P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! S\u00eb pari, para se t\u00eb filloj ta shkruaj k\u00ebt\u00eb histori, dua t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj t\u00eb gjith\u00eb punonj\u00ebsit e redaksis\u00eb s\u00eb gazet\u00ebs s\u00eb mrekullueshme \u201cIntervista\u201d q\u00eb na dhuron mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb historit\u00eb q\u00eb ndodhin n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Po shkruaj edhe un\u00eb historin\u00eb time q\u00eb vijon si m\u00eb posht\u00eb…<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb emigrant q\u00eb ndodhem n\u00eb Itali dhe quhem Isuf Peshtanaku. N\u00eb vitin 2011, vajta n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar pushimet verore t\u00eb muajit gusht dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u \u00e7mallur me familjen. Pas tri dit\u00ebve vendosa t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb plazh n\u00eb Sarand\u00eb, Dh\u00ebrmi e Himar\u00eb. Mbas gjasht\u00eb dit\u00ebve u njoha me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb e quajn\u00eb Denisa. E ftova q\u00eb t\u00eb pinim di\u00e7ka freskuese n\u00eb nj\u00eb lokal q\u00eb ndodhet buz\u00eb detit dhe filluam t\u00eb bisedonim me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat e kaluara; ajo t\u00eb vetat e un\u00eb t\u00eb miat. M\u00eb pas biseduam p\u00ebr d\u00ebshirat e jet\u00ebs n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen e pas t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb diskutuam, para se t\u00eb ngriheshim nga lokali, shk\u00ebmbyem numrat e telefonit p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb kontakt me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Mbas nj\u00eb ore bised\u00eb u ndam\u00eb me nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt dhe nga darka, ajo m\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi nj\u00eb mesazh q\u00eb t\u00eb takoheshim p\u00ebrs\u00ebri t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen. N\u00eb sms m\u00eb tha: \u201cN\u00eb ato momente kur isha me ty ndjehesha e qet\u00eb dhe e lumtur, por kisha shum\u00eb emocione q\u00eb t\u00eb flisja hapur dhe lirisht e prandaj po t\u00eb d\u00ebrgoj k\u00ebt\u00eb sms\u201d. Un\u00eb iu p\u00ebrgjigja me sms q\u00eb do t\u00eb takoheshim p\u00ebrs\u00ebri t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen e do t\u00eb flisnim gjer\u00eb e gjat\u00eb e m\u00eb hapur p\u00ebr t\u2019u njohur m\u00eb mir\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen k\u00ebshtu ndodhi; ajo m\u00eb mori n\u00eb telefon dhe e lam\u00eb vendtakimin po tek i nj\u00ebjti lokal ku kishim pir\u00eb s\u00eb bashku. Un\u00eb mora makin\u00ebn dhe vajta te lokali ku kishim l\u00ebn\u00eb takimin, parkova makin\u00ebn dhe e pash\u00eb q\u00eb ishte ulur n\u00eb tavolin\u00eb n\u00eb verand\u00ebn e lokalit. Vajta dhe e pyeta: \u201cke shum\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb po m\u00eb pret?\u201d. Ajo m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201cGjys\u00ebm ore kam q\u00eb kam ardhur\u201d. Ne mor\u00ebm di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb e pastaj po bisedonim gjer\u00eb e gjat\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do fush\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. M\u00eb tha se i p\u00eblqente t\u00eb b\u00ebnim nj\u00eb xhiro buz\u00eb detit dhe vazhduam t\u00eb flisnim p\u00ebr d\u00ebshirat e jet\u00ebs. N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment, ajo m\u2019u drejtua me k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje:<\/p>\n
– \u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen m\u00eb shum\u00eb te nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb preferon t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nusja jote?<\/p>\n
Iu p\u00ebrgjigja se te nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb thjesht\u00ebsia, sinqeriteti e t\u00eb jet\u00eb e edukuar. Ajo m\u00eb pa n\u00eb sy dhe m\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n
– Do ta dish realitetin e jet\u00ebs sime? T\u00eb intereson?<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb iu p\u00ebrgjigja: – Po, m\u00eb p\u00eblqen ta di realitetin t\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n
Ajo nisi t\u00eb m\u00eb tregonte nj\u00eb histori dashurie q\u00eb e kishte zhg\u00ebnjyer dhe n\u00eb mes t\u00eb historis\u00eb nuk po i dilnin fjal\u00ebt nga goja e filloi t\u00eb qante. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment i hodha dor\u00ebn n\u00eb qaf\u00eb, i thash\u00eb q\u00eb \u201cme t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb po m\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ka ndodhur\u201d dhe vazhdova t\u2019i fshija lot\u00ebt. Ajo m\u2019u afrua me lot\u00ebt n\u00eb sy e m\u00eb dhuroi nj\u00eb puthje q\u00eb m\u00eb la pa fjal\u00eb. Puthja e saj m\u00eb b\u00ebri q\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeja dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb po hapte der\u00ebn e zemr\u00ebs sime. M\u00eb pas vazhdova ta puthja p\u00ebr dhjet\u00eb minuta pa pushuar. Gjat\u00eb puthjeve m\u00eb thoshte q\u00eb m\u00eb donte shum\u00eb e m\u00eb pyeti n\u00ebse e doja edhe un\u00eb. N\u00eb at\u00eb moment i thash\u00eb:<\/p>\n
– M\u00eb l\u00ebr pak koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201ct\u00eb dua\u201d. T\u00eb mendohem para se ta them, se \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb thuash \u201ct\u00eb dua\u201d, por \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb ta mbash, se zhg\u00ebnjimi t\u00eb hidh\u00ebron si\u00e7 e di dhe ti vet\u00eb…<\/p>\n
Ajo m\u00eb tha: – T\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj p\u00ebr sinqeritetin q\u00eb ke e po tregon ndaj meje.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu, b\u00ebra nj\u00eb muaj plazh bashk\u00eb me t\u00eb dhe po i vinte fundi koh\u00ebs s\u00eb pushimeve. Un\u00eb e kisha vendosur q\u00eb t\u00eb ikja p\u00ebr n\u00eb Itali mbas pes\u00eb dit\u00ebve dhe i tregova asaj. Ajo nisi t\u00eb qante dhe m\u00eb thoashte se nuk rrinte dot pa mua. I thash\u00eb se mua po m\u00eb priste puna n\u00eb Itali e m\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ikja patjet\u00ebr. Ajo m\u00eb tha: \u201cM\u00eb merr edhe mua me vete me k\u00ebto vizat tre mujore\u201d.<\/p>\n
Pranova t\u00eb vinte, n\u00ebse e lejonte familja dhe ajo m\u00eb tha se i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb si mamit, ashtu edhe babit dhe ata i kishin th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cti e di vet\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde\u201d.<\/p>\n
Fjal\u00ebt e saj m\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb mendohesha shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb vendim t\u00eb till\u00eb. T\u00eb them t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, edhe mua m\u00eb kishte hyr\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr dashuria e saj dhe ndjeja shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, por nuk e tregoja veten ndaj Denis\u00ebs q\u00eb un\u00eb e dua kaq shum\u00eb e nuk e lash\u00eb q\u00eb ta kuptonte nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. U mendova para se t\u00eb vendosja p\u00ebr t\u00eb ikur n\u00eb Itali, e mora n\u00eb telefon dhe i thash\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente t\u00eb pija nj\u00eb kafe te sht\u00ebpia e saj e t\u00eb bisedoja pak edhe me prind\u00ebrit saj. Ajo m\u00eb tha se ata m\u00eb mir\u00ebprisnin.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb i shkova te sht\u00ebpia dhe prind\u00ebrit e saj u g\u00ebzuan kur m\u00eb pan\u00eb te porta e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Ne biseduam gjer\u00eb e gjat\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb dhe me fjal\u00ebn e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb saj, e mora me vete n\u00eb Itali. Gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb q\u00ebndrova me t\u00eb n\u00eb Itali, u ndjeva edhe m\u00eb i dashuruar pas Denis\u00ebs. Edhe ajo m\u00eb thoshte se m\u00eb donte m\u00eb shum\u00eb se jet\u00ebn e saj, por pas dy muajve ajo m\u00eb iku nga sht\u00ebpia pa m\u00eb treguar fare. Un\u00eb nuk e dija se nga kishte ikur dhe numrin e kishte thyer, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos l\u00ebn\u00eb gjurm\u00eb pas q\u00eb ta gjeja. Un\u00eb e k\u00ebrkova p\u00ebr nj\u00eb muaj t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb dhe si p\u00ebrfundim, nuk e mora vesh fare arsyen e ikjes s\u00eb saj. I telefonova familjes s\u00eb saj se mos kishte ikur n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe ata m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj\u00ebn duke qar\u00eb se nuk ndodhej as n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe se nuk i kishte telefonuar fare, se kishin nj\u00eb muaj pa i d\u00ebgjuar z\u00ebrin. E sqarova familjen e saj se p\u00ebr mua nuk kishte pasur asnj\u00eb arsye q\u00eb t\u00eb ikte nga sht\u00ebpia.<\/p>\n
Mbas gjasht\u00eb muajve, kur u ktheva nga pun\u00eb n\u00eb dark\u00eb, zbrita nga makina p\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb te sht\u00ebpia, kur pash\u00eb q\u00eb ishte Denisa. Nuk po u besoja dot syve t\u00eb mi! Ajo po m\u00eb shikonte q\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u2019i thoja un\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb moment. Mendova ta p\u00ebrzija nga sht\u00ebpia q\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb moment pa e pyetur fare, por nga kurioziteti p\u00ebr t\u00eb ditur arsyen se p\u00ebrse kishte ikur, i thash\u00eb \u201cmir\u00ebmbr\u00ebma\u201d dhe ajo m\u00eb tha \u201cm\u00eb fal\u201d. I thash\u00eb: \u201cHajde hyr brenda n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb pim\u00eb di\u00e7ka dhe t\u00eb flasim pak\u201d.<\/p>\n
Ajo filloi t\u00eb m\u00eb tregonte duke qar\u00eb se p\u00ebrse kishte ikur nga sht\u00ebpia pa m\u00eb pyetur fare. Arsyeja ishte se i p\u00eblqente jeta e rrug\u00ebs dhe lek\u00ebt, p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb luksoze me mua. Nga ai moment i thash\u00eb t\u00eb largohej sa m\u00eb par\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia ime, se nuk po e shikoja dot me sy.<\/p>\n
– Harroje sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time dhe emrin tim p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde! – i thash\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ajo po qante dhe m\u00eb tha: – Seriozisht e ke q\u00eb t\u00eb mos shihemi m\u00eb?<\/p>\n
– Nuk dua ta p\u00ebrs\u00ebris dy her\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb! – i thash\u00eb, ndon\u00ebse un\u00eb e doja me gjith\u00eb zem\u00ebr, doja t\u00eb martohesha e t\u00eb kaloja jet\u00ebn me t\u00eb…<\/p>\n
Ajo p\u00ebrs\u00ebri interesohet shum\u00eb p\u00ebr mua e m\u00eb gjen \u00e7do num\u00ebr t\u00eb telefonit q\u00eb e kam nd\u00ebrruar disa her\u00eb prej saj, por dashuria q\u00eb kisha n\u00eb zem\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb, m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb urrejtje. Sa her\u00eb b\u00ebj q\u00eb t\u00eb njoh nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, kur e merr vesh ajo q\u00eb jam lidhur me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, m\u00eb prish pun\u00eb. Jam n\u00eb udh\u00ebkryq e nuk e di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj e si t\u00eb veproj? Ju lutem, i dashur lexues, mund t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmoni me ndonj\u00eb mendim se ajo po ma nxin jet\u00ebn dita-dit\u00ebs? Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb i interesuar q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb me ndonj\u00eb mendim, adresa ime \u00ebsht\u00eb si\u00e7 vijon m\u00eb posht\u00eb. Ju p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! S\u00eb pari, para se t\u00eb filloj ta shkruaj k\u00ebt\u00eb histori, dua t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj t\u00eb gjith\u00eb punonj\u00ebsit e redaksis\u00eb s\u00eb gazet\u00ebs s\u00eb mrekullueshme \u201cIntervista\u201d q\u00eb na dhuron mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb historit\u00eb q\u00eb ndodhin n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Po shkruaj edhe un\u00eb historin\u00eb time q\u00eb vijon si m\u00eb posht\u00eb… Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb emigrant q\u00eb ndodhem n\u00eb Itali […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10091","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10091","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10091"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10091\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10091"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10091"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10091"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}