{"id":10279,"date":"2015-08-26T16:30:18","date_gmt":"2015-08-26T14:30:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=10279"},"modified":"2015-08-26T11:17:19","modified_gmt":"2015-08-26T09:17:19","slug":"te-dashurin-ma-akuzoi-nje-femer-padrejtesisht","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/08\/te-dashurin-ma-akuzoi-nje-femer-padrejtesisht\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00eb dashurin ma akuzoi nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr, padrejt\u00ebsisht!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mendoni se si mund t\u00eb ndiheni kur i dashuri juaj ju thot\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb kan\u00eb akuzuar p\u00ebr p\u00ebrdhunim\u201d. Isha duke b\u00ebr\u00eb pazar dhe telefonata e tij m\u00eb shokoi, por pastaj e mblodha veten dhe i k\u00ebrkova q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb priste.<\/p>\n<p>Alberti dhe un\u00eb jemi takuar disa vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb. Lidhja jon\u00eb nuk ka qen\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb. P\u00ebrve\u00e7se ishte gjasht\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vjet m\u00eb i madh se un\u00eb, ishte edhe i martuar dhe me dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb ai po niste dokumentet e divorcit, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mos mendoni se un\u00eb jam shkaku i ndarjes s\u00eb tij me gruan. Un\u00eb, nga ana ime, kisha nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, me t\u00eb cilin kisha kat\u00ebr vjet q\u00eb isha lidhur.<\/p>\n<p>U takuam n\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb, ku ai m\u00eb tha se me gruan po ndahej p\u00ebr faj t\u00eb nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb tret\u00eb. M\u00eb e bukura ishte se ai nuk e njihte at\u00eb fem\u00ebr q\u00eb i d\u00ebrgonte mij\u00ebra mesazhe n\u00eb telefon, mesazhe dashurie, t\u00eb cilat e kishin shqet\u00ebsuar gruan e tij. Ai ishte p\u00ebrpjekur t\u2019i thoshte se nuk e njihte, por ajo nuk e besonte. Kjo situat\u00eb i kishte r\u00ebnduar edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tyre, derisa kishin vendosur q\u00eb t\u00eb divorcoheshin.<\/p>\n<p>Por gruaja n\u00eb fjal\u00eb nuk pushonte s\u00eb telefonuari apo s\u00eb d\u00ebrguari mesazhe edhe kur ai u nda nga gruaja dhe vazhdoi jet\u00ebn e tij me mua, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb Alberti u telefonoi disa miqve t\u00eb tij, p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur se nga i vinin k\u00ebto mesazhe q\u00eb po shkat\u00ebrronin jet\u00ebn e tij. Nuk ia arriti, megjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebr nj\u00ebfar\u00eb kohe ram\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb. Nis\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebnim jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Un\u00eb u ndava zyrtarisht nga i dashuri im dhe nisa t\u00eb jetoja n\u00eb apartamentin e Albertit. B\u00ebnim nj\u00eb jet\u00eb normale, duheshim dhe shijonim gj\u00ebrat e vogla dhe t\u00eb bukura q\u00eb na sillte fati.<\/p>\n<p>Pak p\u00ebrpara krishtlindjeve ai mori s\u00ebrish nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr telefonat\u00eb nga e nj\u00ebjta grua, e cila i thoshte \u201cDo t\u00eb t\u00eb vras\u201d. Tmerri nisi s\u00ebrish. Un\u00eb e detyrova t\u00eb denonconte n\u00eb polici. Mendova q\u00eb n\u00ebse polic\u00ebt do ta gjenin do ta frik\u00ebsonin dhe ajo nuk do t\u00eb na afrohej m\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Por pas disa jav\u00ebsh, Albin e mor\u00ebn n\u00eb telefon nga policia. I than\u00eb q\u00eb duhet ta merrnin n\u00eb pyetje. \u201cNdoshta e kan\u00eb kapur\u201d, m\u00eb tha ai. \u201cDo t\u00eb jet\u00eb ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb e till\u00eb, mbaje mend\u201d. Edhe un\u00eb k\u00ebshtu mendoja, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ai u nis p\u00ebr n\u00eb rajon, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb dola p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pazar. Aty mora edhe telefonat\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme. Vrapova p\u00ebr n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. M\u00eb tha se ajo ishte kapur, por u kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb polic\u00ebve se ai kishte dashur ta p\u00ebrdhunonte. Madje sipas saj, e kam droguar dhe e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb tmerrshme!\u201d. Ndihesha shum\u00eb keq, por e dija q\u00eb kjo ishte vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr. Duhet t\u00eb mendoja vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse ekzistonte ndonj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb prej k\u00ebsaj, apo jo. Alberti ishte shum\u00eb i m\u00ebrzitur. Nuk donte q\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhej publike, sepse karriera dhe biznesi i tij do t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrroheshin. Dhe nga kush? Nga nj\u00eb njeri dhe disa g\u00ebnjeshtra. E pyesja \u00e7far\u00eb kishte nd\u00ebrmend t\u00eb b\u00ebnte, por n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb kishte vendosur vet\u00ebm t\u00eb priste. Gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe, as edhe nj\u00eb moment nuk e vura n\u00eb dyshim pafaj\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij. Ishte nga m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e tij, kishte arritur majat dhe n\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb nuk do t\u2019i rrezikonte t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto. Pastaj, ai ishte nj\u00eb njeri i mir\u00eb dhe i but\u00eb e kurrsesi nuk mund t\u2019ia b\u00ebnte nj\u00eb femre t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto.<\/p>\n<p>Ama, ndihesha e dob\u00ebt fizikisht dhe psikologjikisht. Mbytesha n\u00eb lot me dit\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra, por p\u00ebrpiqesha q\u00eb ai t\u00eb mos m\u00eb shihte, pasi nuk doja t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitej edhe p\u00ebr mua. Fol\u00ebm me avokatin e Albertit q\u00eb nis\u00ebn ta takonin at\u00eb grua dhe t\u00eb bisedonin me t\u00eb. Fatmir\u00ebsisht, Alberti nuk po binte n\u00eb pesimiz\u00ebm nga kjo situat\u00eb. Nuk u mbyll\u00ebm n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Shkonim n\u00ebp\u00ebr festa, visheshim me rrobat tona m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura, donim q\u00eb ta mposhtnim k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb me optimiz\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Nga avokat\u00ebt nuk po merrnim lajme t\u00eb mira. Me sa dukej, ajo grua ishte e vendosur q\u00eb t\u2019i vazhdonte deri n\u00eb fund akuzat e saj, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb un\u00eb mendova ta takonim t\u00eb dy, un\u00eb dhe Alberti. N\u00ebse ajo e kishte persekutuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb di\u00e7ka duhet t\u00eb kishte. Mbase ishte m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb flisnim vet\u00eb me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>At\u00eb dit\u00eb pash\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e gruas q\u00eb na e kishte nxir\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Nuk ishte e sh\u00ebmtuar. Pas or\u00ebve t\u00eb t\u00ebra q\u00eb biseduam me t\u00eb, ajo nisi t\u00eb qante. Tha se Albertin e kishte njohur gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb feste t\u00eb Vitit t\u00eb Ri, ku ajo kishte shkuar me t\u00eb dashurin e saj. Ky i fundit paska qen\u00eb mik i Albertit, ndaj dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ka qen\u00eb e leht\u00eb ta gjente numrin e tij. Ajo kishte r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me Albin. Gjith\u00e7ka kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb, ishte nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u2019i r\u00ebn\u00eb atij n\u00eb sy. Tha se ishte ndar\u00eb me t\u00eb dashurin e saj, vet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb lidhej me Albertin\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ajo grua ishte shum\u00eb e s\u00ebmur\u00eb. Ua tham\u00eb avokat\u00ebve k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb dhe ata nis\u00ebn ta shihnin \u00e7\u00ebshtjen nga nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00eb n\u00eb fund, po merrnim frym\u00eb lirisht. Albi vendosi, n\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim me avokat\u00ebt, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e akuzonte at\u00eb grua. Familja e saj, e cila nuk dinte asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, premtoi se do ta kuronte vajz\u00ebn ashtu si\u00e7 duhej. P\u00ebr ne, sikur nisi nj\u00eb jet\u00eb e re, megjith\u00ebse pasojat vazhdonin. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebgjoja zilen e celularit, m\u00eb dridhej zemra. Edhe kur ecja n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, m\u00eb dukej sikur m\u00eb ndiqnin, ama nuk ka ndodhur m\u00eb asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr e \u00e7uditshme. Pas gjith\u00eb asaj, un\u00eb dhe Albi vendos\u00ebm t\u00eb b\u00ebnim dy jav\u00eb pushime. Aty iu dedikuam vetes ton\u00eb dhe nuk b\u00ebm\u00eb asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Rikujtova se p\u00ebrse isha dashuruar me at\u00eb njeri, p\u00ebr forc\u00ebn dhe mir\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb kishte brenda vetes. Kan\u00eb qen\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme, q\u00eb na kthyen s\u00ebrish n\u00eb normalitet. Fal\u00ebnderoj Zotin q\u00eb ka qen\u00eb kaq i mir\u00eb me ne, sepse kushedi \u00e7\u2019rrjedh\u00eb mund t\u00eb merrte kjo situat\u00eb. Sot jetojm\u00eb t\u00eb dy n\u00eb apartamentin e Albit dhe po planifikojm\u00eb martes\u00ebn. Jam shum\u00eb, shum\u00eb e lumtur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mendoni se si mund t\u00eb ndiheni kur i dashuri juaj ju thot\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb kan\u00eb akuzuar p\u00ebr p\u00ebrdhunim\u201d. Isha duke b\u00ebr\u00eb pazar dhe telefonata e tij m\u00eb shokoi, por pastaj e mblodha veten dhe i k\u00ebrkova q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb priste. Alberti dhe un\u00eb jemi takuar disa vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb. Lidhja jon\u00eb nuk ka qen\u00eb shum\u00eb e [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10279","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10279","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10279"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10279\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}