N\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb moderne, burrat perceptohen si donzhuan\u00eb, por kjo nuk p\u00ebrjashton mund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb tradhtoj\u00eb burrin ose partnerin e saj. Sipas ekspert\u00ebve, ekzistojn\u00eb disa arsye pse nj\u00eb grua do ta tradhtonte partnerin e tij. Ja, cilat jan\u00eb 5 m\u00eb kryesoret: <\/p>\n
1. Ajo ndjehet e n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsuar, e l\u00ebn\u00eb pas dore, ose e injoruar
\nNj\u00eb grua q\u00eb e ndjen veten m\u00eb shum\u00eb si amvis\u00eb, kuzhiniere, ajo q\u00eb sjell parat\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, apo dado kalamajsh, sesa nj\u00eb grua apo e dashur, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e prirur t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb nj\u00eb partner q\u00eb t\u2019i siguroj\u00eb v\u00ebmendje dhe vler\u00ebsim p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb, sesa p\u00ebr funksionet q\u00eb kryen. <\/p>\n
2. Ajo ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr intimitet
\nNj\u00eb grua, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb burr\u00eb, ndjehet e vler\u00ebsuar dhe e lidhur ngusht\u00eb me partnerin n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet nd\u00ebrveprimit jo seksual emocional, si prekja, puthja, p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelja, dh\u00ebnia e dhuratave, kujtimi i p\u00ebrvjetor\u00ebve dhe komunikimi. Nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb nuk i plot\u00ebsohen nevojat e saj intime nga partneri, mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb gjetk\u00eb, duke u munduar t\u00eb plot\u00ebsoj\u00eb ato nevoja n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje tjet\u00ebr seksuale dhe romantike. Disa nga k\u00ebto gra mund t\u00eb fillojn\u00eb p\u00ebrdorimin e alkoolit, drog\u00ebs, blerjet kompulsive, apo t\u00eb ngr\u00ebnit pa karar p\u00ebr t\u00eb kompensuar boshll\u00ebkun q\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb. <\/p>\n
3. Ajo ndjehet e m\u00ebrzitur dhe e vetmuar
\nGrat\u00eb q\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi vet\u00ebm, mbase p\u00ebr t\u2019u kujdesur p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vegj\u00ebl, ose edhe kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb rritur dhe kan\u00eb ikur nga sht\u00ebpia, mund t\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb se jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre i mungon kuptimi dhe mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin seksin e rast\u00ebsish\u00ebm, ose edhe lidhje m\u00eb t\u00eb thella romantike, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbushur boshll\u00ebkun. Grat\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb burra apo partner\u00eb q\u00eb mungojn\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb pun\u00ebs (sh\u00ebrbim ushtarak, p\u00ebr shembull), gjithashtu mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin seksin dhe lidhjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbushur nj\u00eb boshll\u00ebk q\u00eb duket i pap\u00ebrballuesh\u00ebm. <\/p>\n
4. Ajo kurr\u00eb nuk ka ndjer\u00eb dashuri dhe vler\u00ebsim
\nDisa gra kan\u00eb pritshm\u00ebri jorealiste p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket asaj q\u00eb duhet t\u2019u ofroj\u00eb partneri apo burri. Ato q\u00eb ndjehen m\u00eb shum\u00eb narciziste dhe q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb papjekura emocionalisht, mund t\u00eb presin nga tjetri q\u00eb t\u2019u plot\u00ebsoj\u00eb \u00e7do d\u00ebshir\u00eb, sado e vog\u00ebl t\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe gjithashtu presin prej tij q\u00eb t\u2019u lexoj\u00eb mendjen, p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar se cilat jan\u00eb k\u00ebto nevoja. Kur partneri i tyre njer\u00ebzor dhe i pap\u00ebrkryer nuk i plot\u00ebson k\u00ebto k\u00ebrkesa (t\u00eb paplot\u00ebsueshme), ato ndjehen t\u00eb justifikuara p\u00ebr ta k\u00ebrkuar k\u00ebt\u00eb v\u00ebmendje gjetk\u00eb. <\/p>\n
5. Ajo ka nj\u00eb \u00e7rregullim t\u00eb intimitetit
\nTraumat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb hershme dhe\/ose abuzimi seksual, shpesh i shtyn grat\u00eb (dhe burrat) n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb rritur t\u00eb ken\u00eb probleme me seksin dhe\/ose tradhtin\u00eb e vazhdueshme. K\u00ebto gra k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritur intensitetin emocional m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa intimitetin e lidhjes. Grat\u00eb me trauma t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb t\u00eb pazgjidhura, si edhe ato me paq\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri emocionale, mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb ndjenja te nj\u00eb lidhje romantike dhe\/ose tek aktiviteti seksual me intensitet t\u00eb lart\u00eb. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb moderne, burrat perceptohen si donzhuan\u00eb, por kjo nuk p\u00ebrjashton mund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb tradhtoj\u00eb burrin ose partnerin e saj. Sipas ekspert\u00ebve, ekzistojn\u00eb disa arsye pse nj\u00eb grua do ta tradhtonte partnerin e tij. Ja, cilat jan\u00eb 5 m\u00eb kryesoret: 1. Ajo ndjehet e n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsuar, e l\u00ebn\u00eb pas dore, ose e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10443","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-intimitet","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10443","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10443"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10443\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10443"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10443"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10443"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}