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Cigare dhe djem<\/strong><\/p>\n – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur piva cigare me shum\u00eb qejf dhe m\u00eb von\u00eb m\u00eb ndiqnin disa djem. <\/strong><\/p>\n – <\/strong>N\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme, ju jeni e gatshme ta merrni gjith\u00eb rrezikun p\u00ebr vete, vet\u00ebm e vet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb mos d\u00ebmtoni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt rreth jush. Pirja e cigares n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste tregon k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb ju thash\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk e keni problem t\u00eb d\u00ebmtoni veten dhe tjetrit s\u2019i b\u00ebni dot keq. Ndjekja e djemve simbolizon shmangien nga diskutimet, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos patur probleme.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Njeriu i zemr\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n – N\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pash\u00eb sikur njeriu i zemr\u00ebs kishte ardhur nga nj\u00eb vend dhe i ati m\u00eb tha p\u00ebr t\u00eb: \u201cDua ta l\u00eb t\u00eb pushoj\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb lodhur\u201d. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n – N\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre n\u00eb n\u00ebnd\u00ebrgjegjen tuaj mendoni se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb lodhur me ju dhe kjo gj\u00eb ju tremb shum\u00eb. E keni menduar, por nuk ia shprehni. N\u00ebse shikoni se ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkon mes jush, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb jeni e drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu edhe do t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma me ju apo ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb reflektoj\u00eb rreth lidhjes tuaj. Pra, \u00ebndrra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh k\u00ebshillues.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Komshiu dhe f\u00ebmija<\/strong><\/p>\n – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb komshiut tim, sikur m\u00eb mori n\u00eb krah\u00eb dhe m\u00eb dha nj\u00eb injeksion q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb mbetem shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Ai ma dha papritmas dhe un\u00eb thash\u00eb: \u201cSi ta mbaj un\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb huaj n\u00eb bark? Pastaj, mua nuk m\u00eb ka prekur njeri, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb jam e virgj\u00ebr, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt?\u201d. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb, ju lutem?<\/strong><\/p>\n – \u00cbndrra juaj tregon s\u00eb pari q\u00eb ju po rriteni, tregon nevoj\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr afeksion fizik. Edhe pse ju mund ta mohoni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, e ndjeni nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb dhe keni turp ta pranoni edhe p\u00ebrpara vetes. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb turp q\u00eb ndjeni ato \u00e7far\u00eb ndjeni, sepse jan\u00eb nevoja fiziologjike t\u00eb cilat i kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe jan\u00eb faza q\u00eb i kalojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Komshiu p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson mashkullin n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, ndjesit\u00eb tuaja jo ndaj atij, por n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr ngroht\u00ebsi dhe dashuri. F\u00ebmija tregon planet tuaja, at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni ju, por nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht tregon edhe natyr\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb mbyllur, m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb asaj \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, sesa sepse ashtu jeni vet\u00eb. Duhet t\u00eb pushoni s\u00eb menduari se \u00e7far\u00eb mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Jetoni p\u00ebr veten dhe mos shikoni \u00e7far\u00eb thon\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e juaja dhe duhet ta jetoni si t\u00eb vij\u00eb. Edhe nga gabimet m\u00ebsojm\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n K\u00ebpuc\u00ebt dhe f\u00ebmija<\/strong><\/p>\n – \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikosh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr duke mbajtur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb krah\u00eb? Nuk ishte i imi, por i dikujt tjet\u00ebr. Ngado q\u00eb shkoja, f\u00ebmija nuk m\u00eb ndahej. Disa net radhazi kam par\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb q\u00eb dua t\u2019i blej, por ka disa q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb, ka disa nga ato q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb, por m\u2019i blen dikush tjet\u00ebr. Pra, shoh dik\u00eb q\u00eb mundohet t\u00eb blej\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt e mia…<\/strong><\/p>\n – <\/strong>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr kan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime, por n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb pafaj\u00ebsin\u00eb, natyr\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb brisht\u00eb, \u00e7ilt\u00ebrsin\u00eb, plane t\u00eb reja, fillime, por ka raste edhe shtypje, gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebs. N\u00eb rastin tuaj \u00ebsht\u00eb g\u00ebzim dhe mbar\u00ebsi t\u00eb mbash nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb krah, edhe pse e dini q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i juaji, nd\u00ebrsa k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb mendimet tuaja t\u00eb koklavitura. Nuk jeni natyr\u00eb e vendosur; sa merrni nj\u00eb vendim p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka, menj\u00ebher\u00eb pendoheni. Keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb vendime p\u00ebr ju, t\u2019ju shtyj\u00eb. Jeni natyr\u00eb e pavendosur dhe kjo do t\u2019ju krijoj\u00eb pak penges\u00eb n\u00eb marrjen e vendimeve. Edhe k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt kan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime, por n\u00eb rastin konkret, kan\u00eb lidhje me vendimet tuaja n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Cigare dhe djem – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur piva cigare me shum\u00eb qejf dhe m\u00eb von\u00eb m\u00eb ndiqnin disa djem. – N\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme, ju jeni e gatshme ta merrni gjith\u00eb rrezikun p\u00ebr vete, vet\u00ebm e vet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb mos d\u00ebmtoni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt rreth jush. 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