\u00eb do t\u00eb telefonoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb lajm\u00ebruar. Sa e thjesht\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb dashuria!<\/p>\n
11. T\u00eb niset me pushime pa ju
\nAi do t\u2019ju lajm\u00ebroj\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb ver\u00ebs se do t\u00eb niset n\u00eb Itali me shok\u00ebt. Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb p\u00ebr s\u00eb mbari ka shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u2019ju shoh\u00eb t\u00eb veshur me bikini, n\u00eb plazh dhe, n\u00ebse do v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb niset sivjet me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, ai ju lajm\u00ebron q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, para se shoqet tuaja t\u00eb ken\u00eb rezervuar pushimet, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb organizoheni edhe ju me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb tuaj. K\u00ebshtu sillen njer\u00ebzit e sjellsh\u00ebm dhe korrekt\u00eb. <\/p>\n
12. T\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeheni e vetmuar
\nMos prisni nga nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb q\u00eb, pasi t\u00eb ket\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dashuri me ju, t\u00eb hap\u00eb telefonin p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb shkruhet n\u00eb Facebook. Jo, ai do t\u00eb dij\u00eb t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb momentet e intimitetit me ju, qofshin ato biseda t\u00eb gjata, apo gjeste t\u00eb vogla dhe nuk do t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeheni e vetmuar. Ju jeni dy vet\u00eb dhe kjo nuk ekziston vet\u00ebm n\u00eb mendjen tuaj. Ky djal\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm, ju do t\u00eb jeni prioriteti i tij dhe nuk do t\u00eb b\u00ebni thjesht pjes\u00eb n\u00eb planin e tij t\u00eb ngarkuar, nd\u00ebrmjet festave, pun\u00ebs dhe shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, n\u00ebse takoni nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, tregohuni nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e men\u00e7ur; mbajeni fort me t\u00eb gjitha m\u00ebnyrat e mundshme! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra gjeniale… por ka disa gj\u00ebra q\u00eb ai nuk do t\u2019i b\u00ebnte kurr\u00eb, me asnj\u00eb pretekst. Ja, cilat jan\u00eb ato: 1. T\u00eb kritikoj\u00eb pamjen tuaj t\u00eb jashtme Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i mir\u00eb nuk do t\u2019ju thoshte kurr\u00eb se do t\u2019ju preferonte \u201cme flok\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb gjata\u201d, \u201cdisa kile […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10461","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10461","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10461"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10461\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10461"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10461"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10461"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}