{"id":10322,"date":"2015-08-31T16:00:11","date_gmt":"2015-08-31T14:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=10322"},"modified":"2015-08-31T13:01:07","modified_gmt":"2015-08-31T11:01:07","slug":"perse-nuk-flet-akoma-femija-im-3-vjecar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/08\/perse-nuk-flet-akoma-femija-im-3-vjecar\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00ebrse nuk flet akoma f\u00ebmija im 3-vje\u00e7ar?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje doktor psikopediat\u00ebr. Jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e re, kam djalin tim 3 vje\u00e7 dhe nuk i ka ardhur akoma goja. Thot\u00eb vet\u00ebm: \u201cma, ba, pashim\u201d. Televizor shikon shum\u00eb. Luan pak me lodra dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i shoq\u00ebruesh\u00ebm me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb. I kam b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe ezhen\u00eb e kok\u00ebs dhe i ka dal\u00eb mir\u00eb. Dua nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb nga ju se si t\u00eb sillem me djalin.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em><u>Selami Deraj, psikopediat\u00ebr:<\/u><\/em><\/strong><strong><em> &#8211;<\/em><\/strong> E nderuar n\u00ebn\u00eb! Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb tre vje\u00e7ar, mb\u00ebshtetur n\u00eb nj\u00eb zhvillim psikomotor t\u00eb mir\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb dij\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00eb rrjedhsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb pyes\u00eb vazhdimisht e t\u00eb jet\u00eb kurioz, t\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunoj\u00eb me familjar\u00ebt e f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb vet dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb i atletizuar mir\u00eb. Nisur nga kjo, le t\u00eb themi q\u00eb f\u00ebmija juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i disfunksionalizuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb fush\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillimit q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb sektori i t\u00eb folurit (pa e par\u00eb at\u00eb, vet\u00ebm me \u00e7\u2019thoni ju). N\u00eb k\u00ebto mosha, p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb zhvillim psikik, inteligjent e motorik t\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm, nuk flasin mir\u00eb. Edhe disa f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, q\u00eb kan\u00eb mang\u00ebsi paaft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur mir\u00eb, q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabime gramatikore, q\u00eb jan\u00eb tep\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebvizsh\u00ebm e t\u00eb pap\u00ebrqendruar, q\u00eb nuk shikojn\u00eb n\u00eb sy, ve\u00e7ohen e mbyllen n\u00eb vetvete, t\u00eb quajtur f\u00ebmij\u00eb me \u00e7rregullim autik, ndeshen n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb form\u00eb e n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb. Edhe paaft\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u2019u shoq\u00ebruar me t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, sidomos me mosh\u00ebn e vet, p\u00ebr t\u00eb luajtur si domosdoshm\u00ebri zhvillimi, ndeshet si n\u00eb vonesat e zhvillimit inteligjent, paaft\u00ebsit\u00eb e zhvillimit psikomotor, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me turbullimin autik dhe disa forma t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb paaft\u00ebsive. \u00cbsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr e nevojshme, madje e domosdoshme t\u00eb bashk\u00ebbisedohet me ju, t\u00eb b\u00ebhet vler\u00ebsimi psikiatrik f\u00ebminor, t\u00eb vler\u00ebsohet zhvillimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs, vler\u00ebsimi psikologjik e social p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb diagnoz\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sakt\u00eb e p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar e programuar ndihm\u00ebn q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jepet. Kjo ndihm\u00eb e dh\u00ebn\u00eb, sa m\u00eb shpejt t\u00eb jepet n\u00eb koh\u00eb, aq m\u00eb rezultative \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje doktor psikopediat\u00ebr. Jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e re, kam djalin tim 3 vje\u00e7 dhe nuk i ka ardhur akoma goja. Thot\u00eb vet\u00ebm: \u201cma, ba, pashim\u201d. Televizor shikon shum\u00eb. Luan pak me lodra dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i shoq\u00ebruesh\u00ebm me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb. I kam b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe ezhen\u00eb e kok\u00ebs dhe i ka dal\u00eb mir\u00eb. 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