{"id":10212,"date":"2015-08-13T13:30:38","date_gmt":"2015-08-13T11:30:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=10212"},"modified":"2015-08-13T13:28:06","modified_gmt":"2015-08-13T11:28:06","slug":"10-gjera-qe-nje-grua-nuk-duhet-tia-thote-burrit-te-saj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/08\/10-gjera-qe-nje-grua-nuk-duhet-tia-thote-burrit-te-saj\/","title":{"rendered":"10 gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua nuk duhet t\u2019ia thot\u00eb burrit t\u00eb saj"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong> \u201cNuk ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr pasione t\u00eb tjera, ke grua tani\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb pasioni b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb; futboll, poker me shok\u00ebt, apo rafting, fakti q\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb burri juaj nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se jeta e tij sillet rrotull jush. Inkurajojeni t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe gjeni edhe ju vet\u00eb nj\u00eb pasion me t\u00eb cilin mund t\u00eb merreni. Mbi t\u00eb gjitha, zbuloni gj\u00ebra q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen t\u2019i b\u00ebni s\u00eb bashku dhe gjeni koh\u00eb p\u00ebr to \u00e7do jav\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong> \u201cTi nuk mund t\u00eb kesh shoqe\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>N\u00ebse burri juaj nuk ka probleme me tradhtin\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb ai nuk ka pse t\u00eb ndjehet keq q\u00eb ka shoqe. Si p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb martes\u00eb, ju duhet t\u00eb negocioni edhe p\u00ebr disa kufij rreth intimitetit, p\u00ebr shembull se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me t\u00eb dhe sa koh\u00eb mund t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb ata s\u00eb bashku pa pranin\u00eb tuaj. Por, fakti q\u00eb ju b\u00ebheni gruaja e tij, nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ai automatikisht duhet t\u00eb heq\u00eb dor\u00eb nga gjith\u00eb shoq\u00ebria e vjet\u00ebr dhe e re.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong> \u201cTi je burri, pra, ti duhet ta mbash familjen\u201d. <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb luftojm\u00eb p\u00ebr barazin\u00eb (megjith\u00ebse ende nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb arritur, pasi grat\u00eb paguhen m\u00eb pak se burrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn pun\u00eb), ju nuk mund t\u2019i thoni burrit fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tilla. Nj\u00eb grua duhet ta pranoj\u00eb faktin se burri i saj mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb rrog\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl se vet\u00eb ajo. Fakti q\u00eb e vini para p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb se merr nj\u00eb rrog\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, nuk e motivon at\u00eb t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb, thjesht e shtyn t\u00eb indinjohet kund\u00ebr jush.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong> \u201cUn\u00eb jam mamaja dhe di se \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Baballar\u00ebt e sot\u00ebm po angazhohen me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kurr\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt tona, duke ua leht\u00ebsuar pun\u00ebn mamave. Grat\u00eb tani ndjehen t\u00eb lidhura me burrat n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00ebnat dhe gjyshet tona nuk e kan\u00eb provuar kurr\u00eb. Nj\u00eb baba i p\u00ebrkushtuar \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e \u00e7muar p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt! Por kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ju nuk lejoheni t\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00e7moni dhe kritikoni burrin tuaj p\u00ebr kujdesin ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. N\u00ebse ai nuk po b\u00ebn ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb duket e rrezikshme, l\u00ebreni t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe shijoni lidhjet e forta q\u00eb krijohen mes tyre.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong> \u201cB\u00ebhu burr\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>N\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, ideja e vjet\u00ebr se burrat nuk duhet t\u00eb qajn\u00eb apo t\u00eb tregohen t\u00eb dob\u00ebt gjen rrug\u00ebn e saj edhe n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Si bashk\u00ebshort \u00ebsht\u00eb detyra juaj t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesni nevojat emocionale t\u00eb partnerit, pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse jeni burr\u00eb apo grua. K\u00ebshtu, pra, besojeni kur ju tregon ndjenjat dhe eksperiencat e tij e kurr\u00eb mos ndjeni turp p\u00ebr ndjenjat q\u00eb shfaq.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li><strong> \u201cNuk t\u00eb dua m\u00eb\u201d <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Njer\u00ebzit, kur jan\u00eb t\u00eb nxehur, thon\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat m\u00eb pas pendohen, por t\u2019i thoni burrit se nuk e doni m\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kufi t\u00eb cilin nuk duhet ta kap\u00ebrceni. Dashuria duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrveprimeve tuaja, edhe kur jeni t\u00eb zem\u00ebruar. Ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb monedh\u00eb emocionale, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn mund ta jap\u00ebsh dhe ta marr\u00ebsh sipas qejfit.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li><strong> \u201cDo t\u00eb doja ta kishe penisin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Shumica e grave nuk ua thon\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt burrave se kan\u00eb penis t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, por nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ato mendojn\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb zbavit\u00ebse t\u00eb b\u00ebsh shaka me k\u00ebt\u00eb. Mos e b\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e mir\u00eb. Burri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb ia v\u00eb shum\u00eb theksin madh\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb penisit. N\u00ebse vini n\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje burr\u00ebrin\u00eb e tij, at\u00ebher\u00eb do ta b\u00ebni t\u00eb ndjehet shum\u00eb keq.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li><strong> \u201cN\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e lumtur gruaja, \u00ebsht\u00eb e lumtur edhe martesa\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shprehje e vjet\u00ebr dhe e bukur, por nuk ka pse t\u00eb ket\u00eb kuptim vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr grat\u00eb. Edhe nevojat dhe ndjenjat e burrit jan\u00eb po aq t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme sa t\u00eb gruas. M\u00eb e sakt\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte \u201cN\u00ebse jan\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt, edhe martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb e lumtur\u201d. Kjo th\u00ebnie jo vet\u00ebm vlen p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha llojet e \u00e7ifteve, tradicionale apo jo, por gjithashtu i v\u00eb para p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortin\/en e tyre t\u00eb lumtur.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"9\">\n<li><strong> \u201cJo, i dashur, nuk kam bler\u00eb gj\u00eb&#8230;\u201d (kur e dini q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb!)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Ekziston nj\u00eb barcalet\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr grat\u00eb q\u00eb mundohen t\u00eb fshehin \u00e7antat e pazarit dhe burrat q\u00eb zem\u00ebrohen kur vjen fatura e kart\u00ebs s\u00eb kreditit. E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se sjelljet tin\u00ebzare mund t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb. Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se cili prej jush po fsheh pazarin q\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb; t\u00eb g\u00ebnjesh p\u00ebr parat\u00eb q\u00eb ke shpenzuar \u00ebsht\u00eb prap\u00eb se prap\u00eb nj\u00eb g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"10\">\n<li><strong> \u201cKur isha me ish-in tim&#8230;\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Po, ju mund t\u00eb flisni p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn, edhe p\u00ebr disa histori q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb ish-in tuaj, por mos b\u00ebni krahasime mes gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb b\u00ebnte ish-i, me ato q\u00eb b\u00ebn burri juaj. T\u00eb lavd\u00ebroni ish-in se i hidhte vet\u00eb plehrat pa ia k\u00ebrkuar ju \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb manipulim dhe prej k\u00ebsaj nuk do t\u00eb fitoni gj\u00eb, ve\u00e7 nj\u00eb z\u00ebnke me burrin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u201cNuk ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr pasione t\u00eb tjera, ke grua tani\u201d Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb pasioni b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb; futboll, poker me shok\u00ebt, apo rafting, fakti q\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb burri juaj nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se jeta e tij sillet rrotull jush. Inkurajojeni t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe gjeni edhe [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10212","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10212","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10212"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10212\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10212"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10212"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10212"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}