{"id":10319,"date":"2015-08-31T12:57:18","date_gmt":"2015-08-31T10:57:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=10319"},"modified":"2015-08-31T12:57:18","modified_gmt":"2015-08-31T10:57:18","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-89","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/08\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja-89\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i endrrave tuaja…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Me t\u00eb dashurin<\/strong><\/p>\n

– N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr isha ulur n\u00eb autobus me t\u00eb dashurin tim. Ishim n\u00eb fund t\u00eb autobusit. Ai d\u00ebshironte t\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte di\u00e7ka, por s\u2019po e thoshte dot. Pastaj iu drejtova un\u00eb, i thash\u00eb: \u201cKe r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me mua?\u201d Ai ma b\u00ebri me shenj\u00eb pohimi me kok\u00eb pa folur fare, dhe un\u00eb q\u00eb e shikoja n\u00eb sy. Ashtu u zgjova nga gjumi. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e till\u00eb tregon q\u00eb ju t\u00eb dy keni simpati p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Pyetjen q\u00eb i keni b\u00ebr\u00eb atij n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ia b\u00ebni shpesh vetvetes, duke shpresuar t\u00eb merrni p\u00ebrgjigje pozitive. Pra, nuk jeni shum\u00eb e bindur n\u00ebse po bini n\u00eb dashuri, apo jo. Nuk duhet ta mundoni veten shum\u00eb. L\u00ebrjani koh\u00ebs t\u2019jua tregoj\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni. Mos u nxitoni, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb mesazhi q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrcjell \u00ebndrra.<\/p>\n

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– \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikosh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb bjonde t\u00eb bukur q\u00eb m\u00eb afrohej dhe m\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshte vazhdimisht. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka ju lutem? Theksoj se un\u00eb jam fem\u00ebr q\u00eb e kam par\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Gruaja q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr jeni vet\u00eb ju. Do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb ndryshonit lukun tuaj, duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb bionde dhe e qeshur, si gruaja e \u00ebndrr\u00ebs. Ose keni d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoni di\u00e7ka n\u00eb karakterin tuaj, keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb ndryshim. At\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn tuaj ta b\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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Ecje me pengesa<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Shoh shpesh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur eci n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, n\u00eb dhom\u00eb, apo kudo, por nj\u00eb forc\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e shoh, m\u00eb pengon t\u00eb eci. \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb hera e par\u00eb q\u00eb e shikoj? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbndrra tregon se keni koh\u00eb q\u00eb keni ecur n\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb gabuar, pavar\u00ebsisht sinjaleve q\u00eb ju ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb instikti. E megjithat\u00eb, kjo gj\u00eb nuk do t\u2019ju pengoj\u00eb t\u00eb ecni p\u00ebrpara t\u00eb provoni s\u00ebrisht. Do t\u00eb keni pengesa sidomos n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb p\u00ebrderisa e shikoni shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri do t\u2019ja dilni mban\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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Akrepi dhe gjarp\u00ebri<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr me akrep dhe nj\u00eb gjarp\u00ebr. Ata nuk m\u00eb kafshuan, un\u00eb i futa n\u00eb nj\u00eb kuti peshku dhe i hodha nga dritarja. Aty erdhi nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb i h\u00ebngri, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Akrepi n\u00ebp\u00ebr \u00ebndrra nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. Do t\u00eb kaloni nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, sepse \u00e7do gj\u00eb do ju duket sikur ju ec\u00ebn me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi. Kjo sigurisht do t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn tuaj fizike, gj\u00eb e cila do ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni t\u00eb dob\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb pafuqish\u00ebm. Dhe gjarp\u00ebri tregon dob\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja, instiktet tuaja. Por fundi i \u00ebndrr\u00ebs tregon q\u00eb ju do ta kalon shum\u00eb shpejt k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00ebndje sepse do t\u2019i jepni forc\u00eb vetes.<\/p>\n

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Vajza q\u00eb njoh<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, para pak dit\u00ebsh kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur takova nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur e cila n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqen dhe menj\u00ebher\u00eb filloi joshja e dyanshme dhe p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb. Ajo filloi t\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte se edhe un\u00eb i p\u00eblqeja asaj, por un\u00eb nuk i kisha propozuar e nuk kisha q\u00ebn\u00eb aktiv. M\u00eb tha q\u00eb n\u00ebse un\u00eb do ta kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, ajo do t\u00eb b\u00ebhej e imja. M\u2019u duk mjaft interesante kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ndaj do doja t\u00eb ma shpjegonit. Respekte p\u00ebr ju nga G\u00ebzimi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>I nderuar G\u00ebzim, \u00ebndrra juaj e tregon fare qart\u00eb q\u00eb ju ushqeni ndjenja p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Dhe e dini shum\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb, n\u00ebse nuk b\u00ebni ju hapin e par\u00eb drejt saj, nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb mes jush. Pra, \u00ebndrra ju shtyn q\u00eb ju ta takoni k\u00ebt\u00eb vajz\u00eb, t\u2019i tregoni q\u00eb jeni i interesuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb, dhe pastaj t\u00eb shikosh reagimin e saj. Ndoshta dhe ajo pret nj\u00eb sinjal nga ty, sepse ju duket q\u00eb jeni shum\u00eb pasiv ndaj saj, p\u00ebrderisa keni par\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb till\u00eb. Duhet t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb aktiv, dhe n\u00ebse merrni p\u00ebrgjigje negative, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn ju nuk do t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni me pengje, p\u00ebrpjekjen tuaj e b\u00ebt\u00eb. Ju uroj fat.<\/p>\n

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Pula e zez\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje redaksia. Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur m\u00eb vjen nj\u00eb pul\u00eb e zez\u00eb n\u00eb preh\u00ebr dhe pas disa \u00e7astesh filloi t\u00eb tulatej dhe t\u2019i tundej koka. Mu dhimbs jasht\u00eb mase. Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb kuptimi i k\u00ebsaj \u00ebndrre, ju lutem? Faleminderit shum\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>S\u00eb pari, pula p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson an\u00ebn tuaj humane, jeni person shum\u00eb mbrojt\u00ebs ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Pak a shum\u00eb keni natyr\u00ebn e nj\u00eb n\u00ebne q\u00eb mbron gjithnj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj, qofshi ju dhe mashkull. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast tregon p\u00ebr nj\u00eb an\u00eb tuaj\u00ebn shum\u00eb t\u00eb brisht\u00eb, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb plagosur disi dhe ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesje. Si\u00e7 e b\u00ebni p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, duhet ta b\u00ebni p\u00ebr vetveten tuaj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Me t\u00eb dashurin – N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr isha ulur n\u00eb autobus me t\u00eb dashurin tim. Ishim n\u00eb fund t\u00eb autobusit. Ai d\u00ebshironte t\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte di\u00e7ka, por s\u2019po e thoshte dot. Pastaj iu drejtova un\u00eb, i thash\u00eb: \u201cKe r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me mua?\u201d Ai ma b\u00ebri me shenj\u00eb pohimi me kok\u00eb pa folur fare, dhe un\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10319","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10319","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10319"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10319\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10319"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10319"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10319"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}