{"id":10049,"date":"2015-07-22T14:30:39","date_gmt":"2015-07-22T12:30:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=10049"},"modified":"2015-07-22T14:03:33","modified_gmt":"2015-07-22T12:03:33","slug":"jam-e-bukur-por-prape-dicka-me-mungon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2015\/07\/jam-e-bukur-por-prape-dicka-me-mungon\/","title":{"rendered":"Jam e bukur, por prap\u00eb, di\u00e7ka m\u00eb mungon"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; <strong>Kam kaluar nj\u00eb adoleshenc\u00eb t\u00eb vuajtur, nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb ku, si\u00e7 thot\u00eb fjala e urt\u00eb, \u201ct\u00eb keqes hapi der\u00ebn\u201d. Problemet familjare m\u00eb shkaktuan nj\u00eb vuajtje q\u00eb m\u00eb mbylli n\u00eb vetvete. U sh\u00ebndosha dhe e lash\u00eb veten pas dore. U ktheva n\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojtur, t\u00eb tallur keqazi nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, t\u00eb paaft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb reaguar. Prej tyre, m\u00ebsova ironin\u00eb. U ftoha si njeri. Sot jam ndryshe. Me pun\u00eb kam rifituar bukurin\u00eb e vet\u00ebbesimin. Ata q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb vuaj, i kam falur, por s\u2019e kam harruar \u00e7\u2019m\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb. Prap\u00eb, di\u00e7ka m\u00eb mungon&#8230; \u00c7\u2019mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e si ta luftoj? Do ta vler\u00ebsoja shum\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb tuaj\u00ebn&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Borana Marku, psikologe: &#8211; <\/strong><strong>Un\u00eb gjithashtu vler\u00ebsoj k\u00ebrkes\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrballur me di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk ju l\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni mir\u00eb, por duhet t\u00eb keni parasysh q\u00eb psikologu nuk mund t\u00eb hamend\u00ebsoj<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong>. Ai bazohet n\u00eb faktet q\u00eb i jepni ju si lexues dhe kur k\u00ebto jan\u00eb sa m\u00eb t\u00eb plota, i b\u00ebjn\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrgjigjet e mia m\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura me shqet\u00ebsimin tuaj. Un<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> kuptoj t<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> kaluar<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong>n tuaj t<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, e cila duket n\u00eb at\u00eb pjes\u00ebn q\u00eb mendoni se ju mungon, nj\u00eb e kaluar q\u00eb do t<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> kishit dashur t<\/strong><strong>\u00eb<\/strong><strong> ishte ndryshe. T\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn nuk e keni harruar, vet\u00ebm e keni shtypur q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ju shkaktoj\u00eb dhimbje n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen. Eksperiencat e v\u00ebshtira mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrpunohen kur sillen n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb t\u00eb zhveshura nga emocionet negative dhe kur pranon t\u00eb jetosh me to. Ndryshimet q\u00eb keni p\u00ebsuar jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr t\u2019ju mund\u00ebsuar t\u00eb jetoni e qet\u00eb dhe vazhdoni t\u00eb punoni me vet\u00ebbesimin q\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni sa m\u00eb pak e paplot\u00ebsuar kur p\u00ebrballeni me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Kam kaluar nj\u00eb adoleshenc\u00eb t\u00eb vuajtur, nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb ku, si\u00e7 thot\u00eb fjala e urt\u00eb, \u201ct\u00eb keqes hapi der\u00ebn\u201d. Problemet familjare m\u00eb shkaktuan nj\u00eb vuajtje q\u00eb m\u00eb mbylli n\u00eb vetvete. U sh\u00ebndosha dhe e lash\u00eb veten pas dore. U ktheva n\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojtur, t\u00eb tallur keqazi nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, t\u00eb paaft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10049","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10049","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10049"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10049\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10049"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10049"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10049"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}